A member of the site stated she was looking for a daddy, I asked her what the difference between daddying and a sugardaddy was - she sent me this:
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. DDlg or DD/lg is a dynamic in which one half of the relationship is the caregiver/dominant and the other is the childlike/submissive. It is considered a sub-branch of BDSM, agreed upon by consenting adults. The dominant role is called the Caregiver, while the submissive is called the Little. Opposite gender roles can also occupy the caregiver or Little persona.
There are many misconceptions involving this branch of BDSM. It is not a relationship between an actual father and daughter/mother and son or any act involving a minor, or pedophilia. A caregiver is a parental figure or an influence on the Little. While the caregiver may be the dominant one, relationships of this dynamic require more love, support, care, and guidance.
Everyone’s dynamic will be different in some way. Some relationships are sexual, while others might not be; some dynamics involve ageplay, while others do not. While it may or may not involve sex, it can involve play with things such as stuffed animals, bed-time stories, coloring, and other childlike activities (ageplay) along with BDSM aspects such as limits, punishments, spankings, etc. There are many different preferences in a DDlg dynamic, which is why communication between the parties involved becomes so important.
I then asked her where the sex element would come into the relationship - and she said she didn't do blacks or Asians and blocked me - even though shes 300 miles away and I stated in the first post that im not interested a meet
So, where would the sexual element come into ?? |
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"A member of the site stated she was looking for a daddy, I asked her what the difference between daddying and a sugardaddy was - she sent me this:
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. DDlg or DD/lg is a dynamic in which one half of the relationship is the caregiver/dominant and the other is the childlike/submissive. It is considered a sub-branch of BDSM, agreed upon by consenting adults. The dominant role is called the Caregiver, while the submissive is called the Little. Opposite gender roles can also occupy the caregiver or Little persona.
There are many misconceptions involving this branch of BDSM. It is not a relationship between an actual father and daughter/mother and son or any act involving a minor, or pedophilia. A caregiver is a parental figure or an influence on the Little. While the caregiver may be the dominant one, relationships of this dynamic require more love, support, care, and guidance.
Everyone’s dynamic will be different in some way. Some relationships are sexual, while others might not be; some dynamics involve ageplay, while others do not. While it may or may not involve sex, it can involve play with things such as stuffed animals, bed-time stories, coloring, and other childlike activities (ageplay) along with BDSM aspects such as limits, punishments, spankings, etc. There are many different preferences in a DDlg dynamic, which is why communication between the parties involved becomes so important.
I then asked her where the sex element would come into the relationship - and she said she didn't do blacks or Asians and blocked me - even though shes 300 miles away and I stated in the first post that im not interested a meet
So, where would the sexual element come into ??"
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By *orum TrollWoman
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depends on individuals really, but plenty of people into BDSM aren't that interested in sex really. which she pointed out to you already.
don't bother searching porn of this stuff coz most of it just made for people to wank to based off more popular porn.
i'd say look around on bdsm forums and sites for more realistic ways this can be done.
but if you've some imagination surely you could think of ways it could exist within a relationship of this type? asking others to tell you is branching into sex chat territory really. |
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