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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all thanks for taking a few minutes to read this a possibly share your views.
My gf and I decided a few days that the swinging scene is one we would like to explore and both agreed that the thought of going to a club/party would be an experience we would find very exciting.
As we are both quite young and new, has anybody got any advice for us regarding clubs/parties..are there any that are places for new people to the scene or are they all pretty accommodating.
If anybody would like us to join them so they can show us around that would be good.
Look forward to reading your replies/
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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parties are a good way if you up for full swinging straight off or a lot of newbies go to a social evening first to get to know a lot of ppl. Clubs are good for sex but if you newbies best to try and go with a few people from the chat room x enjoy and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your comments...will take note...which is the best chatroom to go in if you want to chat...assuming not the directing room...people just seem distracted lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There seems to be a lot of socials round your way,have a look in the events section and put your name down for one,its a good way of meeting people as long as you don't sit in a corner without saying a word to anyone  |
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The clubs arent as scary as you think either - a good one will put you at ease, introduce you to others and make it clear that just watching is an option. Read the reviews on here and pick the one that sounds friendliest instead of sexiest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, we are still very new, have had a cpl of meets now (just social) and on Saturday we went to Liberty Elite.
It is a really nice club, we were made to feel very welcome, got a tour of the place which is very upmarket, clean and plenty of places to play in private if you wish.
We chose to just take in the atmosphere of the club and see what goes on....Well yes it does go on, lol.
We enjoyed the surroundings and decided to become members by the end of the night.
We are looking forward to going back again soon, this is a nice place to meet people without having to do anything that you dont want to do....
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I'd echo the advice about socials events. Get out to a few and meet some likeminded people with whom you have more in common than just swinging (football, music, movies, whatever).
They ought to be able to help overcome your newbie nerves, perhaps introduce you to some of their less pushy pals and maybe even chaperone you to a club.
Some people find clubs or big parties less intimidating than small events because there's more places to hide. Don't forget, if you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont drink too much to calm nerves
agree boundaries esp 'kissing' seen more domestics in clubs over tenderness than any other thing..
agree same room or sep room
dont be rushed..
for the guy.... relax and dont put yourself under too much pressure to perform.. many do and ' it' dont work.
some guys go to clubs for the numbers game, chill and agree together who you gonna play with .
chat first and establish rapport...
and never be frightened to say NO...
its a fab world, enjoy xx hope yu have a great time xx |
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