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Have you tried reading your own profile as a single lady wishing to meet another single lady? Your profile is great but perhaps a little biased towards what you want from a man. Just my opinion obviously and you can take it with a pinch of salt. Good luck J xx |
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"Have you tried reading your own profile as a single lady wishing to meet another single lady? Your profile is great but perhaps a little biased towards what you want from a man. Just my opinion obviously and you can take it with a pinch of salt. Good luck J xx"
That's how I read it to. It's all about what you want in a man. If it didnt say bi on your profile I'd assume you were straight. |
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There are lots of lovely bi-females, single and as part of couples.
I'm sure if you search and message, you'll find what you are looking for.
There are also very popular all girl nights at clubs too. Bun has had great fun at these, fulfilling her bi-passions.
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In just over a year of being on here as a single entity, I have met and played with one other bi-fem in a one on one sense; and bloody good fun it was too 
That shows that you need to be patient.
The bi ladies I have played with in couples has been just as much fun and thankfully, I haven't had any problems with male halves coercing or fantasising. |
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Had two message me in 6 years both resulted in fantastic meets so it does happen
I'll send a message to a lady I like the look of with a view to meet and as a result of me doing so I'm meeting her shortly, sometimes you e just got to be proactive |
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"Had two message me in 6 years both resulted in fantastic meets so it does happen
I'll send a message to a lady I like the look of with a view to meet and as a result of me doing so I'm meeting her shortly, sometimes you e just got to be proactive"
If you lived closer I would definatly be messaging you  |
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oh my i have a glut of fems - i turn some away as i need man time too  we are lucky here as we have regular club fem events but we do arrange social events too in order to meet more - |
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I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating |
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"I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating"
This! How annoying xx |
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"I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating
This! How annoying xx"
I just start to expect the suggestion these days! |
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"I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating
This! How annoying xx"
Yep bloody annoying but blokes are just as bad for it "oh I've got a female friend", I'll pass thanks if I wanted Mmf id have contacted a couple instead |
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"Had two message me in 6 years both resulted in fantastic meets so it does happen
I'll send a message to a lady I like the look of with a view to meet and as a result of me doing so I'm meeting her shortly, sometimes you e just got to be proactive
If you lived closer I would definatly be messaging you "
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Distance can be a severe twat at times |
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"I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating
This! How annoying xx
Yep bloody annoying but blokes are just as bad for it "oh I've got a female friend", I'll pass thanks if I wanted Mmf id have contacted a couple instead"
*mff |
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"I have chatted to a few women with singles profiles but find a lot want to introduce a male friend/partner and then get annoyed when I say I'm not wanting 3somes etc. Gets very frustrating
This! How annoying xx
Yep bloody annoying but blokes are just as bad for it "oh I've got a female friend", I'll pass thanks if I wanted Mmf id have contacted a couple instead"
Exactly!! Its such bloody hard work!!! |
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"There are all girl nights at clubs?! 
Why have I not heard this before, the research begins... "
yes 2 clubs here have them as regular events - but nothing to stop you asking a club you attend to put one on - if you dont ask you dont get - or arrange a social for the ladies in town - get yourselves all together and get yourselves known to each other |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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Club F used to have female only nighds ..Lass who worked for me used to make diary appointments for those days ..she said she felt under no pressure ...OP Profile has the female bit in there butit does read as though its .'men please women maybe'
Good luck finding the female fun friends ladies ..sounds like you are winning the. battle of the sexes .. |
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"There are all girl nights at clubs?!
Why have I not heard this before, the research begins...
yes 2 clubs here have them as regular events - but nothing to stop you asking a club you attend to put one on - if you dont ask you dont get - or arrange a social for the ladies in town - get yourselves all together and get yourselves known to each other "
Love the ladies nights and you are right, ask at your clubs about them, LC in Sheffield are starting them now too  don't worry I will still be going to the Cupids ones though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whaaaaaat?
I'm a Bi fem and would love to meet up with other women either by myself or with my guy. (preferably by myself, he has his own fun)
Any one in Reading or Farnborough area pop in and say hi. |
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Plenty arriving in this thread... arrange a social between you all or a couple to include those furthet away and I'm sure a few of you will connect....laws of averages and all 
Me and a regular have tried to find another bi female for about 18 months now to join us or join her.... not working on fab so have tried elswhere and withing a few weeks have a couple possibles from that source found out many on here have profiles on too. So might be worth looking beyond the obvious too. |
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"Plenty arriving in this thread... arrange a social between you all or a couple to include those furthet away and I'm sure a few of you will connect....laws of averages and all
Me and a regular have tried to find another bi female for about 18 months now to join us or join her.... not working on fab so have tried elswhere and withing a few weeks have a couple possibles from that source found out many on here have profiles on too. So might be worth looking beyond the obvious too."
exactly this - they dont simply drop into your lap - (nice thought though ) effort equals reward |
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Our problem is something entirely different... we meet 'bi sexual' females who are bi sexual as long as thier fella is watching. I can spot an imposter the minute we start playing !!! So frustrating!!
In my experience bi curious girls generally tend to be the true bisexuals they just haven't had time/the opportunity to test their theory out.
So if there's any full time bisexual girls out there, whether it is apart of a couple or not... please make yourselfs known. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get yourself a penis.
I've got one and bi females message me now and then "
made me smile
I'm a bi female, I'd like to think my profile reads as looking for both men and women, but I rarely hear from women. I think us women are too used to men being the instigators on here, and maybe a little wary of being turned down? |
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I've had a few contact me but I panic thinking they are men.
I arranged to meet one and low and behold she didn't show. (I only agreed because she was verified by someone I knew) |
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"I've had a few contact me but I panic thinking they are men.
I arranged to meet one and low and behold she didn't show. (I only agreed because she was verified by someone I knew)"
come to the ladies meet on thursday - at townhouse - you will meet loads of us - or the next one at cupids |
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"I've had a few contact me but I panic thinking they are men.
I arranged to meet one and low and behold she didn't show. (I only agreed because she was verified by someone I knew)
come to the ladies meet on thursday - at townhouse - you will meet loads of us - or the next one at cupids "
I'm not really looking for women tbh but good advice for op if she is near by? |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Get yourself a penis.
I've got one and bi females message me now and then
made me smile
I'm a bi female, I'd like to think my profile reads as looking for both men and women, but I rarely hear from women. I think us women are too used to men being the instigators on here, and maybe a little wary of being turned down?"
We have the same issue, many ladies will have m/f/cpls on their wants but many seem to only meet guys. At first we thought it was more because they were not that bi, now we think its more that they don't (with exceptions obviously) first message. Therefore they don't hear from many ladies, a few couples & lots of guys..just due to the numbers game on here.
We wish more would bite the bullet to be honest but it is what it is..
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