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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?  |
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"I'm not sure exactly what you mean. Are you saying that people are using whisper to exclude others? i mean you other than the forum to know people"
Using other ways of chatting?
We only use the messaging system on here or face to face it works for us  |
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"There is no whisper option on Fab  i now that i call the forum whisper it seem that is the only why to make friends here."
Still not sure what you mean but the forums is a great way to get to know some people.
The chat rooms are another. Going to socials is even better
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"Does he perhaps mean the "PM" facility in chat?
nope i do not because i do not use chat due to knowing it will not work for me"
Well I don't think we know what you mean then. We are allowed to have private chats with the people we know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does he perhaps mean the "PM" facility in chat?
nope i do not because i do not use chat due to knowing it will not work for me
Well I don't think we know what you mean then. We are allowed to have private chats with the people we know."
i can not use it due to finding hard to read message |
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this? "
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent?"
do not know it only a saying thats all meaning mail people.. i been told i only wrong site  |
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent? do not know it only a saying thats all meaning mail people.. i been told i only wrong site "
I don't understand what you're saying. Sorry I can't help. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent?"
I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits.
Is this right OP?"
no it not but people think its right  |
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"I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits.
Is this right OP? no it not but people think its right "
No, she was asking you if the first bit is what you meant when you started the thread. |
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"I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits.
Is this right OP? no it not but people think its right "
You mean we shouldn't chat to our friends in private messages, we should do all our 'talking' in here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in  "
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English |
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English "
So, what difference does that make? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English "
Nobody understands what I what Im on about half the time either so dont worry about it  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English "
But no offence OP if I don't understand a post, I will personally ignore it, others may do the same |
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
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I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English "
The way you write is very difficult to decypher but we are trying.
For example, I know you grew up in SA but your last post says that you weren't. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I remember the old chat rooms and when the whispers went wrong it used to be hilarious 
I only know about it because some people have come back after a long break and thought they still worked "
And some really went tits up! |
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"I remember the old chat rooms and when the whispers went wrong it used to be hilarious
I only know about it because some people have come back after a long break and thought they still worked
And some really went tits up! "
I'd like to have seen them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English
The way you write is very difficult to decypher but we are trying.
For example, I know you grew up in SA but your last post says that you weren't."
well i was born in the uk left at 2 and a half so i am british by birth.. I came to this site to make friends in the end hope that understanding now.. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I remember the old chat rooms and when the whispers went wrong it used to be hilarious
I only know about it because some people have come back after a long break and thought they still worked
And some really went tits up!
I'd like to have seen them "
I was probably just as bad with 1 or 2 but there used to be some proper fuck ups lol but give them their due they were quite hard to do properly if my memory serves me right, probably why they introduced the new chat rooms, but they really did leave some people great for the onlookers though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English "
no offence OP but if Seeside can manage to get his point across, I am pretty sure you would have no problem..
just keep at it |
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English
The way you write is very difficult to decypher but we are trying.
For example, I know you grew up in SA but your last post says that you weren't. well i was born in the uk left at 2 and a half so i am british by birth.. I came to this site to make friends in the end hope that understanding now.. "
You keep missing the point of posts, confusing posts and can't explain what you mean. I suggest that's probably why you are not having any luck with chatting.
I'm going to ask a personal question but you don't have to answer it here (or at all).
Do you live in supported accommodation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English
The way you write is very difficult to decypher but we are trying.
For example, I know you grew up in SA but your last post says that you weren't. well i was born in the uk left at 2 and a half so i am british by birth.. I came to this site to make friends in the end hope that understanding now..
You keep missing the point of posts, confusing posts and can't explain what you mean. I suggest that's probably why you are not having any luck with chatting.
I'm going to ask a personal question but you don't have to answer it here (or at all).
Do you live in supported accommodation?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English
The way you write is very difficult to decypher but we are trying.
For example, I know you grew up in SA but your last post says that you weren't. well i was born in the uk left at 2 and a half so i am british by birth.. I came to this site to make friends in the end hope that understanding now..
You keep missing the point of posts, confusing posts and can't explain what you mean. I suggest that's probably why you are not having any luck with chatting.
I'm going to ask a personal question but you don't have to answer it here (or at all).
Do you live in supported accommodation?"
no why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no offence OP but if Seeside can manage to get his point across, I am pretty sure you would have no problem.
That crossed my mind too"
i know then why do i get told i not on the right site for fun and friendship? |
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"no offence OP but if Seeside can manage to get his point across, I am pretty sure you would have no problem.
That crossed my mind too i know then why do i get told i not on the right site for fun and friendship?"
How many people have told you that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no offence OP but if Seeside can manage to get his point across, I am pretty sure you would have no problem.
That crossed my mind too i know then why do i get told i not on the right site for fun and friendship?
How many people have told you that?"
a few so far but it fine i use to it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for the advice all you sexy members mainly the females and couples "
Why discount the input of the male posters who responded. They responded positively. Exclusion works both ways |
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The thing is op that fun and friendship can be found on a site like this but it doesn't work for everyone.
The forums can seem like people know each other and exclude everyone else but it seems like that to many of us at various times.
There's no guarantee that you'll make friends or that you'll get to meet anybody I'm afraid. Maybe that's what people meant when they said you were on the wrong site...that you were hoping for more than the site could give you.
You do need to be a bit tough on a site like this because you will face rejection.
What do you do outside of fab? Do you belong to any hobby clubs for instance? |
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent?
I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits."
There's a Reply private option when replying to forums? op is that wot you mean???? |
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent?
I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits.
There's a Reply private option when replying to forums? op is that wot you mean???? "
We don't know, neither does he. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi just wondering it’s necessary to have whisper messages as lots of people being left out in conversations and the general flow of conversation stops when people exclude others in friendship and fun. Private message them to cheer them up by one on one and is more than adequate if you feel need to say anything in private. We think the site suffers when people unable to engage in friendship or fun other and a major factor in this is whisper. Any thought on this?
What is a whisper message? How is a whisper message sent?
I think the OP is thinking we're all off messaging each other in between posting on the forums so he's missing all the best bits.
There's a Reply private option when replying to forums? op is that wot you mean????
We don't know, neither does he."
I have an idea, as this used to be a feature on another site I was on... when using the chatrooms someone could message you privately without asking first...it was a pain in the arse to keep up with tbh and I am glad it doesn't happen here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thanks for the advice all you sexy members mainly the females and couples
Why discount the input of the male posters who responded. They responded positively. Exclusion works both ways "
Agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will talk privately at times and lots of people are regulars on the forum having in jokes that may look like they are talking privately but it doesn't mean you are being left out
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"Chat on the forum OP like everyone else.
Join in
I try but seem no one understand the way I write due to my gammier here I was not raised in south Africa so the way I write is not pure English
no offence OP but if Seeside can manage to get his point across, I am pretty sure you would have no problem..
just keep at it"
True that! |
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Do you mean that you aren't getting any meets off here? If so, that goes for a lot of guys.
It's not really a friendship site either. Yes you can make friends but I find that's usually by meeting people at clubs
It's not so much your grammar that is causing issue, it's the wording, the way you put things. I've also found some guys deliberately play the language barrier to make women feel sorry for and have sex them. Doesn't cut with me. Not saying that's what you're doing OP though.
Think you need to toughen up and maybe try improving your English |
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