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How did you guys prepare for your first time sexual meet?
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Don't know if "prepare" is the right word  .
But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?
I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc.... |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
Sevenoaks |
I showered and put on my best Dior Por homm'e shirt and after shave balm.. sand the Cure, Friday I'm in love at the top of my voice, while moisturising.. Looked in the mirror and made the shape of two pistols with my fingers.. fired off a single shot with my right hand while saying. "whooooo's the lucky lady" in my best American accent..
she could have at least bloody well turned up !! |
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People r all different some ladies I've met one just wanted to jump straight into bed others took it slowely met once r twice before it happened . It's basically up to u just so long as u feel comfortable with each other . It's always nice if a lady dresses to impress but I've met ladies who don't like wearing clothes like that n just wore comfortable clothes . It's good to b excited about ur meet . |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
It's mostly been the same for us, we have met ladies out for a drink and if we got on well asked them if they wanted to come back to ours (and on one occasion hers) and once in private, things moved pretty fast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just go with what feels right. Wear what you feel nice in, if that's comfy clothes, then fine. If you want to dress to impress, that's equally fine.
Be honest, if you're nervous, tell the person you're meeting. No shame in it.
The biggest tip I would give though, is not to have any pre-tense about what you want to happen. Just let it happen naturally. I'm sure you'll have fun |
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"Just go with what feels right. Wear what you feel nice in, if that's comfy clothes, then fine. If you want to dress to impress, that's equally fine.
Be honest, if you're nervous, tell the person you're meeting. No shame in it.
The biggest tip I would give though, is not to have any pre-tense about what you want to happen. Just let it happen naturally. I'm sure you'll have fun "
I guess it is nerve racking as it will be my first time with that particular sex.I just don't want to be shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm of the opinion that if it doesn't feel right. then don't.
Take whatever pace you want and dress whatever way pleases you the most.
Perhaps you could wear something special that makes YOU feel horny as hell and not just dress for the person you're meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was talking to her, she invited me so I did the stupid think of getting a shirt and trousers on....
Within ten mins she spotted I wasn't comfortable in shirts and crap and told me off for not being myself bless her. so to my mind, wear what you wear normally and be yourself totally, no airs or graces, just go as if your popping to a mates or whatever |
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"I showered and put on my best Dior Por homm'e shirt and after shave balm.. sand the Cure, Friday I'm in love at the top of my voice, while moisturising.. Looked in the mirror and made the shape of two pistols with my fingers.. fired off a single shot with my right hand while saying. "whooooo's the lucky lady" in my best American accent..
she could have at least bloody well turned up !!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.
Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.
Oh and douche. Never forget to douche |
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We start with a garlic chicken balti Followed by a 3.4 mile jog, no shower. Get dressed via the contents of our wash basket. Turn up 2 hours late absolutely smashed. If they still fancy it then you know you've got a keeper X |
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"Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.
Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.
Oh and douche. Never forget to douche "
Isn't douching bad for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shaved or epilated all over. Days before I would have been planning what to wear.
Hours making myself look, feel and smell my best.
Oh and douche. Never forget to douche
Isn't douching bad for you?"
I take probiotic pills. I have to clean out the lower part of it to avoid accidents and horrid smells. I don't clean deeply. |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
Wear whatever makes you feel at your best. Don't expect too much for a first meeting, just take your time and enjoy.
This is coming from a man who is beside himself with excitement for a long planned meeting at the weekend . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relaxed fun confident atmosphere far more sexually charged than a panicked nervous person.
Dress to impress. Put some effort in. Just as you'd expect from your partner.
Go. Have fun. Be flirtatious and exciting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wear the clothes that make you feel good, whatever that may be. Knowing I have sexy underwear on gives me a boost, even if I'm wearing jeans.
You'll know pretty quickly if you want it to 'progress':- I'm a great believer in that elusive spark. If you feel it ignite, go with it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word .
But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?
I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc...."
I'll let you know when we get one. |
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Get washed, fresh trim, dance around sans pants (helicopter dick is never not funny), take advice from The Inbetweeners (tactical banks can calm you down a treat) put on comfy boxers and jeans and saunter off into the distance without muttering (don't make an arse of yourself). Job done, ritual complete.
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"Don't know if "prepare" is the right word .
But how did you guys prepare for your sexual meets (not social meet) Especially if it was your first time?
I'm nervous, but excited. Should I wear anything? Do I just wear anything comfortable and regarding getting down to the sex part, did you guys just go for it, or was it like a gradual process? Eg. getting comfortable first, watching a movie etc...."
My first sexual meet there were 4 of us 2 boys 2 girls we had found a discarded porn mag and we had a place we used to go to hang out so we went there and looked through the mag then proceeded to try all the stuff we had seen in the mag I WAS 9  so were the others so I guess the moral of the story is do not discard things that innocent minds can find |
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"I guess I'm just nervous as hell as I've never slept with a female before. I just don't want to be shit."
It's understandable because it's a first meeting but I am sure when you are in each other's arms the juices will flow and intuition will take over. Just remember to enjoy it and not to worry.
Have fun  |
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