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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified |
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That's ridiculous! You should be wet. I've had men who like to stick it in straight away when it's dry and it hurts! Bloody selfish IMO.
Seriously he sounds like an arse. Is his dick especially small..? |
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"That's ridiculous! You should be wet. I've had men who like to stick it in straight away when it's dry and it hurts! Bloody selfish IMO.
Seriously he sounds like an arse. Is his dick especially small..?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex used to say I was too wet and it. Put him off me this was so upsetting and has really affected me. I'm now in a new relationship where my amazing man gets me so wet and he loves it but I'm still mentally struggling with it and find I apologise for it but I'm getting there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't be wet enough imho. If I am playing and the lady is soaking me then I take it for what it is. A compliment that I am doing the right things for her.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
No such thing as to wet - the wetter the better in all forms ticks my boxes - well done you  |
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Why is he complaining you are too wet ,what's his actual issue with it? I have feeling he's taking things out on you because of his own in securities
Complaining because a woman's hugely turned on for him ... I'd tell him to get a fecking grip of himself lol . |
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In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily. |
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"Can't be wet enough imho. If I am playing and the lady is soaking me then I take it for what it is. A compliment that I am doing the right things for her.. "
Yes, any man who genuinely enjoys swinging should be delighted if the lady he is playing with is soaking him   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
The only way you can be too wet for sex is if you happen to be drowning at the time.  |
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"Jeeze. Your hubby? Wow. What a guy  "
is exactly my reaction in this thread. What the fuck does he think you change change about that OP?
Is he in the habit of putting you down or is this the first time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
My ex said the same to me.. and apart from with my partner I struggle to relax so on meets I wont/cant get wet... even with my partner i can and do get embarrassed by getting to wet. It is very mortifiying and I can still get very upset about it.
It us one of the reasons I developed how I have.. into not wanting touching by other guys on meets and just like to suck cock and get banged from behind.
Sometimes men can be insensitive idiots x |
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I met a squirter last summer and must admit, it did reduce the friction to a point where I couldn't cum. Still a fun time though and it was her bed she soaked. 
Seriously though, if this is a regular occurrence and he's not cumming during sex, I can see how this could lead to him becoming frustrated. Doubt there's an easy fix though. Apart from more handjobs and blowjob. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks peeps reading these has made me feel a bit better and laugh ...... i didnstart thinking i was abnormal or something .....not great for my self esteem i have to say xxx and being married its never been a problem before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
I used to have a boyfriend who would tell me that.
So I ditched him and found people that appreciated it. |
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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago
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"I can get wetter than an otters pocket and that's exactly how it should be! I'd show oh where the door was myself!
I'll get my snorkel!  "
Mrs Grey - if that's not wet appreciation I don't know what is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our view is the exact opposite. The wetter the better. A dripping wet pussy is the ultimate compliment to whoever is lucky enough to be playing with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can get wetter than an otters pocket and that's exactly how it should be! I'd show oh where the door was myself!
I'll get my snorkel!
Mrs Grey - if that's not wet appreciation I don't know what is! "
I trust you have a lifeguard on standby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a very wet girlfriend long ago -cock used to slip out and end up in her ass-lovely! When we had sex standing up used to run down her thighs-happy days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's Like saying ohhhh that meal was too tasty...wtf...bring on the soaking pussies!!!!"
Not everyone likes it though but bless those who do not like you can control it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a wet one who can get very wet tell him if he's got a problem to get down there and lick it dry
A very enjoyable solution "
not really a solution. If he's licking it correctly then surely you will only get wetter |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"As a wet one who can get very wet tell him if he's got a problem to get down there and lick it dry
A very enjoyable solution not really a solution. If he's licking it correctly then surely you will only get wetter "
Yeah but if he is doing it that well then I know I wouldn't mind him keep trying to lick it dry!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily."
ha ha ha thankyou for that intersting fact xxx |
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
What is he talking about!!! He should be flattered that he makes you so wet instead of making you feel bad about yourself. I get so wet too but Paul has never made me feel embarrassed about it....Does your husband realise how he's made you feel? |
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I met one lass who was obviously enjoying my attention while she sat on my face. She gushed and it took me by complete surprise because she was flowing like the Niagara falls; I almost drowned. Never complained then and never would. It should be taken as a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't let his comments get to you, he may complain but as people have said there a lot of people out there who absolutely love it. Why dwell on something you cant change? Next time he says it ask him if he's sure its not his little cock.. He might think twice about saying it in the future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily."
Africa is a continent made up of 52 countries none of which does anything in common to the other. This is a distorted fact! Not sure which African country you on about !!
The true fact in Africa is a woman getting wet is a sign of readiness for the dick. |
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily.
Africa is a continent made up of 52 countries none of which does anything in common to the other. This is a distorted fact! Not sure which African country you on about !!
The true fact in Africa is a woman getting wet is a sign of readiness for the dick."
Quite right. I should have qualified that statement with the following: AIDS researchers working with prostitutes in Southern, Central and West Africa discovered that...... It's not some sort of urban myth but actually documented. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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He's a numpty.
Collect it in a bucket and tip it over his head when he least suspects it.
Actually, maybe that could become an internet sensation akin to the Ice Bucket Challenge.
So many puns, so so many puns. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's a numpty.
Collect it in a bucket and tip it over his head when he least suspects it.
Actually, maybe that could become an internet sensation akin to the Ice Bucket Challenge.
Ha ha ha ha and ewwwwww
So many puns, so so many puns."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He's a numpty.
Collect it in a bucket and tip it over his head when he least suspects it.
Actually, maybe that could become an internet sensation akin to the Ice Bucket Challenge.
Ha ha ha ha and ewwwwww
So many puns, so so many puns."
Never had a problem with dropping out happy to show him how it's done we can just let him watch |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
Too wet!!!!All I can say is your husband must be mad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex used to say I was too wet and it. Put him off me this was so upsetting and has really affected me. I'm now in a new relationship where my amazing man gets me so wet and he loves it but I'm still mentally struggling with it and find I apologise for it but I'm getting there x"
Affected you , mentally struggling, and having to apologise, FFS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex used to say I was too wet and it. Put him off me this was so upsetting and has really affected me. I'm now in a new relationship where my amazing man gets me so wet and he loves it but I'm still mentally struggling with it and find I apologise for it but I'm getting there x
Affected you , mentally struggling, and having to apologise, FFS "
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My thoughts too..... shocking. Should never even factor when having sex wetter the better. Noone should ever apologise for how they are x |
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I agree, for my width to slide in without discomfort the wetter the better, in fact it turns me on more the wetter as long as its pussy lining wet and not gushing wet.
That is the more slippery wet the better, of course pussy wet and gushing climax together have me turned on to the utter max ... Whether its tongue or cock that is drinking in the passion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well general opinion here is that in the main we enjoy Squirting/Gushing/WS/Wet action -
What we need now is action rather than words - ie; a "wet party"
I have arranged a couple in the past, but they are extremmlly difficult as I get inundated with dozens of men, but rarely get any women
So come on you genuine women and or MF wet loving couples, get in touch with me and we try an organise a "wet party" somewhere that suits
To make this work we need a good mix of men to women
I keep you informed of progress |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily.
ha ha ha thankyou for that intersting fact xxx"
You forgot to mention female genital mutilation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily.
Africa is a continent made up of 52 countries none of which does anything in common to the other. This is a distorted fact! Not sure which African country you on about !!
The true fact in Africa is a woman getting wet is a sign of readiness for the dick."
So you say Africa is made up of many different countries with nothing in common
Then make a statement generalising all the African countries...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think a woman can be too wet, but I've had a man complain quite often to me. seriously?? A guy complains because a woman is to wet.madness."
Precisely. |
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"I met one lass who was obviously enjoying my attention while she sat on my face. She gushed and it took me by complete surprise because she was flowing like the Niagara falls; I almost drowned. Never complained then and never would. It should be taken as a compliment."
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the first time I squirted during sex my ex boyfriend was horrified and disgusted. Afterwards, whenever we had sex I would hold myself back a little bit so that I wouldn't get too wet.
I am now with my husband who loves me getting wet, but it took me a long time to trust that he did and let myself go when we have sex. Now we just have towels next to the bed and mop up afterwards. It can be a difficult thing to appreciate if you don't know about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From personal experiences, a woman ain't horny or into the situation if she ain't wet... Usually the sight of a manhood, lick of the ear, dirty talk, kisses... And the obvious clit licking sends the necessary sexual vibes rushing through the body to the wettest conclusion.... Love it when a woman is totally wet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had sex last night and then anal. I used my wand and the combination of using the wand for too long and being so wet meant that it got to the point where I couldn't really feel anything and my clit was overstimulated. Had to give up in the end! I get your point about if a guy's cock is too small but as you can see from our pics, hubby doesn't have that issue so I guess it's me?!  |
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
Too wet? Is this the ever growing ridiculousness of the 21st Century, where everything is bad?! 
Personally I love feeling my OH get wetter! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simple solution, get some 140 grit sandpaper, stick it grit side out up your lady parts, trust me he won't complain again after that "
Pmsl norfolk thats funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't be wet enough imho. If I am playing and the lady is soaking me then I take it for what it is. A compliment that I am doing the right things for her.. "
I totally agree sorry but that guy sounds very selfish. |
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"I met a squirter last summer and must admit, it did reduce the friction to a point where I couldn't cum. Still a fun time though and it was her bed she soaked.
Seriously though, if this is a regular occurrence and he's not cumming during sex, I can see how this could lead to him becoming frustrated. Doubt there's an easy fix though. Apart from more handjobs and blowjob. "
Try with her legs together.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
How wet do you get though?
Do you leave a big puddle on the bed or where ever you are ? |
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
If I was you I would lock him in chastity for 2 weeks for a comment like that .
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Maybe he needs to focus on his desire to cum into you, and get into his act of worship by giving himself to you pumping himself off between your thighs.
R. encountered a lady he could not cum into easily because she was so slippery. She knew of "issue" from past experience and used to close her thighs together to grip my penis and make me ejaculate (how's that for a "headfuck" when a woman does that to you!).
Other thing he wished was simply concentrate on "stroking himself off" into her so he did cum in her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified
Too wet!!!!All I can say is your husband must be mad."
Husbands can be strange creatures at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been told by hubby i get too wet for sex ..... never been a problem before ...guess i just love sex.
no way to stop it but feeling a little mortified"
Is he Jay from the Inbetweeners? He is isn't he? I reckon he's building up to say, "She was so wet I could hear the waves breaking in her fanny!" x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a squirter last summer and must admit, it did reduce the friction to a point where I couldn't cum. Still a fun time though and it was her bed she soaked.
Seriously though, if this is a regular occurrence and he's not cumming during sex, I can see how this could lead to him becoming frustrated. Doubt there's an easy fix though. Apart from more handjobs and blowjob.
Try with her legs together.... "
Also kegels/a strong muscle tone will counteract the gelly-like frictionless sensation. |
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Eh? Guys being faced with a dripping pussy and COMPLAINING? There really is no justice in the world!
If there any guys on here who think the same way, can I suggest they do us both a favour and point their "too wet" lady towards my profile?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get very wet, it's never ever been an issue, men love it! Think they see it as an accomplishment "
But it is. That and orgasm shows we are not only doing something right, but that you are into it too.
(BTW, would it be rude to have a quick taste) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love a woman dripping wet and squinting everywhere I want to get covered in juices can anyone help I want it really wet ."
Can't say I squint much during sex, I don't squirt either much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh? Guys being faced with a dripping pussy and COMPLAINING? There really is no justice in the world!
If there any guys on here who think the same way, can I suggest they do us both a favour and point their "too wet" lady towards my profile?!"
Yes, men complaining isn't good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In Africa a lot of men believe that a woman being wet is a bad thing. As a result women rub all sorts of crap on their bits to dry out. This in turn makes them far more susceptible to HIV due to them tearing easily.
Africa is a continent made up of 52 countries none of which does anything in common to the other. This is a distorted fact! Not sure which African country you on about !!
The true fact in Africa is a woman getting wet is a sign of readiness for the dick.
So you say Africa is made up of many different countries with nothing in common
Then make a statement generalising all the African countries... "
That statement is not a generalization for Africa but for women everywhere with possible exceptions. The first statement was about a specific group -prostitutes- in specific regions. And no source was quoted... That is the kind of derogatory generalization made about africans. Like we live in trees too right  .
The OP's husband's opinion is misguided at best and she shouldn't feel bad at all. I'm African and a partner getting as wet as possible is a beautiful thing xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best be 'too wet' than 'too dry' friction cld start a fire  "
Not according to someone I met the other day, the wetter I got the more he couldn't keep it up which for some reason I got even wetter most embarrassing all round. oops |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best be 'too wet' than 'too dry' friction cld start a fire
Not according to someone I met the other day, the wetter I got the more he couldn't keep it up which for some reason I got even wetter most embarrassing all round. oops"
Lol his loss, maybe he had no clue what he was doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One more vote here, for 'the wetter the better' - sure beats dry.
The wetter she gets and the more she's turned on, the more I get turned on as well and consequently, more likely to cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex used to say I was too wet and it. Put him off me this was so upsetting and has really affected me. I'm now in a new relationship where my amazing man gets me so wet and he loves it but I'm still mentally struggling with it and find I apologise for it but I'm getting there x"
I know how you feel as the same thing happened to me. Seems it's a massive turn on for most guys. Protect your bedding and enjoy'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found sometimes that when I get too wet it really reduces any sensation I have down there so maybe it's a similar thing for him."
I agree have found that before. But i do like it wet and seeing my cock covered in her jucies. So sexy. |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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Now, if we'd had a thread saying 'My husband complains that my pussy is too tight' all the White Nights would be jumping in with how much they love a tight pussy and 'he' should stop complaining etc..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now, if we'd had a thread saying 'My husband complains that my pussy is too tight' all the White Nights would be jumping in with how much they love a tight pussy and 'he' should stop complaining etc....."
Yes or if you had no vagina and only an arse hole.
They would still be saying they would love to just fuck your arsehole as they adore that more than fucking pussy
Its a win win for women on here regardless what size shape big vag tight vag no vag etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like being very wet, so I dry myself off with a hand towel, if it happens.
My long term partner loves it, but I don't like to feel it dribble down my arse or inner thighs. |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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"Now, if we'd had a thread saying 'My husband complains that my pussy is too tight' all the White Nights would be jumping in with how much they love a tight pussy and 'he' should stop complaining etc.....
Yes or if you had no vagina and only an arse hole.
They would still be saying they would love to just fuck your arsehole as they adore that more than fucking pussy
Its a win win for women on here regardless what size shape big vag tight vag no vag etc
Ha Ha "
You're right
D has got two arseholes but at least one cuts the grass and puts the bins out. |
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"That's ridiculous! You should be wet. I've had men who like to stick it in straight away when it's dry and it hurts! Bloody selfish IMO.
Seriously he sounds like an arse. Is his dick especially small..?"
it is always better when you are fucking a nice wet pussy i dont like a dry pussy
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