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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
You obv don't have the right women up north, move down here is my idea.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
Id rethink the barback close up action shot picture.... |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
Look West  |
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"No be honest OP you have a bareback picture on your profile
That's enough for me to not consider meeting "
This for me too, I'd have no way of knowing this was with a long term partner unless I asked but I wouldn't bother. Your other pics are good though, and just had a meet two weeks ago so not doing too bad  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I'd rethink all the photos tbh, I can (just) about make out you have a nice body so make the most of it and take some tasteful shots. You're tall and able to accommodate, the women should be all over you! I'm wondering how you come across in your messages? |
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By *erminxWoman
over a year ago
Quinton |
"With a longterm partner. You have no pictures... ditto  x"
Ummm, trying to help
Re the bareback pic, you can see I'm not alone, I would at least reference the partner, the fact the picture was added yesterday would also suggest recent, unless you clarify on your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what... the fact it's with a long term partner is worse.
I very much doubt that she knows her fanny is on a swinging website for all to see. This makes me nervous too and would be a NO NO |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
Not flying this way. Reliable single blokes in York are rarer than hens teeth.
OP, if I lived in Manchester and was struggling, I'd be visiting clubs and socials. You might not get a shag but you'll have a good time.
Oh, and I have a bareback pic on my profile pics too. We've all done it at some point. |
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Ok, thanks for your opinions, pictures changed and the lead topic deleted. Didn't really think as deep into it. As for clear pictures I know what u mean and I agree but it's hard to keep any discretion if they're too clear.. tattoos are a dead giveaway! Thanks again all! |
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"Anyone got any advice on my pictures please ?"
You're on the right lines but consider the background, remove clutter and smooth bed sheets. Women notice that stuff .
If you twist your body slightly towards the camera it sometimes makes a picture look better. |
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
Going offline now but my only observation is that you winked me several months ago rather than messaging. I never look at winks as don't even have time to read all messages - and guessing many other women don't get time to look at winks?
A brief message with a clear face and torso pic would be better! X |
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"We'll see, just finding a lot of people are rather good at talking the talk bit when it's time to walk they go backwards! "
If they've got several veris from actual meets that weren't just socials then you should be ok!
I tend to rule out those with just webcam veris and those who just seem to meet for endless coffees. I don't need a coffee club!
Having said that - I myself have little free time so sometimes have to 'go backwards' due to lack of time rather than interest! If guys can't be free when I am then we're unlikely to meet however hot they are sadly! Xx |
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
I missed the bareback pic but then I don't like seeing any explicit play pics, wrapped or not. I wouldn't be bothered if you were attached either.
I think you look hot OP, and although I can't recall we seem to have chatted in the past  |
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
I find plenty of single women to meet. Maybe you need to look at the other good advice and maybe your messages aren't enticing enough? |
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"Anything I could change photo wise but I won't put up a face pic I keep that private ?"
My opinion only but your pictures are the type that I think appeal more to men than women. Maybe keep only one shot of your cock and try adding one of your torso. |
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
Clubs and socials get past that barrier of messages not being read or being misunderstood.
Good luck. |
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It would be a personality described as being a bunny boiler, not a whole sex!! Jesus stop living in the ancient!! We're all equal other than the dangly bits between our legs!
My point regarding the bunny boiler is just simply stating that I'm on a sex site for NSA. Despite that being clearly evident and from personal experience I'm making it clear that I do not want anybody who's going to catch any feeling past lust and start hunting me down on facebook etc adding my family and child's mother.. it doesn't end pleasantly that's All.
You should swap your time spent in the clubs and join some feminist rallies and protests. You make a strong argument!  |
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"It would be a personality described as being a bunny boiler, not a whole sex!! Jesus stop living in the ancient!! We're all equal other than the dangly bits between our legs!
My point regarding the bunny boiler is just simply stating that I'm on a sex site for NSA. Despite that being clearly evident and from personal experience I'm making it clear that I do not want anybody who's going to catch any feeling past lust and start hunting me down on facebook etc adding my family and child's mother.. it doesn't end pleasantly that's All.
You should swap your time spent in the clubs and join some feminist rallies and protests. You make a strong argument! "
ive got to say OP you're not coming across too well on this thread.  |
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By *erminxWoman
over a year ago
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"It would be a personality described as being a bunny boiler, not a whole sex!! Jesus stop living in the ancient!! We're all equal other than the dangly bits between our legs!
My point regarding the bunny boiler is just simply stating that I'm on a sex site for NSA. Despite that being clearly evident and from personal experience I'm making it clear that I do not want anybody who's going to catch any feeling past lust and start hunting me down on facebook etc adding my family and child's mother.. it doesn't end pleasantly that's All.
You should swap your time spent in the clubs and join some feminist rallies and protests. You make a strong argument! "
This is why people are put off meets, this kind of response (the kind I got earlier) and ranting status updates (general comment not aimed at your profile)
Us girls will look at that and decide if a guy (again not a pop at you) treats/speaks to/about any girl in a derogatory manner then we are also a potential target if the conversation does not go well. A lot of us will just move on
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"Either I've got my game plan totally wrong or finding someone that actually wants to meet is similar to that of me leaving the house this morning to find the pigs are flying east! Any ideas? "
change this bit "Message me you naughty fuckers!" |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It would be a personality described as being a bunny boiler, not a whole sex!! Jesus stop living in the ancient!! We're all equal other than the dangly bits between our legs!
My point regarding the bunny boiler is just simply stating that I'm on a sex site for NSA. Despite that being clearly evident and from personal experience I'm making it clear that I do not want anybody who's going to catch any feeling past lust and start hunting me down on facebook etc adding my family and child's mother.. it doesn't end pleasantly that's All.
You should swap your time spent in the clubs and join some feminist rallies and protests. You make a strong argument! "
'Bunny boiler' is a phrase used exclusively by men about women that come across as a touch possessive, from the film Fatal Attraction. If a woman has a problem with it, it doesn't mean she is automatically some hairy legged feminist.
OP, you are asking why you're struggling to get meets, Dismissing women's concerns might be one of the reasons that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a personality described as being a bunny boiler, not a whole sex!! Jesus stop living in the ancient!! We're all equal other than the dangly bits between our legs!
My point regarding the bunny boiler is just simply stating that I'm on a sex site for NSA. Despite that being clearly evident and from personal experience I'm making it clear that I do not want anybody who's going to catch any feeling past lust and start hunting me down on facebook etc adding my family and child's mother.. it doesn't end pleasantly that's All.
You should swap your time spent in the clubs and join some feminist rallies and protests. You make a strong argument!
This is why people are put off meets, this kind of response (the kind I got earlier) and ranting status updates (general comment not aimed at your profile)
Us girls will look at that and decide if a guy (again not a pop at you) treats/speaks to/about any girl in a derogatory manner then we are also a potential target if the conversation does not go well. A lot of us will just move on
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Exactly. The forum is a great filter at times. |
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