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I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
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over a year ago
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The times I have been with another woman I have just enjoyed every inch of her and not been jealous or compared myself in a negative way.
I am sure, although you thought she was perfect, she still has hang ups about her body, as most of us do! |
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"The times I have been with another woman I have just enjoyed every inch of her and not been jealous or compared myself in a negative way.
I am sure, although you thought she was perfect, she still has hang ups about her body, as most of us do! "
Thank you.
I've had two kids and have the body to prove it. I just worry there judging me on it.
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I don't get jealous of other guy's bodies and I love paying a guy a compliment.You might be surprised how many guys rarely get compliments.I love telling guys they have a great arse/cock and seeing how pleased they are. |
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I'd be too busy enjoying myself to think about it. I don't have hang ups about my body and I'm 20 years older than you and I've had 3 children. I'd be less inclined to say to a woman I'm fat,don't expect a nice body when I undress,than to a man. |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx"
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls?  |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls? "
Of course I like girls. It was the inadequate feeling I had that put me off more than her body. If she had a body like mine I would of been fine.
First girl had a really hot body but was badly scard from a c section and tried to cover it. Because she did I felt better about me.
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You can feel like that sometimes, especially if it's new to you...
But just treat her as a person, enjoy her as she is - and remember that every women you meet will be full of her own personal insecurities - we're all the same!
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"You can feel like that sometimes, especially if it's new to you...
But just treat her as a person, enjoy her as she is - and remember that every women you meet will be full of her own personal insecurities - we're all the same!
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"The times I have been with another woman I have just enjoyed every inch of her and not been jealous or compared myself in a negative way.
I am sure, although you thought she was perfect, she still has hang ups about her body, as most of us do! "
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"I always lower my standards for same sex meets. Its nice being "the hot one". "
That's kinda what I am looking to do. My bf keeps saying why wouldn't you want to walk out with the hottest girl on the room. I do want to but I've got my own hang ups.
All my own fault for think to much about it I know but I can't help it. Was hoping to find out it was normal lol xx |
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"I always lower my standards for same sex meets. Its nice being "the hot one".
That's kinda what I am looking to do. My bf keeps saying why wouldn't you want to walk out with the hottest girl on the room. I do want to but I've got my own hang ups.
All my own fault for think to much about it I know but I can't help it. Was hoping to find out it was normal lol xx"
The biggest blocker to fun of any kind....your own intellect.. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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The way I see it, they like me enough to get naked with me, so no I don't drop my standards or play with people I consider below my level of attractiveness.
If we both get on, we can get it on
I'd actually be pretty insulted if I thought someone only played with me to get an ego boost, thinking they were better than me.
We all have bits about our body we would consider changing.
The hot ladies I have played with haven't been running away screaming, nor comparing themselves to me. Its been mutual fun |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls?
Of course I like girls. It was the inadequate feeling I had that put me off more than her body. If she had a body like mine I would of been fine.
First girl had a really hot body but was badly scard from a c section and tried to cover it. Because she did I felt better about me.
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Sorry this is a bit creepy. Yoi liked she had a big scar... |
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I wasn't into her scar,she was trying to cover it up just as I was trying to cover me up. Because it was obvious she had body issues as I did I felt relaxed.
Second girl had implants and nipple re alignment done and completely flat stomach where as I have a mummy tummy n stretch marks |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls?
Of course I like girls. It was the inadequate feeling I had that put me off more than her body. If she had a body like mine I would of been fine.
First girl had a really hot body but was badly scard from a c section and tried to cover it. Because she did I felt better about me.
Sorry this is a bit creepy. Yoi liked she had a big scar..."
Don't be silly. She felt more at ease knowing the other girl wasn't perfect and had body hang ups too. Like she would be empathetic towards her. |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls?
Of course I like girls. It was the inadequate feeling I had that put me off more than her body. If she had a body like mine I would of been fine.
First girl had a really hot body but was badly scard from a c section and tried to cover it. Because she did I felt better about me.
Sorry this is a bit creepy. Yoi liked she had a big scar...
Don't be silly. She felt more at ease knowing the other girl wasn't perfect and had body hang ups too. Like she would be empathetic towards her."
Perfictly put thank you xx |
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx
So you were put off by her hot body...are you sure you like girls?
Of course I like girls. It was the inadequate feeling I had that put me off more than her body. If she had a body like mine I would of been fine.
First girl had a really hot body but was badly scard from a c section and tried to cover it. Because she did I felt better about me.
Sorry this is a bit creepy. Yoi liked she had a big scar..."
Scars are cool  |
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I hope u don't sound shallow with they way I've said hit body's. I like girls and guys if all shapes and sizes. I have a soft spot for a curvy girl.
Just as my bf put it second girl had a porn star body and out of every girl he's seen naked he's never came across a girl like that.
I was shy about my body before I had kids but after her after coming on here I feel a little inadequate about myself. It wouldn't stop me meeting people but just gave me a uneasy feeling I hope you all understand xxx |
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I understand where you're coming from. if you don't feel confident with your body either wear something you feel confident in, or get down the gym and lift those weights.  |
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"I wasn't into her scar,she was trying to cover it up just as I was trying to cover me up. Because it was obvious she had body issues as I did I felt relaxed.
Second girl had implants and nipple re alignment done and completely flat stomach where as I have a mummy tummy n stretch marks"
Well surely if the 2nd one has had surgery then she must be even more insecure about her self??
BTW this is written by the male half of this couple and I would say we all have hang ups on one kind or another so just enjoy your self and try not to judge. |
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We've found that we can feel inadequate when meeting couples sometimes. That whole 'wow, you look better than us' feeling can be daunting and not limited to same sex play. It's important to remember that everyone has their body hangups. Even the perfect ones. We've learned to just relax and enjoy the view. Whilst sitting in the most flattering position .... |
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"I always lower my standards for same sex meets. Its nice being "the hot one".
That's kinda what I am looking to do. My bf keeps saying why wouldn't you want to walk out with the hottest girl on the room. I do want to but I've got my own hang ups.
All my own fault for think to much about it I know but I can't help it. Was hoping to find out it was normal lol xx
The biggest blocker to fun of any kind....your own intellect.."
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"I hope I don't sound shallow that was ment to say xx"
Women who want to meet are rarely shallow - we've all got our hang-ups, we're all insecure about something..
Just remind yourself that she has chosen to meet you - and that will rarely be just for the sake of a meet!
When a woman meets another woman, then they've usually both done a lot of thinking about it and feel that it's what they want to do - so forget your insecurities, forget the fact that she may look wonderful - just remember that she's there because she wants to be with you!!!
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Thank you everyone that gave a constructive answer, glad to see I'm not alone out there.
I'll get used to it eventually I'm guessing. The girl I'm talking about wasn't a pre arranged meet I Met her in a pub and spoke to her fir a couple of min then at the end of the night I met her again and it was more my bf that invited her back. I did say it was ok.
It was a meet for the sake of a meet I think it will probably be better with someone I've spoke to about meeting first through here or at a social. I also don't think I'll meet many girls like that again either. Xxx |
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Ok deep breath time.
Think stats. Of all the people on the planet how many are models? Answer damn few far far less than a thousandth of one%
We walked New York for ten days and saw 1 note ONE truly stunning girl who was a model as she was toting her portfolio under her arm.
The women you see in magazines and on TV have an army of experts to tone them expertly make them up and so on. I remember seeing a TV presenter in the flesh and she had a massive facial mole that was invisible on the screen. Expert make up.
29 and 2 kids so you are sporting some of lifes battle scars. Be proud. Look in the mirror and tell your self " I look and am wonderful" There are self esteem tapes on the web, source some and listen to them.
None of us are perfect and we are far from perfect but we just do the best we can with what we have.
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"I'm wanting a little advice mostly from bi girls but bi men please join in.
When your with the same sex do you ever get jealous of the other person's body tits/cock etc.
I've had two bi experiences and the second time I was actualy put off by het body as it was perfect.
Is this normal or just something ill need to get over?
Xx"
I think the same problem can present itself with a man and woman meeting. Nobody wants to think of themselves as inferior. Just enjoy the banquet put in front of you. If they found you unattractive, they probably wouldn't be having sex with you. We are almost always our own worst critics. |
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"Ok deep breath time.
Think stats. Of all the people on the planet how many are models? Answer damn few far far less than a thousandth of one%
We walked New York for ten days and saw 1 note ONE truly stunning girl who was a model as she was toting her portfolio under her arm.
The women you see in magazines and on TV have an army of experts to tone them expertly make them up and so on. I remember seeing a TV presenter in the flesh and she had a massive facial mole that was invisible on the screen. Expert make up.
29 and 2 kids so you are sporting some of lifes battle scars. Be proud. Look in the mirror and tell your self " I look and am wonderful" There are self esteem tapes on the web, source some and listen to them.
None of us are perfect and we are far from perfect but we just do the best we can with what we have.
L2"
I'll google thay later great advice thank you xx |
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