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"What do you do ?? The guy knows what car I drive. Has anyone ever had this happen to them ?? Slightly worried ... " that's just creepy | |||
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"Have you ever had face pics public? He maybe just after a reaction. I've had a few weird ones today but called them out on their bullshit." No he knew the colour and make of car and where I was  | |||
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"What so someone you know has seen you at meeting places , or someone you met sees you out in public, and you know they have recognisedd you, well its too late to don a false moutache and buy a broadsheet to hide behind, a smile or a nod just acknowledges their observation, , if you pretend it hasnt happened that is all yoyr doing, pretending, , if its someone you believe may divulge your lifestyle choices to others , then wait and see, if he /she does anything other than mind their own business , well whats to stop you from imparting a little information of your own, whatever your accused of , the person spreading this info seems to be in the invidious position of explaining how he came to witness you, ie , he /she was nearby at the same time, , so their either a voyeur. , or didnt get lucky . Life is too short to worry what people will think or say things over which you have no control , so stop worrying , i think if people find out you have an alt lifestyle , at least your dealing with your life , something many people dream about but do nothing . I think it makes you quite enigmatic, interesting, worldly, and remember if anyone tries to introduce your personal life into your workplace there are policies regarding the right to privacy, the abuse of which could be regarded as bullying in the workplace, bear tjat in mind, . " I know the risks I also know how to deal with it Just caught me off guard Especially since he said he took pictures of me | |||
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"If he says it to you on here it doesn't sound that bad. If he uses it to introduce himself in public as xx user, he's over stepping the line. Though reading the last comment, taking pictures is right out of order" That's the part that got me worried | |||
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"Tell him he's out of order, let him know that if he continues to intimidate you the appropriate steps will be taken, block him and don't discuss it in public...It let's him know he's got to you and plays in to his little game." That's what I've done And blocked his ass | |||
"What do you do ?? The guy knows what car I drive. Has anyone ever had this happen to them ?? Slightly worried ... " Assuming they've not said who they are and just said they know what car you drive. For sure sounds a strange approach and attempt to make a naughty friend/s. | |||
"What do you do ?? The guy knows what car I drive. Has anyone ever had this happen to them ?? Slightly worried ... Assuming they've not said who they are and just said they know what car you drive. For sure sounds a strange approach and attempt to make a naughty friend/s. " Well he burnt that bridge with me Thank you for all the advice peeps | |||
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"Fk me and they've took pics. Thats a Grade A weirdo & inevitable fruitcake." Yeah that's when I started getting worried | |||
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"Fk me and they've took pics. Thats a Grade A weirdo & inevitable fruitcake. Yeah that's when I started getting worried " If you get any more contact from him call the police. Particularly if he creates another profile to get to you. | |||
"Fk me and they've took pics. Thats a Grade A weirdo & inevitable fruitcake. Yeah that's when I started getting worried If you get any more contact from him call the police. Particularly if he creates another profile to get to you." 
Hope it doesn't get that far...
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"Did you send him pics on private mail or did he just randonly say that? Letterkenny is a small town after all!! ??" Face pic was exchanged while back ... | |||
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"A bloke recently asked if I'd enjoyed my KFC just as I'd left. Awkwarrrdddddd "
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"Recognising someone okay But then taking pictures telling me what car I have Where I was going Yeah that is beyond okay " That is creepy, very strange, | |||
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"Recognising someone okay But then taking pictures telling me what car I have Where I was going Yeah that is beyond okay " You know the score and that score is its not the behaviour of a normal person regardless they actually know you or just worked out who you are. They're probably getting a buzz off the potential control freaking they know they might cause. Strangely that can be all the rage for some. | |||
"Fk me and they've took pics. Thats a Grade A weirdo & inevitable fruitcake. Yeah that's when I started getting worried If you get any more contact from him call the police. Particularly if he creates another profile to get to you.
Hope it doesn't get that far...
Thanks "I hope so too, but if you feel weirded out or unsafe then it's not ott to tell the police  | |||
"What do you do ?? The guy knows what car I drive. Has anyone ever had this happen to them ?? Slightly worried ... " Just tell him he's wrong and you drive a different car. | |||
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"What do you do ?? The guy knows what car I drive. Has anyone ever had this happen to them ?? Slightly worried ... " I get recognised all the time. Some people talk some people just message me on here. One guy apparently was walking behind me all the way to work. Toria x | |||
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"A woman came up to me in a bar once, she said I messaged her on fab. I do keep my face pics private but I did send one to her........ it's a risk we take I suppose, being identified. Just take steps to protect yourself, meet in public first, don't give out your phone number or address, use kik etc....... Also be careful not to use whatsapp as that sometimes brings you up as a suggested friend on facebook depending on your settings...and we all know how much you can find out on fbook about a person " | |||
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"I have an extremely public facing job. I have had someone recognise me at a swingers club who recognised me from my profession. I am extra careful about who I send face pics too and who I add as a friend. Plus with my role and my fab life I don't like to create a conflict of interest. Just be really careful and go on your gut instincts " Thank you | |||
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"Yes i was followed home by a guy who recognised me in the supermarket,had to tell him to go away politely." | |||
"Recognising someone okay But then taking pictures telling me what car I have Where I was going Yeah that is beyond okay " I don't want to worry you but I think you have a grade A nutter on your hands I would inform the police if he does not leave you alone or get some friends to have I nice little word in his ear | |||
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