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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I want some feedback on my profile, all chriticism is appreciated, thanks fabbers."
I would maybe take out the whole of the second paragraph and put up some profile pics, most people won't even read your profile,if there are no pics. The rest of it,is quite well written. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I want some feedback on my profile, all chriticism is appreciated, thanks fabbers.
I would maybe take out the whole of the second paragraph and put up some profile pics, most people won't even read your profile,if there are no pics. The rest of it,is quite well written. Good luck "
Thanks for the feedback |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I stopped at the first line, don't like shouty profiles.
Ok so no shouting, again thanks "
Well done for listening to advice. Just get a couple of pics up, maybe bare torso, nice bum shot and you're ready to go !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I stopped at the first line, don't like shouty profiles.
Ok so no shouting, again thanks
Well done for listening to advice. Just get a couple of pics up, maybe bare torso, nice bum shot and you're ready to go ! "
Uploading pics now, let me know what you think when they're up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I want some feedback on my profile, all chriticism is appreciated, thanks fabbers.
I would maybe take out the whole of the second paragraph and put up some profile pics, most people won't even read your profile,if there are no pics. The rest of it,is quite well written. Good luck
Erm don't ask someone to confirm they've read your profile with a word that's contained in the first 2 lines bud ????
Thanks for the feedback "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I stopped at the first line, don't like shouty profiles.
Ok so no shouting, again thanks
Well done for listening to advice. Just get a couple of pics up, maybe bare torso, nice bum shot and you're ready to go !
Uploading pics now, let me know what you think when they're up "
Yes, I think they are ok. Now, I wish you luck and patience is the key! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find your profile a bit strange and you sound a bit bossy. Your age is certainly very against you, but you can't do much about that, other than be realistic. Also why do you want people to write 'read' in the title? That only proves they've read the first couple of lines! And because you are not prepared to send a face pic with first message, you are limiting yourself to people who are happy to chat to someone when they don't even know what they look like. You'll find most women and couples will just move onto a profile where the man is willing to share what he looks like in a more timely manner.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
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Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't message anyone who asked me to put a certain word in the title but that's just me "
Ok I'll take that out I see how's it's kinda irrelevant, thank you for the feedback |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find your profile a bit strange and you sound a bit bossy. Your age is certainly very against you, but you can't do much about that, other than be realistic. Also why do you want people to write 'read' in the title? That only proves they've read the first couple of lines! And because you are not prepared to send a face pic with first message, you are limiting yourself to people who are happy to chat to someone when they don't even know what they look like. You'll find most women and couples will just move onto a profile where the man is willing to share what he looks like in a more timely manner.
Mrs"
Well I'm not for everyone haha, I thank you for the feedback on the face pic tho I will change that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated "
i don't want to burst your bubble, but you may find things a little diferent on here as regards wanting women to 'work' for your attention...and i don't get the 'blow up a womans phone' but that may just be because im old.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated "
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated "
I'm curious. Why do you think you're a "catch"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find your profile a bit strange and you sound a bit bossy. Your age is certainly very against you, but you can't do much about that, other than be realistic. Also why do you want people to write 'read' in the title? That only proves they've read the first couple of lines! And because you are not prepared to send a face pic with first message, you are limiting yourself to people who are happy to chat to someone when they don't even know what they look like. You'll find most women and couples will just move onto a profile where the man is willing to share what he looks like in a more timely manner.
Mrs
Well I'm not for everyone haha, I thank you for the feedback on the face pic tho I will change that "
On average, how many messages do you receive in a week? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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OP, I admire your confidence and belief in yourself, nothing wrong with that, but you will find this site a different 'kettle of fish', to the vanilla world. There are many, many single guy profiles on here. A lot are very good, so you will struggle, unfortunately. Yes your age will be a hurdle on here, but I wish you lots of luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
i don't want to burst your bubble, but you may find things a little diferent on here as regards wanting women to 'work' for your attention...and i don't get the 'blow up a womans phone' but that may just be because im old.."
It just means like go annoy the hell out of a woman as in go message her constantly and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones."
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
I'm curious. Why do you think you're a "catch"? "
People will only view you as how you view yourself, and if they hate well that's just how they perseeve themself in that present moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, I admire your confidence and belief in yourself, nothing wrong with that, but you will find this site a different 'kettle of fish', to the vanilla world. There are many, many single guy profiles on here. A lot are very good, so you will struggle, unfortunately. Yes your age will be a hurdle on here, but I wish you lots of luck! "
I understand completely and I will apply all the comments I have received and thank you, good luck to you as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones.
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them "
Arh the search for the illusive Mrs Robinson! That will require a change of tactic from what you normally do with ladies your own age in vanilla life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
I'm curious. Why do you think you're a "catch"?
People will only view you as how you view yourself, and if they hate well that's just how they perseeve themself in that present moment "
It's good to have confidence in yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones.
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them
Arh the search for the illusive Mrs Robinson! That will require a change of tactic from what you normally do with ladies your own age in vanilla life "
Indeed it will, nothing better than an experienced woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
I'm curious. Why do you think you're a "catch"?
People will only view you as how you view yourself, and if they hate well that's just how they perseeve themself in that present moment
It's good to have confidence in yourself "
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Be aware that the line between self confidence and arrogance can be quite slim at times. You perceive yourself as a 'catch' but you can be sure that some will see you as an avoidable joke. Try appealing to a specific audience and that way you might succeed. |
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones.
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them
Arh the search for the illusive Mrs Robinson! That will require a change of tactic from what you normally do with ladies your own age in vanilla life
Indeed it will, nothing better than an experienced woman "
I think a dose of Fab will do you good - having to work for sex instead of getting it on a plate. I dont doubt that you're a catch (although it's not obvious from your photos). I remember the hot guys when I was your age all strutting their stuff! They're all over forty, balding and fat now, whereas women of my age usually find their sexuality. I guess that's why the young guys love us! Ha!
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones.
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them
Arh the search for the illusive Mrs Robinson! That will require a change of tactic from what you normally do with ladies your own age in vanilla life
Indeed it will, nothing better than an experienced woman
I think a dose of Fab will do you good - having to work for sex instead of getting it on a plate. I dont doubt that you're a catch (although it's not obvious from your photos). I remember the hot guys when I was your age all strutting their stuff! They're all over forty, balding and fat now, whereas women of my age usually find their sexuality. I guess that's why the young guys love us! Ha!
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By *amissCouple
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Can I just say OP, I have a grandson and a nephew the same age as you and they are out with groups of friends , pubbing and clubbing and living their youth. Please do this before you need to come on a swingers site. They also meet older ladies in the vanilla world and I'm sure they have fun and as long as they are careful, I have no problem with that. It is a learning curve for them |
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"Be aware that the line between self confidence and arrogance can be quite slim at times. You perceive yourself as a 'catch' but you can be sure that some will see you as an avoidable joke. Try appealing to a specific audience and that way you might succeed. "
Again people's personal opinions on me don't really matter as long as I am having fun and others are having fun around me. I'm not that bothered if a few people think I am arrogant or whatever it just says to me they are too serious in life again that's just my opinion |
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"Just one thought occurs to me on reading your profile text, and that is the bias toward your pleasure rather than that of others.
Allow me to elaborate.
As many have said countless times before, single men massively outnumber single women and couples on fab - and so we need to put in a great deal more effort.
Simply creating a profile is not enough. We need to be pro-active about getting meets.
The ladies, for example, are frequently inundated with messages and rarely have time to go searching for guys.
So you need to approach this from the standpoint of you finding them, which means that most visitors to your profile will be as a result of you having messaged them - which means that you need to be selling yourself to them in terms of what YOU can do for THEM.
Everyone on fab is here for their own enjoyment. You need to give people a reason to pick you over everyone else.
I hope that makes some sense OP.
Thank you for the feedback I do appreciate it, but my reasons occurring for this is I consider myself as a 'catch' now this might sound big headed but that's how I perseeve myself, now I don't go round being billy big bollocks but if a woman wants me, she has to work for my attention in my past years this has proven to be the best way to go about things now a lot of people won't believe me and may have other views but try this, go blow up a woman's phone and see what happens. Again tho all views and opinions are appreciated
If you're a catch what are you doing on Fab at your age? Sex is easy for good looking fit young men. But the swing scene is bloody hard work for men, even goodlooking ones.
Because I like older women, younger women I've been there, being a young man like myself going to clubs it's not that hard to create 'connections' with young women, but older women is a total different ball game, and you don't see many older women in clubs, that's my reason for being on fab, yes I would say that I have made more connections in person than online and you all are more experienced than me on this site, so I will take your comments on board and apply them
Arh the search for the illusive Mrs Robinson! That will require a change of tactic from what you normally do with ladies your own age in vanilla life
Indeed it will, nothing better than an experienced woman
I think a dose of Fab will do you good - having to work for sex instead of getting it on a plate. I dont doubt that you're a catch (although it's not obvious from your photos). I remember the hot guys when I was your age all strutting their stuff! They're all over forty, balding and fat now, whereas women of my age usually find their sexuality. I guess that's why the young guys love us! Ha!
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Only the lucky ladies get to see the rest, older woman are just wow, that's literally the only word I can describe you's with |
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"Can I just say OP, I have a grandson and a nephew the same age as you and they are out with groups of friends , pubbing and clubbing and living their youth. Please do this before you need to come on a swingers site. They also meet older ladies in the vanilla world and I'm sure they have fun and as long as they are careful, I have no problem with that. It is a learning curve for them "
I only go to pubs when there's a football match on and the pub is just full of men but I'll have to go to some more and see what's out there, thanks for the tip |
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By *amissCouple
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"Can I just say OP, I have a grandson and a nephew the same age as you and they are out with groups of friends , pubbing and clubbing and living their youth. Please do this before you need to come on a swingers site. They also meet older ladies in the vanilla world and I'm sure they have fun and as long as they are careful, I have no problem with that. It is a learning curve for them
I only go to pubs when there's a football match on and the pub is just full of men but I'll have to go to some more and see what's out there, thanks for the tip "
Obviously different to the pubs round here, my nephew often rolls in late having met a 35 year old lady, who is a football fan! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can I just say OP, I have a grandson and a nephew the same age as you and they are out with groups of friends , pubbing and clubbing and living their youth. Please do this before you need to come on a swingers site. They also meet older ladies in the vanilla world and I'm sure they have fun and as long as they are careful, I have no problem with that. It is a learning curve for them
I only go to pubs when there's a football match on and the pub is just full of men but I'll have to go to some more and see what's out there, thanks for the tip
Obviously different to the pubs round here, my nephew often rolls in late having met a 35 year old lady, who is a football fan! "
Oh god I wish that happened over here, that would be my dream woman right there haha |
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By *amissCouple
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"Can I just say OP, I have a grandson and a nephew the same age as you and they are out with groups of friends , pubbing and clubbing and living their youth. Please do this before you need to come on a swingers site. They also meet older ladies in the vanilla world and I'm sure they have fun and as long as they are careful, I have no problem with that. It is a learning curve for them
I only go to pubs when there's a football match on and the pub is just full of men but I'll have to go to some more and see what's out there, thanks for the tip
Obviously different to the pubs round here, my nephew often rolls in late having met a 35 year old lady, who is a football fan!
Oh god I wish that happened over here, that would be my dream woman right there haha "
Maybe you need to move down south!!some great pubs and some fabulous older ladies!  |
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"Be aware that the line between self confidence and arrogance can be quite slim at times. You perceive yourself as a 'catch' but you can be sure that some will see you as an avoidable joke. Try appealing to a specific audience and that way you might succeed.
Again people's personal opinions on me don't really matter as long as I am having fun and others are having fun around me. I'm not that bothered if a few people think I am arrogant or whatever it just says to me they are too serious in life again that's just my opinion "
In which case why did you ask for feedback on your profile.
Let me remind you of your initial post.
"Hi all, I want some feedback on my profile, all chriticism is appreciated, thanks fabbers."
You have openly welcomed criticism of your profile.
Many forumites have taken the time to provide feedback to you and your responses have been, well, rather arrogant - something that a few members have commented about your profile.
As has been said, fab is very different to the vanilla world.
If this approach has worked for you in 'normal life', great, but it has been suggested to you that it won't work here.
Single men massively outnumber women on fab, by around 100 to 1 - Yes, it really IS that high.
What has become apparent is that this thread is nothing more than a 'look at me thread' and you have no intention of taking on board any of the advice you have been provided, and so my final comment on the issue will simply be this.
Change your approach or change your expectations. |
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