were just a bit confused. Were having fun on here and had a few meets but we are good friends with announce on here who seem very popular. They get around 100 messages a day where we get a couple.
We have done an experiment today and got our wives to send us a pic of them both together. We both put the same pic on to see who got the most fabs. Weve got 7 so far and they've got over 60. Just can't understand what's different. |
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Might have more people on their friendslist?
Their interests are different and people looking for theirs find them?
Anything on your profile that comes up in search can affect who can find you, age, location etc.
Being on here more often will put you at the top of search results as well.
Their profile might be worded more attractively than yours and seem more approachable/sexy?
Idk probably other stuff as well. |
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"were just a bit confused. Were having fun on here and had a few meets but we are good friends with announce on here who seem very popular. They get around 100 messages a day where we get a couple.
We have done an experiment today and got our wives to send us a pic of them both together. We both put the same pic on to see who got the most fabs. Weve got 7 so far and they've got over 60. Just can't understand what's different. "
Good rule for fab and life in general, don't compare yourself to others it brings nothing but dissatisfaction. This isnt a popularity contest
There are loads of reasons why they get a different reaction to you, of the hundreds of messages how many are actually useful leading to a meet?  |
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"Have you got filters in place?
Our inbox drastically changed once we added those."
 when I have filters off so men can message me I get quite a few, put a new pic up it goes crazy. With them blocked currently I can go a couple of days without a message |
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"Because your are not the same persons, so your pics wont be the same  "
They put the exact same pic up of the both of them together. Both the different people people being fabbed are in the same pic together. And then they uploaded that pic to each of their pages. |
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