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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clearly I am starting to feel that either I dont know how to approach or I really suck. I am starting to wonder if this website is for real. Anyway, not sure if this is asking for advice just wanting to expose how I feel because even though I do read the profile before I message I am never getting response. Another thing is the fact that I dont have feedback well I am working on it seem not to be working.
Clearly having a bad time and dont know anymore if friendship or nsa is the way to go. Altough I know what I want I may lack understanding what to others want even after reading their profile.
Goodnight
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clearly I am starting to feel that either I dont know how to approach or I really suck. I am starting to wonder if this website is for real. Anyway, not sure if this is asking for advice just wanting to expose how I feel because even though I do read the profile before I message I am never getting response. Another thing is the fact that I dont have feedback well I am working on it seem not to be working.
Clearly having a bad time and dont know anymore if friendship or nsa is the way to go. Altough I know what I want I may lack understanding what to others want even after reading their profile.
Goodnight
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This place is for real and only you can make the best of it
There's plenty of other people that come here saying the same as you
They get given advice and don't take it and wonder why things don't change
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi
First things first you really need to work on your profile , it's very lacking in all departments
when we receive a message the first thing we do is check out the profile
You need to be able to stand out from the crowd and unfortunately yours is just like 1000's of others
Not having a go just trying to help
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You say that you read peoples profile before you contact them. When you read their profile you make a judgement on them based on what you read.
now.... read yours and ask yourself ' would i contact this guy, does he want the same as me, what can he offer me, what is he interested in'?
As already said, if you put as much effort into your profile as you have done writing in here, you may turn your luck around.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fair enough the profile does not contain enough information, it had until I posted this and resolved to update by providing less information. Why? because the forum is one thing completely than approaching someone personally. I can take it your views. Thanks for stopping by. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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You deleted your profile content before asking (half asking) for advice about getting the most out of the site? 
Well, that's odd.
Rule 1. Maximise your exposure. Have a profile that is well laid out, informative without being explicit, a reflects your personality. Your profile will be there 24/7 - make it work for you, not against you.
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