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No luck finding older women who are interested
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago. 
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all 
Thanks in advance. |
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Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck."
Thanks! I will get that changed |
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"Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck.
Thanks! I will get that changed "
Oh did my comment get overlooked as im not old enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck."
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance."
In all honesty, I don't think there are very many older ladies who are interested in men as young as you. Of course there will be a few, but by and large I don't think there is a market for what you are suggesting. There are so many late teen/early twenties men who post on these forums asking why they can't find the ellusive 'Mrs Robinson'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the biggest problem is that most ladies with life experience don't share the fact that they're on Fab with their social circle. I've spoken to a couple of ladies in their 50s and 60s and none of them has been recommended by a friend to try Fab...they've all stumbled across it whilst browsing online.
Ladies...tell your friends about Fab. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"I think the biggest problem is that most ladies with life experience don't share the fact that they're on Fab with their social circle. I've spoken to a couple of ladies in their 50s and 60s and none of them has been recommended by a friend to try Fab...they've all stumbled across it whilst browsing online.
Ladies...tell your friends about Fab."
my friends are not interested in the amount of messages, the types of messages and the offers from here. they are more sensitive than i am, you need a thick skin to be on here and deal with the rough with the smooth..puts all the women i know off and they aren't all 'vanilla' either.. |
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"I think the biggest problem is that most ladies with life experience don't share the fact that they're on Fab with their social circle. I've spoken to a couple of ladies in their 50s and 60s and none of them has been recommended by a friend to try Fab...they've all stumbled across it whilst browsing online.
Ladies...tell your friends about Fab."
No way! My friends would all clutch their pearls and swoon   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance."
You do know you can change your name? |
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"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance.
You do know you can change your name? "
So OP you were illegally on the site at age 17 then? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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I have a grandson almost your age and a lot of ladies will have children your age and older and it just does not feel right, to me, personally. But I do hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck."
Since when is an insult to say he is bored if younger woman?If is his reality ,he saying the truth! Nothing wrong with that ! We all different not everyone thinks the same way!! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
If you want an older woman you aren't going to get one unless you put some legwork in. Join a swingers club, meet women and impress them with you wit, maturity and respect. If you behave you are sure to have some success. I have played with young guys - though unfortunately none have been very impressive. They have usually been far too full of themselves and not very accomplished.
Drop the bizarre "alpha male" tag and reinvent yourself to show you are different! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance."
Preferences dude, preferences! You say that you are getting messages though, even if those messages are not from the type of people you are seeking. Count that as a blessing at least, some of us folk on Fab hardly ever receive messages!
Good luck in your search though sir, hopefully someone you are looking for will get in touch with you soon!  |
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him? "
i apologise I didn't know there was a law on a public forum that I can ask a question or two
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Possibly the bit in your profile that says you're bored of girls your age and want a real women. All us older women were young once and having been around the block rarely appreciate it when other women are insulted in order to try and flatter us.
My advice is that you will struggle to find an older woman whatever your profile all you can do is contact women you find attractive and treat us all in the same way.
Good luck.Since when is an insult to say he is bored if younger woman?If is his reality ,he saying the truth! Nothing wrong with that ! We all different not everyone thinks the same way!!"
Thank you! Nice to have people not always attack each other! Have a lovely evening ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance.
Preferences dude, preferences! You say that you are getting messages though, even if those messages are not from the type of people you are seeking. Count that as a blessing at least, some of us folk on Fab hardly ever receive messages!
Good luck in your search though sir, hopefully someone you are looking for will get in touch with you soon! "
Cheers buddy! Best of luck too! The suit pic will work wonders with the younger ladies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him? "
I have considered clubs, but its a massive step up. Ideally I need to go with someone even if its just to the bar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him?
i apologise I didn't know there was a law on a public forum that I can ask a question or two
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He asked a question, you asked him if he was on here at 17 illegally. No relation to his question. |
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him?
i apologise I didn't know there was a law on a public forum that I can ask a question or two
He asked a question, you asked him if he was on here at 17 illegally. No relation to his question. "
No law says you have to stay on topic either
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"As the title suggests. Just messages from guys and girls my age asking for meets, but I can do that when I am out on nights out etc.
My profile is not rude or 'milf hunter'. Yes the username was a bad choice two years ago.
Can I please have some advice as to why no older women are interested at all
Thanks in advance."
You can use the filters to prevent folk outside your preferences contacting you . Today's top tip..courtesy of the top tip supply co.. .likely.. tomorrow's as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him?
i apologise I didn't know there was a law on a public forum that I can ask a question or two
He asked a question, you asked him if he was on here at 17 illegally. No relation to his question.
No law says you have to stay on topic either
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Are you a busy body in real life as well? |
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him?
i apologise I didn't know there was a law on a public forum that I can ask a question or two
He asked a question, you asked him if he was on here at 17 illegally. No relation to his question.
No law says you have to stay on topic either
Are you a busy body in real life as well?"
No my comment was actually made to help the OP if people were to look at it logically |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A little bit of advice;
Guys who call themselves " alpha male" rarely are . And probably don't actually understand what actually makes a man an alpha.
The more mature ladies know this too ."
Very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the biggest problem is that most ladies with life experience don't share the fact that they're on Fab with their social circle. I've spoken to a couple of ladies in their 50s and 60s and none of them has been recommended by a friend to try Fab...they've all stumbled across it whilst browsing online.
Ladies...tell your friends about Fab.
No way! My friends would all clutch their pearls and swoon "
Lol...I bet if they actually KNEW about Fab, you'd definitely find at least a few of them on here shortly afterwards, naked apart from those pearls
You don't have to actually sit them down and lecture them about it...!!! Lol. Just drop the odd hint, or give the conversation a nudge in the right direction on a girly night in or out ...and I bet there'd be a secretly moist pussy or two if the conversation just happened to brush over the topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go a club mate! And to Curvymama.. Have you got a problem with this lad? Constant questioning, do you like him?
I have considered clubs, but its a massive step up. Ideally I need to go with someone even if its just to the bar."
But you're mature and alpha...why do you need someone to hold your hand? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A little bit of advice;
Guys who call themselves " alpha male" rarely are . And probably don't actually understand what actually makes a man an alpha.
The more mature ladies know this too ."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A little bit of advice;
Guys who call themselves " alpha male" rarely are . And probably don't actually understand what actually makes a man an alpha.
The more mature ladies know this too .
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Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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although i dont have issues with anybody over the age of 18 being on here i think about what i and my kids were doing at that age and it was out and about with their mates - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes she is...? But she is not on here
to the best of your knowledge she's not
If she is I would probably pass out "
Pass out  what an alpha male pass out.....nooooooo surely not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks buddy. Struggle to stand up to people on here as I just get labelled immature etc."
Why is it a struggle to stand up to people thought you was a alpha male |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"although i dont have issues with anybody over the age of 18 being on here i think about what i and my kids were doing at that age and it was out and about with their mates - "
I work go to the gym and go out and use this. Time management not all 'kids' are the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks buddy. Struggle to stand up to people on here as I just get labelled immature etc.
Why is it a struggle to stand up to people thought you was a alpha male "
Chill out you have piped up already. |
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"I have considered clubs, but its a massive step up. Ideally I need to go with someone even if its just to the bar."
If you were at Abfab or quest when I was there I'd give you a go 
But I wouldnt go with you, prefer guys with balls  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have considered clubs, but its a massive step up. Ideally I need to go with someone even if its just to the bar.
If you were at Abfab or quest when I was there I'd give you a go
But I wouldnt go with you, prefer guys with balls "
I would happily except. Until next time |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
Your not too young you just haven't encountered the right ladies on here yet remember for every woman there is probably 5 men or more so we get in undated...
Young is good but some women don't wanna feel life they are shagging their son or something
Your pics are very nice btw OP |
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2 of my favourite meets were with guys your age 