Are you messaging people? Of the people who openly view our profile I would say fewer than one in a hundred message us and it must be fewer than that taking those that view unseen into account.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello,
Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers."
You joined 7 days ago so patience is a good thing
You have photo-verified yourself (good thing)
Written a little bio (good thing)
Age, you are youngish, but shouldn't be too much of an issue
Have some pics (good thing)
cant accommodate (not so good thing).
Patience chap, read the forums, there is a lot of tom-foolery and tongue in cheek banter, but there may be some nice hints for you on writing that first message and how to approach people you would like to meet.
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over a year ago
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You also have "straight" on your profile but your profile text states otherwise, unless I am misreading it? Entirely plausible, I thought a man had three arms earlier.. |
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"You also have "straight" on your profile but your profile text states otherwise, unless I am misreading it? Entirely plausible, I thought a man had three arms earlier.."
Yes, I would say this could be the problem as your profile is confusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello,
Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers."
Profile text is fine but you do need a better selection of pictures. Your two wavy mirror shots reveal nothing of you. |
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"Hey!
I have messaged quite a few people, Couples, single males/single females, but after 1 or 2 messages it sort of fizzle out haha ! "
I think it's a case of keeping on keeping on Rome wasn't built in a day etc.
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"Hello,
Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers.
Profile text is fine but you do need a better selection of pictures. Your two wavy mirror shots reveal nothing of you."
that's the de rigeur swingers mirror...shows he's committed  |
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over a year ago
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Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"
It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.
Damned if you do, damned if you dont.... |
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"Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"
It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.
Damned if you do, damned if you dont...."
I would apologise for the spelling in the above post, but I can't be arsed |
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"Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"
It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.
Damned if you do, damned if you dont....
I would apologise for the spelling in the above post, but I can't be arsed"
yes the cuntdown spelling brigade lerk everywhere |
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"theres too many of them , i am sure some join and expect 10 fucks a day
patience, and a profile that clicks with others is the key"
and the member having joined but 7 days ago would know this how? And please dont say use the forum search NO ONE uses a forum search on ANY forum, ANYWHERE on the internet |
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"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about "
Okay.. |
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over a year ago
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"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about "
The guy is new to the site and this forum is for Support and Advice. He is asking for support or advice therefore his thread is perfectly reasonable.
Im really not sure why people feel that they need to have a dig  |
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"going back to look at me post
Its in the swinging support and advice forum.. I guess he wanted support and advice. "
i have a very good female friend who use to offer kind honest advice to these posts that seem to be mainly from guys and on each one they would send a private message to here asking for a meet. so a doubt very many are and the genuine ones get looked over |
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"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about
The guy is new to the site and this forum is for Support and Advice. He is asking for support or advice therefore his thread is perfectly reasonable.
Im really not sure why people feel that they need to have a dig "
I don't even know why people read this section of the forum if they are bored with "look at me posts" and don't wish to give support or advice, its like licking a battery.... |
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