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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does our profile description seem too harsh or off putting in any way? We've been on and off fab for four years and had come across the usual pic collectors, time wasters and have had the wool pulled over our eyes on the odd occasion by a fake profiles. We just wanted to let people know what we are about before they decide wether to make the first move or not.
Would appreciate just a little feedback, this really isn't one of those "please look at my profile" threads.
Thankyou xx |
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By *layne75Couple
over a year ago
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"Does our profile description seem too harsh or off putting in any way? We've been on and off fab for four years and had come across the usual pic collectors, time wasters and have had the wool pulled over our eyes on the odd occasion by a fake profiles. We just wanted to let people know what we are about before they decide wether to make the first move or not.
Would appreciate just a little feedback, this really isn't one of those "please look at my profile" threads.
Thankyou xx "
Personally, I like a very detailed profile. Ours is not nearly as detailed, but then, we are very new to this. I expect that to change as we learn.
Your profile tells me a lot of info upfront that would help us decide if we wanted to approach you. That's great, because then we aren't wasting time.
A few things - I like that you describe yourselves since it might take a while to get a face pic. Another, at 6', you're NOT really stocky at 6'. Stocky evokes images of a short guy.
We would pass you up for one reason: location.
While I would be disappointed there would be no f/f (I could take or leave GETTING oral, but I LOVE eating pussy. I could just do it for hours!), D is what I would consider well endowed, loves curvy girls, and I've been dying to watch him with another woman.
Hope that helps! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me that is a great profile. It combines what you are looking for with what you're not.
If it puts people off then it is probably a good thing as they wouldn't be for you anyway.
I might have to go edit mine now... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does our profile description seem too harsh or off putting in any way? We've been on and off fab for four years and had come across the usual pic collectors, time wasters and have had the wool pulled over our eyes on the odd occasion by a fake profiles. We just wanted to let people know what we are about before they decide wether to make the first move or not.
Would appreciate just a little feedback, this really isn't one of those "please look at my profile" threads.
Thankyou xx
Personally, I like a very detailed profile. Ours is not nearly as detailed, but then, we are very new to this. I expect that to change as we learn.
Your profile tells me a lot of info upfront that would help us decide if we wanted to approach you. That's great, because then we aren't wasting time.
A few things - I like that you describe yourselves since it might take a while to get a face pic. Another, at 6', you're NOT really stocky at 6'. Stocky evokes images of a short guy.
We would pass you up for one reason: location.
While I would be disappointed there would be no f/f (I could take or leave GETTING oral, but I LOVE eating pussy. I could just do it for hours!), D is what I would consider well endowed, loves curvy girls, and I've been dying to watch him with another woman.
Hope that helps! "
That was perfect feedback, thankyou 
We never really gave much thought on the "stocky" description and I must say we are in total agreement! It's just we don't like to use the "Ample" option that fab give as most people naturally assume that Mr is "fat!". Not that there's anything at all wrong with having a few extra pounds, we just want to give as much an accurate description as possible.
Will have to look into changing Mr's profile name now!! lol
What are all the best couples out of our reach!!!!!! So frustrating!
Thankyou xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You come across as a bit annoyed but then also quite cool too. If I was just having a quick glance I would've stopped reading early on as negative profiles out me off. Which is a shame as further on you sound good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You come across as a bit annoyed but then also quite cool too. If I was just having a quick glance I would've stopped reading early on as negative profiles out me off. Which is a shame as further on you sound good. "
That's what we was worried about, we don't want to come across that way, just wanted to show that we know what we want.
I'll have to make a few changes, try and "nice it up" a bit lol
Thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose  "
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!! "
Good, because nose sucking is just wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You come across as a bit annoyed but then also quite cool too. If I was just having a quick glance I would've stopped reading early on as negative profiles out me off. Which is a shame as further on you sound good.
That's what we was worried about, we don't want to come across that way, just wanted to show that we know what we want.
I'll have to make a few changes, try and "nice it up" a bit lol
Thankyou xx "
I'm only one person, only change it if you want to.
I find that negativity attracts negativity. If a profile is positive in the first few lines that's good. Some people only ever look at the pics anyway- usually the type that rants are aimed at.
The Stone Cold bit attracted me. Keep that.  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You come across as a bit annoyed but then also quite cool too. If I was just having a quick glance I would've stopped reading early on as negative profiles out me off. Which is a shame as further on you sound good.
That's what we was worried about, we don't want to come across that way, just wanted to show that we know what we want.
I'll have to make a few changes, try and "nice it up" a bit lol
Thankyou xx
I'm only one person, only change it if you want to.
I find that negativity attracts negativity. If a profile is positive in the first few lines that's good. Some people only ever look at the pics anyway- usually the type that rants are aimed at.
The Stone Cold bit attracted me. Keep that. x"
Ahh at last someone who knows exactly who we mean!! Most people seem to think we mean the "six million dollar man!!" Steve Austin!! lol
We've made a few little additions in the first paragraph as to give people a good first impression, not too sure it'll work.
Your exactly right about "negativity attracts negativity".
Thanks for the advice xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!!
Good, because nose sucking is just wrong "
Even if the nose is a cock???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!!
Good, because nose sucking is just wrong
Even if the nose is a cock???? "
Brings a whole new meaning to cock snot  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a thought.
Ruling out totally a good tool to check a couple is actually a couple might not be the best idea. The humble cam can save a lot of wasted time.
L2 "
Very true and we used to use this tool, but since we had a very close shave with being recognised by someone we really didn't want to be recognised by we have decided to rule it out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!!
Good, because nose sucking is just wrong
Even if the nose is a cock????
Brings a whole new meaning to cock snot "
And the phrase "Blowing your nose!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I know this isn't very constructive but it did tickle my warped sense of humour.
One of your pics looks like you have a cock for a nose
lol I see what you mean!! Trust me that's honestly not my nose!!
Good, because nose sucking is just wrong
Even if the nose is a cock????
Brings a whole new meaning to cock snot
And the phrase "Blowing your nose!" "
Hahahahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We aren't what you're after anyway but I've never let that stop me sticking my oar in .
I wouldn't read it, a lengthy profile puts me off. However if it's working then stick with it "
You can "stick your oar in" as much as you like as we appreciate advice and yours has definitely been noted
Thankyou xxx |
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It is very long.... . But it says exactly what you want and don't want.
However, I also found it a bit on the negative side. I completely get why that is, but it may well put off some.
The important thing is that it works for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We thought it was a very good profile, a touch negative in places but it's always hard to say what you are not looking for and sound very positive. Excellent descriptions of yourselves. As for the length of it, it shows you have taken time and thought it through properly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is something terribly wrong with the face of Mr  "
Yea, I actually look like that! Maybe that's why we're not inundated with offers to meet!! Maybe I should photoshop it a little
Thanks for your comments people, I think it's definitely been established that our profiles a little on the negative side. Will definitely rectify it tomorrow |
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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
Wisbech and A47 corridor |
"Does our profile description seem too harsh or off putting in any way? We've been on and off fab for four years and had come across the usual pic collectors, time wasters and have had the wool pulled over our eyes on the odd occasion by a fake profiles. We just wanted to let people know what we are about before they decide wether to make the first move or not.
Would appreciate just a little feedback, this really isn't one of those "please look at my profile" threads.
Thankyou xx "
. Well done on making the effort to write a detailed and informed profile . It is a pity more members would not do the same as two line profiles are meaningless
Yours clearly defines your requirements and hopefully those who contact you meet the requirements that you have made the effort to specify |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does our profile description seem too harsh or off putting in any way? We've been on and off fab for four years and had come across the usual pic collectors, time wasters and have had the wool pulled over our eyes on the odd occasion by a fake profiles. We just wanted to let people know what we are about before they decide wether to make the first move or not.
Would appreciate just a little feedback, this really isn't one of those "please look at my profile" threads.
Thankyou xx . Well done on making the effort to write a detailed and informed profile . It is a pity more members would not do the same as two line profiles are meaningless
Yours clearly defines your requirements and hopefully those who contact you meet the requirements that you have made the effort to specify"
Wow! And we've got to say "well done" with your profile! Never have we come across such an informative and well written profile description! Answers pretty much all questions and more!
Thankyou for your positive feedback regarding our profile. Exactly what you have said is exactly what we have aimed to achieve. The only thing we are concerned about is the use of the word "negative" in people's comments which is one thing we don't want to project anywhere in our profile as we totally understand how that is an instant "turn off" with most people.
Again, thankyou for taking the time to read and comment on here, much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I find spelling errors more offputting than lengthy profiles. If the off isn't a deliberate mistake I'd recommend changing it. "
Congratulations, your the first person to notice that!! It was a total mistake that wasn't noticed until after we had completed our registration! We do intend on changing it in time, but if that one mistake would "put you off" us then we simply wouldn't be compatible anyway. So in its own way that small spelling mistake has stopped any time being wasted between us xx
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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
Wisbech and A47 corridor |
"Personally I find spelling errors more offputting than lengthy profiles. If the off isn't a deliberate mistake I'd recommend changing it. "
. I usually check profiles for spelling mistakes .However in the case of a user name is their such a thing as a spelling mistake ?. I thought that a user name is your unique id and there may be other reasons for the letters contained within it such as someone has already used your desired one . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""We only play as a couple, always same room,"
would put us off or should i say something to chat about, as we like the choice of being in separate rooms ..Connie x"
And we would respect that as your preference X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I find spelling errors more offputting than lengthy profiles. If the off isn't a deliberate mistake I'd recommend changing it. . I usually check profiles for spelling mistakes .However in the case of a user name is their such a thing as a spelling mistake ?. I thought that a user name is your unique id and there may be other reasons for the letters contained within it such as someone has already used your desired one . "
It was actually a spelling mistake but your absolutely right, someone's username is whatever they want it to be and how they spell it makes not one bit of difference as to wether we would chat/meet them or not
I will admit though, text talk kills the passion or us, or are we being a little too picky there too?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm kind of what you're looking for - bi fem sub, hello! - but I'd be put off messaging you first as you seem really unsure about single women."
Not at all, I think that (and this is probably going to sound pathetic) where we have been members of FAB on and off over the past 4 years finding a single female, or as us couples tend to call you the "elusive" female, has been an almost impossible task that we have kind of lost hope of ever achieving. So, and I make you absolutely right in saying so, I think we have given up on the idea of ever meeting a single lady. That's definitely "our bad" and it will be rectified shortly
Thankyou for pointing that out to us xx |
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I think I would put the positive stuff about you first and the negative afterwards as it's very off putting and very long. As a single woman who occasionally plays with couples I'd be wanting to know more about what you guys are like and what you have to offer.
However I appreciate that you've written it to put off the time wasters, which we've all had! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I would put the positive stuff about you first and the negative afterwards as it's very off putting and very long. As a single woman who occasionally plays with couples I'd be wanting to know more about what you guys are like and what you have to offer.
However I appreciate that you've written it to put off the time wasters, which we've all had!"
I think a total re-write is on the cards taking on board all the comments we've received that we are very appreciative of and grateful that you took the time to read it as we know it's a bit of a novel!!
Going to do it a little later though as we have a house to decorate in fake spiders, pumpkins and all kinds of scary Halloweenie things!!
Thanks for your comments! xxx |
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