"just been told I have got a meet pregnant. I used protection. And advice how I should handle this"
I got pregnant while using condoms. Speak to the lady, arrange for appropriate tests if necessary then act accordingly. |
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"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"
Just sit back and wait then. How will support through her pregnancy be arranged, all three of you going to go along to the appointments? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Surely not yours if you used protection "
depends if it was used correctly, and even then its still got a failure rate for pregnancy and STIs
My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms... |
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"Surely not yours if you used protection "
Didn't you know.. not all protection is 100% for all he knows he could have played with himself gotten precum on his fingers then played with her.. this is why women need to be on contraceptives As well as using condoms Poor 'child' |
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You can have a DNA test while pregnant... It would mean that you could find out a lot earlier. Its done at the same time as other testing that may or may not need doing. There is a risk to the baby though.
Don't part with any money just yet. |
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"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"
So if the baby comes out white then there's no possible way on earth it can be anyone else's? For your sake and the baby's, you would still need to do a dna test to be sure.
These things happen unplanned sometimes, all you can do is take responsibility, stay in touch with her and get a dna test when it's born then you can go from there.
Good luck. Juicy x |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms...
So she claims...."
Claims? I trust her. She is a very close friend. I know she was taking the pill, and I know her husband too.
Don't judge everyone badly, there are some trustworthy people out there. |
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My best friend fell pregnant with her 3rd on the pill and using condoms...
So she claims...."
I conceived at 46 using condoms. It's not as unlikely as you think.
Complacency and cynicism where this is concerned isn't a great idea. |
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"If the condom has 'not worked' for whatever reason, you may also want to have a full screening at the GUM clinic"
I was thinking the exact same thing. I'm not saying this about this about the OP but if you're one of three then sorry but bare fun occurred at some point. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence. 
never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?  "
Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me  |
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"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.
never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?
Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me "
now there's a wedding I'd buy a hat for |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"I hope you just had anal with her. This may help your defence.
never heard of a backdoor baby Tina?
Oooh, if a condom breaks, some lucky guy might have to make an honest tranny out of me
now there's a wedding I'd buy a hat for "
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Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol. |
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol."
Wow, you sound like a really nice guy.....
OP, I hope for everybody's sake that there is no pregnancy. Like others have said, offering emotional support would be appropriate pending a Dna test being undertaken. |
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol.
Wow, you sound like a really nice guy.....
OP, I hope for everybody's sake that there is no pregnancy. Like others have said, offering emotional support would be appropriate pending a Dna test being undertaken. "
Yes ty I am, was just having my take on it. |
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol."
Do you really think that shag?
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol.
Do you really think that shag?
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No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"just been told I have got a meet pregnant. I used protection. And advice how I should handle this"
i am so tempted to suggest the jeremy kyle show when they have given birth.... |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Ty x other two were black. So not worrying about tests lol"
Was this a one off meet with someone you know fuck all about?
If so are you happy to trust her honesty in the claim that the other guys were black, the fact she didn't meet anyone else that week and the fact she's got her dates right and it wasn't a fourth (or fifth, sixth or so on) potential guy?
If when the time comes you're basing the fact that a baby is white on you being the dad then good luck!
You may find yourself paying for someone else's child. It happens a lot.
Be smart and get a test done ASAP.
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol.
Do you really think that shag?
No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?."
Yes there could. I think men should be careful which means being responsible as far as contraception goes but accidents happen. |
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol."
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"Don't worry, she might be just one of those money grabber, milking every opportunity she gets, ignore her, always us a fake name and don't use your real name, for safety. You never known who you will end up meeting lol.
Do you really think that shag?
No I don't, but there could always be them women who does it couldn't they?.
Yes there could. I think men should be careful which means being responsible as far as contraception goes but accidents happen."
Yes I gues men need to be more careful as you never know. |
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"Tried, they ok about it! Said they had 3 meets that week so could be any of us  "
Conception isn't that exact though is it, could be week before or week after |
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