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Why is it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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4 line profile and nondescript pictures.
Sorry to say this but couples and single ladies can pick from thousands of single men so you really have to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously though, women are vastly outnumbered here, most have been fucked about, had abuse thrown at them etc etc so on and so on.
I rarely bother to send messages now, and when I do I seem to automatically forget I sent them. Forum's is where it's at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The status is so negative would put most off. A fiver a month eh? Most other sites charge at least twice that for full membership, often more. Maybe try the real world rather than a swingers site, you know, real women in the flesh? Or is this your last resort?  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok  "
Funny? 
You seem to be contradicting your current status update! 
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
sell yourself more in your profile, get involved in the forum and raise your profile here. Are there any social or clubs that you could go to, that really helps build a network of friends etc etc.
good luck
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"
It's not a fee. It's a donation. You don't have to pay it. It's a choice.
By way of a thank you, Admin gives a few small bonus features to supporters. You get those, the same as all the other donors. That's what the money pays for. It's got nothing to do with meets. |
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"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"
all that means is that you have access to certain enhanced features.
Are you suggesting that the women on here should meet you because you've paid £5...really?
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"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok And what???? "
Ya pay's ya monet, ya takes ya choice. Why's it not working for the OP?  |
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"All I'm saying is in trying"
Have you thought of going to a social or maybe a club? It can be very difficult for single men and even more so at each end of the age scale.
As you have discovered people don't take too well to anyone who thinks they're entitled to a meet just because they are on here so maybe join on the forums in a positive way, get yourself noticed in a good way.
Good luck |
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"There should really be a separate
part of the forum for single male advice!!!
With some 'sticky' (apt!) topics covering the most common questions/issues."
I have suggested this many times on the forum. The same old same old moaning whingeing could be addressed in a separate room or as you say a sticky topic where the advice is permanently available |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah ! A genuine person ! That's ok then . So many people on here claim they are not genuine. . It makes a refreshing change to hear from someone that is ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Silly boy don't you know that it is your personality that is putting people off an I have only had a few meets but I have no expectations of meeting anyone, that way, if you don't get meets its not a disappointment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah ! A genuine person ! That's ok then . So many people on here claim they are not genuine. . It makes a refreshing change to hear from someone that is ! "
Lol fuckin hilarious hahaha |
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"Silly boy don't you know that it is your personality that is putting people off an I have only had a few meets but I have no expectations of meeting anyone, that way, if you don't get meets its not a disappointment "
Bloomin heck no need to get personal. He's young, he's misunderstood the purpose of the site and he's learning by his mistakes. |
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You would probably do really well if you were gay or bi.. Most ladies find 23 far too young. Silver membership is actually £2:50 a month.. You get to see extra photos for that. It doesnt entitle you to meet..  Join in the forums go to socials.
good luck.. dont be despondant  |
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I have no idea where this sense of entitlement comes from with some people on here.
We are not here to entertain you - you have to bring something to the table and you clearly haven't.
Have you taken time to read the forums and look at other profiles and compare yourself to those who seem to be getting out there and meeting people?
Take some time out for reflection and ask yourself maybe it is yourself which is the common denominator not the thousands of people on here who don't know you from Adam.
That said - good luck! |
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....... IMAGINE YOU CAN WIN £1M ......
All you have to do is come up with a great profile.Interesting,funny,actually inviting a woman to stop and read and consider you OVER MANY MANY GUYS HERE... Who are all doing a better job ..
Grasp that and you get alot nearer the `prize`  |
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"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think 
They are lol I'm shy lol
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Something like that us a big step. I felt daunted the first time we went to a large
social and I'm part of a couple. Try and see if there are any socials in your area and make contact with other people who are going first....you won't feel so alone then.
We all started somewhere it's just that a lot of people forget that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"
poor guy its not his fault the blame lays with fabs after all hes paid his money so why shouldnt he expect to have a minimum of buy one get one free meet or even nectar points ........ Oh i forgot its a swinging site not a supermarket |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok "
Maybe check your spelling and punctuation. how about some more photos too. sorry but if I was thinking of meeting you, which I wouldnt, age etc. it would put me off. You have a verification so it's not that bad obviously. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, women are vastly outnumbered here, most have been fucked about, had abuse thrown at them etc etc so on and so on.
I rarely bother to send messages now, and when I do I seem to automatically forget I sent them. Forum's is where it's at"
Here here I second that  |
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