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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP carry on with being nice why change just for the sake of meeting someone? I try to treat everyone how I would like to be treated and there those that appreciate that those that don't. I am only interested in the ones that do. Good Luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet and chat with polite guys, and find them very attractive.
It's hard for all guys to get anything on here. I've been speaking to several guys on and off all day, got about 50 guys i ignored during that time. Just happens we can't talk to everyone or meet everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here being nice and polite isn't the first thing I'm looking for.....there are many other things you need to be/have ...this is fantasy land for many....we are not all looking for a life partner. |
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Agree with lady above ... guys who are gentlemanly and respectful go a long way in my book
Theres lots of riff raff on here...
No time for them !!!
Dont give up OP ... keep your standards high ... good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree with lady above ... guys who are gentlemanly and respectful go a long way in my book
Theres lots of riff raff on here...
No time for them !!!
Dont give up OP ... keep your standards high ... good luck xx"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does being nice and polite get you no where these days ? "
It's just the way Fab is unfortunately. It's very rare to find nice polite people on here. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why does being nice and polite get you no where these days ? "
OP there are way more nice and polite people on Fab than arses.
Way more.
Do you really think it's just the dicks, cunts and arses that are having a good time?
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*well I suppose they are - but they're usually attached to nice people.  |
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"Why does being nice and polite get you no where these days ? "
I get nice, polite messages from people outwith what I'm looking for: I ignore them, as my profile, when visible, clearly states what I'm looking for and says I won't reply to those outside my meet criteria.
I don't think it's nice or polite to ignore someone's preferences, but that's just me!
I'm not saying that is the case here op, but without the background to your question mine is just an example of why being nice doesn't always cut it. |
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"Why does being nice and polite get you no where these days ?
I get nice, polite messages from people outwith what I'm looking for: I ignore them, as my profile, when visible, clearly states what I'm looking for and says I won't reply to those outside my meet criteria.
I don't think it's nice or polite to ignore someone's preferences, but that's just me!
I'm not saying that is the case here op, but without the background to your question mine is just an example of why being nice doesn't always cut it."
That's a good point.
Being nice and being polite are fine qualities but won't be enough on their own to secure a meet, although a polite message may stand out amidst a barrage of nasty one-liners which will help your chance. Then you must ensure that you have a well written profile.
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