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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely. I crash almost instantly, the drop is horrid. I mainly keep myself busy with real life and in a couple of days I'm back to having a stupid, smug grin on my face recalling the fun. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Absolutely. I crash almost instantly, the drop is horrid. I mainly keep myself busy with real life and in a couple of days I'm back to having a stupid, smug grin on my face recalling the fun. "
Yup I'm with you HH 
I'm not ALWAYS that's bad but can be.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldnt describe it as highs and lows. I am excited when i meet someone but I am also realistic that they might not want to meet me again even if they say they do. I get excited when I have started seeing someone regularly after say 2 or 3 times .. when I want to dress sexy for them, when I plan on what I want to do to them etc. But it if stops after several meets, im disappointed but I just move on, no point being down about it. |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
Near Kettering |
I could be wrong but this sounds remarkably similar to what kinksters would call "sub drop" and despite it's name it can affect both the dominant and the submissive part of the couple.
Maybe there is a swinging term for it but it would this is what is happening to you.
OP I suggest you google it and have a read. Understanding it could help you prepare and handle the lows a little better. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"Hi does anyone else experience intense lows after amazing meets, how do you deal with it"
Yes, it feels like an addiction at times...all consuming one minute then emptiness the next...i generally keep going for more highs, more kink...and when the low hits it really hits...but for me it's worth the trade off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's medically known as an adrenalin drop..days or hours of excitement and nervousness create adrenalin then after the event there's the drop which can cause mild depression like feelings. .when your levels of adrenalin stablise you're fine. . |
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"It's medically known as an adrenalin drop..days or hours of excitement and nervousness create adrenalin then after the event there's the drop which can cause mild depression like feelings. .when your levels of adrenalin stablise you're fine. ."
Hmmm i think that's a partial explanation. I know that the time my body has been filled with adrenaline the most was our wedding day, i didn't experience any kind of negative come down though. I think it depends how satisfying the meet was, in a 2 hour meet then i could probably take a break and go again for another 2 hours. Sometimes me and a special someone book out a hotel from room for a day and it's much easier to come down from when you've literally been fucked to submission. |
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By *y PussyWoman
over a year ago
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No for me It's only sex.
Even though it can be thoroughly enjoyable and great fun for the both of us.
I make it clear from the start too, nothing more than sex. if we have fun i don't mind meeting them more regulary too.
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