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It's so hard to meet girls
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont lose confidence in yourselves there are so so many men on here that its constant men popping up. You look very attractive etc but youre out of my age range x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
You've not asked for profile advice so I can't give any - but usually having a good well written profile that tells people about you, what you're looking for, and what you can offer helps - especially if backed up with a decent set of pics that show off your body and not your cock.
So take a look at yours and ask if it achieves the above, and if not make changes - it doesn't guarantee anything but may help  |
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Hi Dave,
I would complete your profile not question marks. Couples/Women do read profiles, adjust the age range reduce from 99. What you want, what you offer, your kinks, tailored with your own personal humour. You are a good looking chap. Maybe more torso shots and less cock pics....leave something to the imagination. Just my thoughts....
H x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi Dave,
I would complete your profile not question marks. Couples/Women do read profiles, adjust the age range reduce from 99. What you want, what you offer, your kinks, tailored with your own personal humour. You are a good looking chap. Maybe more torso shots and less cock pics....leave something to the imagination. Just my thoughts....
H x"
Thank you for your kind advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've not asked for profile advice so I can't give any - but usually having a good well written profile that tells people about you, what you're looking for, and what you can offer helps - especially if backed up with a decent set of pics that show off your body and not your cock.
So take a look at yours and ask if it achieves the above, and if not make changes - it doesn't guarantee anything but may help "
Thank you my friend sound advice |
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Have you not thought about a dating site if it’s women you would like to meet, after all this is a swinging site, which, in the main, is a couples lifestyle where couples meet similar thinking couples. Most won’t meet single guys and that means you are left in pool of thousands upon thousands of desperate men all scrapping for a meet with a lady or a couple that is willing meet a single guy. Every day on each forum there is a similar thread........why, ask yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x"
It's hard to meet anyone but single guys. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Might be how you go about it, try approaching this in a different way.
All I know is if you walk down the same path you end up at the same place, the only thing that's changed, the ruts are deeper.
Have fun OP, this site does work and work very well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x"
sadly i cant offer you profile advice as you have not asked for help.
but all i can say is treat people with respect, read profiles before you message them (if you meet the criterias) and see how you get on
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x"
I don't know what you're doing OP but all I can say is I'm knee deep in them  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x
It's hard to meet anyone but single guys. "
hard to meet them as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x"
(1) delete profile
(2) join tinder
(3) meet girls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x
I don't know what you're doing OP but all I can say is I'm knee deep in them "
Me too.
Shave your legs. Buy a frock. Sorted.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously though; (although the frock thing does work) smile. Don’t take things too seriously. Post in a lighthearted way on the forums.
I post all kinds of stupid stuff and it’s fooled loads of for forumites into thinking I’m nice. Ha ha. Suckers!!!
Bitch extraordinaire at your service  |
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"Seriously though; (although the frock thing does work) smile. Don’t take things too seriously. Post in a lighthearted way on the forums.
I post all kinds of stupid stuff and it’s fooled loads of for forumites into thinking I’m nice. Ha ha. Suckers!!!
Bitch extraordinaire at your service "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m often faced with the “won’t meet unless you have a meet verification”. How Can I get a verification of you won’t meet someone without a verification? Lol XD |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m often faced with the “won’t meet unless you have a meet verification”. How Can I get a verification of you won’t meet someone without a verification? Lol XD"
Cam or, by far, better still; go to a social. I got about ten veris this weekend from that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on guys help me out or is it tough on all men I try and try sending messages long ones short ones dirty filthy ones compliment girls and know one wants too chat with me please someone tell me what am I doing wrong starting too lose confidence in myself
So please HELP me x"
The struggle is real bro. I get the feeling single men on Fab are immediately labelled as one of;
Creep, loser, pest, weirdo, serial killer etc
Or all of the above
Very frustrating as you appear like a nice chap, which I also like to think I am. Oh well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you not thought about a dating site if it’s women you would like to meet, after all this is a swinging site, which, in the main, is a couples lifestyle where couples meet similar thinking couples. Most won’t meet single guys and that means you are left in pool of thousands upon thousands of desperate men all scrapping for a meet with a lady or a couple that is willing meet a single guy. Every day on each forum there is a similar thread........why, ask yourself.
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Swinging has evolved from the 70s wife swapping. Plenty couples are looking for single men. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In real life you don't "meet girls" by sending unsolicited random messages to women. You go to clubs and parties. Swinging is exactly the same. Put some effort in to get the rewards out - go to a club and you will soon get a circle of swinging friends, both singles and couples, and a long list of verifications.
Too many single guys think they can get a free fuck just by sending a three line message on Fab. No wonder they are disappointed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In real life you don't "meet girls" by sending unsolicited random messages to women. You go to clubs and parties. Swinging is exactly the same. Put some effort in to get the rewards out - go to a club and you will soon get a circle of swinging friends, both singles and couples, and a long list of verifications.
Too many single guys think they can get a free fuck just by sending a three line message on Fab. No wonder they are disappointed"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In real life you don't "meet girls" by sending unsolicited random messages to women. You go to clubs and parties. Swinging is exactly the same. Put some effort in to get the rewards out - go to a club and you will soon get a circle of swinging friends, both singles and couples, and a long list of verifications.
Too many single guys think they can get a free fuck just by sending a three line message on Fab. No wonder they are disappointed"
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"In real life you don't "meet girls" by sending unsolicited random messages to women. You go to clubs and parties. Swinging is exactly the same. Put some effort in to get the rewards out - go to a club and you will soon get a circle of swinging friends, both singles and couples, and a long list of verifications.
Too many single guys think they can get a free fuck just by sending a three line message on Fab. No wonder they are disappointed"
Yes very true.
I suppose maths come into it as well.
If there are say 1000 couples/ladies looking for a single guy but there are 20,000 single guys and the couple/lady want to meet say on average once a week, that would be 52,000 available fucks in a year. Divided by 20.000 guys that would average 2.6 fucks per year per guy or one every 20 weeks.
Of course to get an average there will be extremes at both ends of the scale so some guys may get ten in a year and others will get none.
Simple really.
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