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A lot of lube and start off with a small plug maybe. Ease it in and play with that for a while.
You don't do exercise without warming up first. This is no different. |
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Without wanting to sound crude, part of the problem is you have a muscle whose job is to create an airtight seal and you're trying to push past that. So a good method is to push into your ass if you were going to the toilet. You are working out the exact same movement which allows exit. You can do this multiple times to allow the length to enter fully. But always always use lots of lube. Gun oil is particulary good and you can also get a brand whose name escapes me which contains a contact anesthetic to help initially.
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Well, anal training can be fun, gentle and gradual.
Start with rimming. Get used to sensations of pleasure in the area, leaving you wanting more.
From there, one gentle lubed finger. Again, gets you used to something actually penetrating you.
From one finger it then becomes two fingers to get you used to gentle stretching.
And then you are ready for cock, done gradually and gently. No rush and progress from one to the other as you feel comfortable
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Time, patience and communication...
When it comes to it, lie on your back and he comes under....think missionary
You can control how much you take, what speed and gives more control from leg angle to speed
Lots of clit stimulation too will help you relax more |
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The product I was thinking of was Doc Johnson rear entry. It has a 0.75% concentration of lidocaine. Dentists use ~2% into soft tissues so on topical contact you're not going to get anything like total loss of sensation.
Horses for courses... |
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"He needs a longer run up.
You're welcome. 
Not a problem I get aroused very easily , it's just anal I have a problem with x"
Try not to make it the be all and end all because some women just never achieve it.
Yes you can practice all you want take it slowly gently but if it don't fit don't force it  |
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"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other
and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?"
If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.
Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?
If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy. |
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"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other
and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?
If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.
Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?
If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy. "
I'd disagree with this!
I didn't enjoy anal at all the first couple of times - couldn't see what the fuss was about! Now I LOVE it and come as much during anal as I do during vaginal!
It's not for everyone but it's worth persisting I think! Extra holes mean extra pleasure options!   |
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"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other
and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?
If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.
Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?
If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy. "
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Yes totally agree with you he is fine about it but I want to very much . He hasn't even tried for a while but I would like to try again , something special I can share with him , maybe one day. Thank goodness he isn't huge ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other
and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?
If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.
Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?
If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy.
I'd disagree with this!
I didn't enjoy anal at all the first couple of times - couldn't see what the fuss was about! Now I LOVE it and come as much during anal as I do during vaginal!
It's not for everyone but it's worth persisting I think! Extra holes mean extra pleasure options! "
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