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Mff with my husband and a hot female
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
You're not asking too much but asking for a woman that hasn't met many people might be. Assuming people don't look after their health for some reason will no doubt put people off. Thinking that Fab is some kind of diary of peoples sex lives is a little misguided. Someone with just 1 verification could be having bareback sex every night of the week and you'd be non the wiser.
It doesn't make you unhealthy if you don't click nd move on or if you have been her a few years and have verifactions. No doubt if you are on in a few years time you may be into double figures with people thinking the same? Maybe relax a little and enjoy a laugh and a smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You might struggle looking for a woman if you are ruling out women who have other partners. You say you won't meet couples who meet alone, but *lots* of people are in one or more relationships and *also* meet people on their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're not asking too much but asking for a woman that hasn't met many people might be. Assuming people don't look after their health for some reason will no doubt put people off. Thinking that Fab is some kind of diary of peoples sex lives is a little misguided. Someone with just 1 verification could be having bareback sex every night of the week and you'd be non the wiser.
It doesn't make you unhealthy if you don't click nd move on or if you have been her a few years and have verifactions. No doubt if you are on in a few years time you may be into double figures with people thinking the same? Maybe relax a little and enjoy a laugh and a smile."
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
I'd inject some more positivity into your profile. As it stands the majority of it is what you don't want.
I'd personally find your profile, as it stands, off putting. We're here to have fun with likeminded folk and there's not a lot of fun in yours.
Take a step back and re-read it. Ask yourself two questions: A) Would this text attract me? and B) Does it represent our personalities?
The latter question is actually quite important as you are looking for regular partners. |
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By *LandHMCouple
over a year ago
oxford |
Our two meets with single girls came from Tinder. There are a LOT more single girls there and quite a few of them are curious about MFFs but haven't thought hard about it enough to join a site like Fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No harm in trying you never know what can happen. But we've tried for a few years now and got no where but we might be doing something wrong but we do hold out for it to happen on day. Before we get to old.  |
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If you are looking for a single lady to join you then your profile should reflect this.
Bear in mind that she is likely to want to play with and fuck you both. You need to put pics of both of you on your profile and include details of how a meet with you would work, i.e will you all play together or will it be just the ladies with him watching etc.
Instead of a long list of what you don't want on your profile try saying what you do want instead. We all have our preferences and there are better, nicer ways to put it.
Good luck OP, hope you find what you are looking for |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
If you would be happy to meet the female half of a couple and then return the favour you might have more luck? As a single female I am only looking for a male, just my opinion, others may disagree x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I asking to much? "
Well you've ruled out 90 percent of fab with your wish list and only want soft swap , so we'd say it's probably asking too much of too few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we are also looking for a hot female to join us for fun but it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack! And the wife has said she can't have bigger tits than her though lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about switching that long list of negatives into positive affirmations instead?"
Wtf... ???
Worst comment ever but good luck with positive affirmations ... new age ... nope.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we are also looking for a hot female to join us for fun but it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack! And the wife has said she can't have bigger tits than her though lol "
Your profile only mentions donkeys and nothing about meeting couples or females. You also have no pictures to show. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is like others have written very negative and doesn't give a good impression. There are also no pictures of Mr which makes most people assume he is not the looker in the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is like others have written very negative and doesn't give a good impression. There are also no pictures of Mr which makes most people assume he is not the looker in the couple."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mff is much more likely if you are mf who will play mff with the females male too - that way all 4 parties are satisfied, truly what swinging is all about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is like others have written very negative and doesn't give a good impression. There are also no pictures of Mr which makes most people assume he is not the looker in the couple."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
If you are asking as a treat for hubby, play should be on an equal footing for all, if it felt like a treat for everyone involved and you changed the dynamics & your attitude maybe you'd have a chance |
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If you are asking as a treat for hubby, play should be on an equal footing for all, if it felt like a treat for everyone involved and you changed the dynamics & your attitude maybe you'd have a chance "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mff is much more likely if you are mf who will play mff with the females male too - that way all 4 parties are satisfied, truly what swinging is all about "
I thought swingung was all about preferences and choices of thise involved, whos to say a man can not fully satisfy more than one woman at any given time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loved the 'not racist' bit in their profile...  "
Ffs that's their preference. Do you even know the ethnicity of the male half of the couple? Quit accusing people of being racist. It's getting boring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loved the 'not racist' bit in their profile... seems some feel the need to clarify it as there are alot of people that like to play the racist card on here which is ridiculous tbh."
Tell me about it. Usually when they've been rejected. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Loved the 'not racist' bit in their profile... seems some feel the need to clarify it as there are alot of people that like to play the racist card on here which is ridiculous tbh.
Tell me about it. Usually when they've been rejected. "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of the time couples come across as wanting a female to please them, treat the male half, put on a show. Try showcasing what you have to offer a female, apart from being a spare part in your relationship x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot of the time couples come across as wanting a female to please them, treat the male half, put on a show. Try showcasing what you have to offer a female, apart from being a spare part in your relationship x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of the time couples come across as wanting a female to please them, treat the male half, put on a show. Try showcasing what you have to offer a female, apart from being a spare part in your relationship x"
Plus there's the element of treating people like a sex toy with a pulse. Which plenty of singles are guilty of too. |
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