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I'm a newbie and can't get a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He has asked for help, the first thing people are gona see is your profile, you have a cock pic with you socks on show  that would put me off...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cant really give you profile advice,as you haven't asked .However it needs a bit more work on it
Miss"
i think asking for help encompasses that...so, you need a profile..6 words is not a profile. |
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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago
Alcester |
"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha"
Aww. My heart bleeds....
How do you know you're a 'great fuck'?
Whoever told you that, don't believe them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being brutal there are a couple of things you can't change (without flat out lying) that will play against you eg your age, then you effectively have no pics as your avatar gives me no idea of what you look like, and your text tells me nothing really. The self professed being good with your tongue just makes me think Oh, another one. Stand out for the right reasons, effort on here gets rewarded. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
You have a number of things that you can’t change but which go against you before you start writing a profile.
1) you’re a man
2) your age
3) you can’t accommodate
Because of this you have to put a lot of thought into your profile and provide photos that grab attention and write something special to make the people you want to meet feel they cannot miss out on the chance to meet.
In commerce terms you have to sell yourself.
It’s not easy but you are competing in a buyers market where there are more men wanting to meet couples and women than couples and women wanting to meet men.
Grab their attention and stand out from the crowd.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only been here 9 weeks.
Most single guys wait around 6 months to get their first meet - at least, that was the case when I joined 4 years ago.
It seems that things may have got even tougher for us single guys.
Perhaps you should think about what your expectations were of fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad question mate. I've asked before too. Andall u get u need more in ur profile lol u put loads in nothing will change, u try less the same. Think smart about it and write something that is going to draw ladies in or men if so. And think about what you message them too when your looking for a chat with them. Alot of guys on here are very rude and say lovely arse/Tits or something and then giz a fuck. U know. Which spoils it for alot of men on here. And u must remember there's like 5 to 1 men on here than women and they get bombarded with messages all day ,so it's hard for them to keep up and reply to you. Ok. Hope that helps abit. Ur not the only one lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha"
I can't help you with the first bit. and you do t seem to need help with the second bit.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha"
Dude your profile is barebones at best and you have no publicly visible photo.
My profile text is the absolute shit, take a look.
Disclaimer: I don't actually think it's the shit but I have at least put effort in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha"
Not surprised to be honest.
The great fuck comment, the profile, the wording...where do I start. |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"Get yourselves to a club, meeting in person veris are what you need"
Great advice there .. I'd say definitely work on your bio and put some classy pics on like a shot of your abs with a shirt undone
Don't look at my profile tho it sucks
Good luck and don't expect anything as it takes time |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"Get yourselves to a club, meeting in person veris are what you need
Great advice there .. I'd say definitely work on your bio and put some classy pics on like a shot of your abs with a shirt undone
Don't look at my profile tho it sucks
Good luck and don't expect anything as it takes time "
Oh and be polite and respectful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha
Not surprised to be honest.
The great fuck comment, the profile, the wording...where do I start."
ahh bless lol he wants some advice then u just knock him for 6 lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In need of help I've been on here and I'm getting no luck at all..I'm a great fuck aswell hahaha
Not surprised to be honest.
The great fuck comment, the profile, the wording...where do I start. ahh bless lol he wants some advice then u just knock him for 6 lol "
That IS advice. How it's received is not my problem! |
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