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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago
Maidstone |
His all, struggling to get responses to messages, have tried a mixture of humour, straight to the point and delicate 'how are you' type messages I understand physical attraction is the first tick and I am a very specific type, so aside from that any hints tips?? Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.
Fancy a fuck?
Fancy a social?
Fancy a chat?
Fancy someone else?
Fuck off/Delete?
Response as per title..
Try that 
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Im pinching this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His all, struggling to get responses to messages, have tried a mixture of humour, straight to the point and delicate 'how are you' type messages I understand physical attraction is the first tick and I am a very specific type, so aside from that any hints tips?? Thanks in advance"
Personall I think 'How are you' messages are on a par with 'how you finding the site' or 'fancy chatting' for being the dullest most uninspiring messages people can send. It's so impersonal, it just screams laziness
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you need to find what works for you OP, ..
start with 'nice profile...I liked the bit about........'
that shows you actually read it, which is always a good start...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.
Fancy a fuck?
Fancy a social?
Fancy a chat?
Fancy someone else?
Fuck off/Delete?
Response as per title..
Try that
S
Im pinching this "
if I received that it would be an instant block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.
Fancy a fuck?
Fancy a social?
Fancy a chat?
Fancy someone else?
Fuck off/Delete?
Response as per title..
Try that
S
Im pinching this
if I received that it would be an instant block "
Boo 
But... I have a couple years to think up the perfect message just for you leggy... just dont increase your age range in the meantime or I will never get closure on it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we read profile or status and as well as our usual type of message try and add i something personal -so at least you have taken some notice of them not just copy and paste a messge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably of the minority of woman who honestly don't need men to waste their time writing a personalised message. Doesn't matter what they could say...it's all based on pics and their profile for me. If I don't find them physically attractive a decent message still won't inspire me to reply. Happy to get just a wink then I can check their profile out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading a profile, and acknowledging it in a message definitely scores brownie points with me OP.. You'd be shocked at how many messages men send saying 'How are you?'.. I don't even bother opening those if I'm honest, so perhaps that one should be scrapped? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably of the minority of woman who honestly don't need men to waste their time writing a personalised message. Doesn't matter what they could say...it's all based on pics and their profile for me. If I don't find them physically attractive a decent message still won't inspire me to reply. Happy to get just a wink then I can check their profile out."
Totally agree with you on this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure everyone is different but...
1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.
2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.
3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)
4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.
Fancy a fuck?
Fancy a social?
Fancy a chat?
Fancy someone else?
Fuck off/Delete?
Response as per title..
Try that
S
Im pinching this
if I received that it would be an instant block "
I know but the guy in me just wants to knobble the opposition
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.
Fancy a fuck?
Fancy a social?
Fancy a chat?
Fancy someone else?
Fuck off/Delete?
Response as per title..
Try that
S
Im pinching this
if I received that it would be an instant block "
Same here ...that's a defo no no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure everyone is different but...
1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.
2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.
3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)
4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler! "
A much better approach ...also perhaps if the only public pic you had wasn't giving everyone a view up your nose  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure everyone is different but...
1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.
2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.
3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)
4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler! "
This x |
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