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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I can't comment on the dressing etc. But I do understand what you mean.
When we are at a club we are really into it. But as soon as the play is over, we just want to escape back home and kind of forget it till we want to do it again.
I expect there are a few people who feel the same.
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By *ortunesCouple
over a year ago
kendal |
Understand what you mean.
We have been in club situations with 'random' people, and as soon as we have finished, we just dont feel the need to communicate further with them, despite a very enjoyable time.
If we meet at home with people we know, it seems different somehow, and can relax with a drink and chat afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its that typical man thing, i find it too when i am with a guy or TV. Once i cum its like woah, what am i doing.
I handle it by concentrating on the moment, the sensations of what is happening to me now. I can then move back into that turned on state that means i can enjoy the play again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel mixed emotions about dressing and guys too. I'm completely into it untill i cum then just a feeling of what the hell am i doing x"
Ignore it. Don't ever be tempted to try and 'give up' being you by throwing out all you dress up stuff, because you'll wake up a bit horny one day with the urge to buy some cute underwear. |
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By *edylogosMan
over a year ago
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"I always feel mixed emotions about dressing and guys too. I'm completely into it untill i cum then just a feeling of what the hell am i doing x"
I can only speak from a male perspective but as men the second you cum your body releases all its testosterone!
When this happens we actually think with clarity, that's why when you've finished you have a brief period of what the fuck did I just do!
However it normally takes about 5 -10 mins for it to come back again. I swear every time I cum I have that feeling of what the fuck did I just do Whether it's just having a wank or a meet!
Especially if it's a last minute thing and purely lust  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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are you connectging with the meets you have..?
can you identify a form of 'aftercare' that would make you fell less emotional afterwards.. try and identify what you need emotionally at that time and then ask for it xx
i feel like this sometimes after a intense session, sometimes i just want to get into my pj's..its not the same im guessing but similar..go with your flow xx |
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