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So hard to get a meet since coming back to fabs
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Hi all, was on here a couple years back with my same profile and met some really nice people.since coming back its impossible to get a meet..any ideas as to why? Is my profile disrespectful in any way? Thanks in advance |
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Hi jemima thanks for your input its appreciated.ill spice my pics up a little.yeah I am messaging people but not the kinda guy that messages the whole site just to get a meet.been back on for around 4 weeks.gonna just start going back to the clubs and see what happens.thanks again for the pic advice |
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I'm in agreement with the other ladies, nothing about your profile would get me near you. Especially the first line, if you were successful before then surely you have an idea of how things get you meets?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmm you should have stuck around OP as you can see that in your absence truckloads of 30 yr old men with attitude and large cocks have been shipped in...
Competition is stiff!!! |
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"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile"
with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then? |
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"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile
with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then?"
The difference is I'm not complaining of no meets nor asking for advice. I've suggested improvements further up |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile
with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then?"
She did not ask for advice on her profile from you or from anyone else!
It is against the forum rules to comment on profiles unless a specific request has been made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it takes time to meet people on here..as for me they my profile and pics arent very exciting which is why i not made many friends "
Errr that works both ways 
Woof! |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy! "
That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing.....  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy!
That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing..... "
Wishful thinking 
It explains to them why they are not getting any here  |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"yes your right wrong choice of word, selective is better, however that was not a negative comment towards anyone more of an explanation of why he may not be geting any meets. "
I know, it just appears so much on these types of threads.....usually followed by 'women on here have over inflated egos'. I know it's a struggle for many guys but I also think lots of guys are having a lot of fun on here. Probably depends on various factors...location, profile, message style, expectations, perhaps messaging the wrong profiles...among others. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy!
That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing.....
Wishful thinking
It explains to them why they are not getting any here "
It's always the woman's fault... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Honest opinion OP? Your profile blurb is very uninspiring, reads much like hundreds of other single male profiles on here, you need to stand out from the crowd, and inject some of your personality into it.
You explain about your veris that aren't visible, as one of those is from a single male, you might want to explain that one given you're listed as straight, or are you Fab straight.
Your pics are equally uninspiring, one over the shoulder body shot and a disembodied cock shot aren't that appealing to most to be honest.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it takes time to meet people on here..as for me they my profile and pics arent very exciting which is why i not made many friends "
ps which is why i do not send mail lately
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
streatham |
"Your a single male.... sorry dude but on here woman rule !!!!! And you thought it was a mans world. Just keep the faith they will surrender bwhahahaha "
Hardly. Been let down, wasted time, they talk the talk but bail at an offer of a meet with 3 single guys- just this week...  |
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