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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It seems rife with them in here lately - is it not obvious to people why they don't get to meet anyone?!
Here's a few pro tips guys:
Members logged in now: 21174 (that's twenty one thousand, OK?)
You're probably a man.
Most people on here are men.
You have awful photos of your cock looking like a shrivelled up, naked mole trying to escape from it's nest.
You haven't written more than about 12 words about yourself/none at all.
You haven't developed any social skills.
Women, generally speaking don't enjoy receiving 125 dick photos every day from complete strangers on the Internet.
Do you see where I'm going with this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit it's starting to get repetitive, I think a lot of think that it's a sex on tap site or a free for all. Whereas the reality seems to be that 'swinging' for a single guy requires a shed load more effort and nouse than traditional dating. Fair play to the fellas who get it, I have little sympathy for the ones that don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a lot of guys don't realise us that it is mathematically impossible for all single men to get a meet, unless the women of Fab (whether single or as part of a couple) are meeting men 24/7 (now there's a thought  )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, even if you're able to write well, have good photos and good social skills, you're probably still going to struggle due to the sheer number of other men competing for the few females. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair, even if you're able to write well, have good photos and good social skills, you're probably still going to struggle due to the sheer number of other men competing for the few females. "
Yep. It also comes down to timing - when a woman logs on here, her inbox goes crazy, so eve getting a message read is a triumph in many cases! |
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"It seems rife with them in here lately - is it not obvious to people why they don't get to meet anyone?!
Here's a few pro tips guys:
Members logged in now: 21174 (that's twenty one thousand, OK?)
You're probably a man.
Most people on here are men.
You have awful photos of your cock looking like a shrivelled up, naked mole trying to escape from it's nest.
You haven't written more than about 12 words about yourself/none at all.
You haven't developed any social skills.
Women, generally speaking don't enjoy receiving 125 dick photos every day from complete strangers on the Internet.
Do you see where I'm going with this?"
Yes, but they're 'genuine' *and* 'nice' so have no need to take account of any of the above considerations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair, even if you're able to write well, have good photos and good social skills, you're probably still going to struggle due to the sheer number of other men competing for the few females.
Yep. It also comes down to timing - when a woman logs on here, her inbox goes crazy, so eve getting a message read is a triumph in many cases!"
Yep, timing is half the battle! |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
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I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna "
But you're logged in so you MUST be ready and available for him!?!?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna "
Into your memoirs under "The 125,000 that got away"? |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna
But you're logged in so you MUST be ready and available for him!?!?!"
Ha ha see what you did there.... had to read that twice if I hadn’t you were nearly in trouble  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna
But you're logged in so you MUST be ready and available for him!?!?!"
just swanning around in lingerie here, waiting for random faf messages, then I can give my address and phone number out... |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I’ve just logged on to have a quick peak at the forums and low and behold there is a message from a single guy saying, “I’m within a mile of you, wanna meet meet now” WTF, are we expected to just drop everything !!!!
Guess where his message went ? X
Anna
But you're logged in so you MUST be ready and available for him!?!?!just swanning around in lingerie here, waiting for random faf messages, then I can give my address and phone number out..."
This made me chuckle !! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"It seems rife with them in here lately - is it not obvious to people why they don't get to meet anyone?!
Here's a few pro tips guys:
Members logged in now: 21174 (that's twenty one thousand, OK?)
You're probably a man.
Most people on here are men.
You have awful photos of your cock looking like a shrivelled up, naked mole trying to escape from it's nest.
You haven't written more than about 12 words about yourself/none at all.
You haven't developed any social skills.
Women, generally speaking don't enjoy receiving 125 dick photos every day from complete strangers on the Internet.
Do you see where I'm going with this?"
I knew there was a reason that you're in my hotlist!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read every single one of them as I'm in the same boat (don't make my own as I see these complaints of so many threads, makes sense to just take the advice from all the others) but find that I dont actually (by most of the standards) seem to be doing anything wrong, surely the main problem is down to the blokes who come here hoping for a quick fuck rather than being interested in the lifestyle, the real question for the people actually interested is how to make it clear you aren't the former |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read every single one of them as I'm in the same boat (don't make my own as I see these complaints of so many threads, makes sense to just take the advice from all the others) but find that I dont actually (by most of the standards) seem to be doing anything wrong, surely the main problem is down to the blokes who come here hoping for a quick fuck rather than being interested in the lifestyle, the real question for the people actually interested is how to make it clear you aren't the former"
Be yourself.
Trying to be different from "them" ends up with you being exactly the same as everyone else trying not to be "them".
There is no magic formula or a template to follow. Be a basic, honest human being and you are already ahead of the pack.
Don't be a knob gives you 10 bonus points.
Be yourself and you will appeal to someone!
I'm an aquired taste, but still make a connection with a select few ladies (all with impeccable taste, a great sense of humour and can overlook an unhealthy desire to wear t).
As already said, you make your own luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read every single one of them as I'm in the same boat (don't make my own as I see these complaints of so many threads, makes sense to just take the advice from all the others) but find that I dont actually (by most of the standards) seem to be doing anything wrong, surely the main problem is down to the blokes who come here hoping for a quick fuck rather than being interested in the lifestyle, the real question for the people actually interested is how to make it clear you aren't the former
Be yourself.
Trying to be different from "them" ends up with you being exactly the same as everyone else trying not to be "them".
There is no magic formula or a template to follow. Be a basic, honest human being and you are already ahead of the pack.
Don't be a knob gives you 10 bonus points.
Be yourself and you will appeal to someone!
I'm an aquired taste, but still make a connection with a select few ladies (all with impeccable taste, a great sense of humour and can overlook an unhealthy desire to wear t).
As already said, you make your own luck."
But what if a man being himself is also being a knob? Should a man try not to be a knob in order to get a meet? Or should he be true to himself and carry on being a knob?
Mrs |
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