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Hi we are going to experiment with dressing me (dave).I have worn Stacey's panties before she even bought me a pair of my own
We now want to step it up with makeup wigs breast forms etc
Although I'm really looking forward to it, The problem I have is I'm quite a hairy guy this on top of being a 6 foot 2 ex rugby lad can leave me feeling a little silly as im feeling unconvincing
Are there any tips/hints to make me look a bit more womanly? Ways of hiding the hair as I can't fully shave as I'd like as people would notice 
Any advice would be appreciated
Cheers D and S xx |
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Good for you. It must be very liberating to be in such an open and explorative relationship - fair play to you both.
Ignore any negativity (whether overt or more subtle) that may be apparent here. 
I agree - not sure it would be possible to hide hair. But if you're talking mainly about legs then why not wear tights or stockings? Clothing elsewhere may also help. No one would notice the shaving of a beard if you have one, so that could be handled.
The key is you both have fun experimenting with this. I'm sure after some time you'll find your way.
Look online for tips - I'm sure there's a bunch of people talking about just this sort of stuff out there in the ether... |
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"Good for you. It must be very liberating to be in such an open and explorative relationship - fair play to you both.
Ignore any negativity (whether overt or more subtle) that may be apparent here.
I agree - not sure it would be possible to hide hair. But if you're talking mainly about legs then why not wear tights or stockings? Clothing elsewhere may also help. No one would notice the shaving of a beard if you have one, so that could be handled.
The key is you both have fun experimenting with this. I'm sure after some time you'll find your way.
Look online for tips - I'm sure there's a bunch of people talking about just this sort of stuff out there in the ether... "
Thanks for such a nice reply stockings etc might be the best option |
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hiiii x well to go the whole way would mean shaving legs and other areas, and to be honest ..... I don't see any point in putting on stockings unless your legs are smooth and sexy x as for adventuring together, you will probably want to venture down the path of butt plugs to get you used to being a lil stretched x then your lady can buy a nice sized strapon and fuck you sometime? wigs, make up etc are easily accessible on the Internet and so are tutorials on YouTube x or your good lady can help you out x depending how far you want to go, there are avenues of making you suck a real cock as she watches but 1st things 1st x have an amazing time discovering your kinkier sides  |
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People would notice in the industry I'm in
Really! Well I'm not sure what you do but i work in a factory, I'm here now in a t shirt with smooth arms"
Lucky for you but unfortunately not the same for me |
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"Good for you. It must be very liberating to be in such an open and explorative relationship - fair play to you both.
Ignore any negativity (whether overt or more subtle) that may be apparent here.
I agree - not sure it would be possible to hide hair. But if you're talking mainly about legs then why not wear tights or stockings? Clothing elsewhere may also help. No one would notice the shaving of a beard if you have one, so that could be handled.
The key is you both have fun experimenting with this. I'm sure after some time you'll find your way.
Look online for tips - I'm sure there's a bunch of people talking about just this sort of stuff out there in the ether... "
No negativity here.
OP, I have no idea what industry you are in but is it not possible for you to shave the parts that are covered by clothes? |
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"hiiii x well to go the whole way would mean shaving legs and other areas, and to be honest ..... I don't see any point in putting on stockings unless your legs are smooth and sexy x as for adventuring together, you will probably want to venture down the path of butt plugs to get you used to being a lil stretched x then your lady can buy a nice sized strapon and fuck you sometime? wigs, make up etc are easily accessible on the Internet and so are tutorials on YouTube x or your good lady can help you out x depending how far you want to go, there are avenues of making you suck a real cock as she watches but 1st things 1st x have an amazing time discovering your kinkier sides "
Thanks for taking the time to give a very helpful post
We have got strap ons and but plugs and have also played bi sucking cock together we really love all of the above
It's just the dressing that is new to us but as you say it will be fun finding things out x |
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"Good for you. It must be very liberating to be in such an open and explorative relationship - fair play to you both.
Ignore any negativity (whether overt or more subtle) that may be apparent here.
I agree - not sure it would be possible to hide hair. But if you're talking mainly about legs then why not wear tights or stockings? Clothing elsewhere may also help. No one would notice the shaving of a beard if you have one, so that could be handled.
The key is you both have fun experimenting with this. I'm sure after some time you'll find your way.
Look online for tips - I'm sure there's a bunch of people talking about just this sort of stuff out there in the ether...
No negativity here.
OP, I have no idea what industry you are in but is it not possible for you to shave the parts that are covered by clothes?"
Hi I do shave my privates but couldn't do much more as often in shorts only
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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
Chester |
Hope you enjoy it but be careful, it's very addictive!
Opaque hosiery can be a good choice if you're hairy, I must agree with most people that hair pressed against legs by stockings doesn't look good.
Not sure what you do as a job but I have friends who are smooth and just say their partner likes it. Nobody has ever questioned it. I'm in the forces and most people don't notice. Those who have asked were satisfied with "because it feels nice". Nowadays I'm very open about it.
All that aside, hope you love it tonight! X |
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Thick tights/stockings, chunky jewellery, avoid overly feminine fussy detailed clothing, it gets swamped on a larger frame. Make sure outfits are a good fit for you, not too snug. Make up is best subtle and natural if you're trying to avoid the drag queen look. Only other suggestion, be careful and remember the old joke. What's the difference between a TV and TS? About 2 years.... |
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Gotta agree with what others have said re shaving. Honestly, once you've shaved your legs and slipped into a nice pair of stockings you'll realise how much better it looks and feels. I personally keep myself completely shaven everywhere....well except my head  |
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"Gotta agree with what others have said re shaving. Honestly, once you've shaved your legs and slipped into a nice pair of stockings you'll realise how much better it looks and feels. I personally keep myself completely shaven everywhere....well except my head "
Yea I know your all right but it's not an option
Unfortunately not every one is as open minded as you guys and us |
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My husband cross dresses and very well too. Key differentiators are investing in a good corset......don't bother with the cheap one's on ebay. Look at Axfords or Vollers for example.
Other key thing is a good wig. My husband tends to wear long and full, but not permed type......just long, loose curls that mask the fact he's 6ft tall with a male physique.
Also, good makeup, learn how.
Finally......learn to walk well in heels. Most men tend to still walk with toes pointing outwards, leading with your heel as it were.......don't, ladies don't do that. |
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People would notice in the industry I'm in
Really! Well I'm not sure what you do but i work in a factory, I'm here now in a t shirt with smooth armsLucky for you but unfortunately not the same for me"
Is something bad a man be shaved? My ex used to,and I don't see any issues on it! People waste to much time thinking about what others think about them,those same people won't pay your mortgage,if you fall in hard times! Be happy ?? |
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I see your point but I'm not ready for all the questions and digs
I'm happy just taking it slow seeing where it leads if that changes in the future then yes your quite right fuck em
In the mean time was just looking for suggestions to help with dressing whilst hairy
May not be to everyone's taste but fuck them n all
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