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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everybody

Just a note to ask if anybody has had same experience as I had the other night.

I agreed to meet this couple at their home & to cut a long story short, after being invited to make out with his wife while he filmed the action, he went from being very supportive one second to very very agressive the next, threatening me & virtualy throwing me out of the house.

I thought at one point he was actually going to hit me.

Proves the point that we need to take care reading verifications.

Yes I've reported them, & blocked them but I see that they have simply changed their user name, so the are still active on site.

Take care

Firefox47

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"Hi everybody

Just a note to ask if anybody has had same experience as I had the other night.

I thought at one point he was actually going to hit me.

Proves the point that we need to take care reading verifications.

Yes I've reported them, & blocked them but I see that they have simply changed their user name, so the are still active on site.

Take care

Firefox47"

Re-report them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm with Lilmiss75. Re-report them.

If he is a potential danger then he shouldn't be aloud to be a member.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's horrific, hope your ok x

Oh yeah and re-report x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with all about re-reporting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crazy

Yep re report the profile he's a danger xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you meet them all on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's why social meets 1st are often a good idea too

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What a horrific experince.

Hope you're OK.

I doubt verifications could have prevented it though. For all anyone knows the couple have a list stating he is a bad man and they don't show them. Just unlucky and, hopefully, by re-reporting them admin do something.

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I had a similar thing happen to me, started out really good, nice mellow vibe going on then all of a sudden the guy realises that the thought of seeing his wife with another, and acually seeing his wife with another is very different.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple over a year ago

North Cornwall

"It's why social meets 1st are often a good idea too"

I was just going to say the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's why social meets 1st are often a good idea too"

humm not sure that works for nutters, its easy to put on a show and be nice over a drink

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

well from what the OP was saying they appeared nice to start with ..... you may pick that up on a social but then again not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's why social meets 1st are often a good idea too

humm not sure that works for nutters, its easy to put on a show and be nice over a drink"

I agree that it doesn't them all out but I've found it certainly helps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crazy

Yep re report the profile he's a danger xx"

Agreed. People like that give swinging a bad name and shouldn't be on sites like this as they spoil it for the many nice decent people on here. Horrible experience and hope you're ok. Hugs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everybody

Many thanks for all the positive comments you have all made about what happened to me the other night.

Its proved that there are good people on this site.

I have re-reported them, so I hope that they have been booted off.

I'm fine now, just feel a little stupid for not seeing it comming.

Safe swinging everybody.

I'm going to my caravan next week so if any of you kind people find yourselves in Rhyl, do please look me up.

All the best

Firefox47

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everybody

Many thanks for all the positive comments you have all made about what happened to me the other night.

Its proved that there are good people on this site.

I have re-reported them, so I hope that they have been booted off.

I'm fine now, just feel a little stupid for not seeing it comming.

Safe swinging everybody.

I'm going to my caravan next week so if any of you kind people find yourselves in Rhyl, do please look me up.

All the best

Firefox47"

Meet you on the dodgems at the fair ground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you meet them all on here

Meet them all, that would keep you busy!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everybody.

Good news.

They are no longer on site.

Admin must have removed them.

Thanks again for all your help.

Happy & safe swinging

Firefox47

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good!!! Pleased they have been removed. Lifes hard enough without people behaving like that. Hope you're ok firefox and good on you for reporting them. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thank God they've gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes glad to hear gone, do worry though that they come on again with another profile and do the same to someone else!! glad your ok fella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well done firefox, uve saved some other poor bugger from meeting them. I'd like to think this was an unlucky one off for you.

Happy swinging mate x

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

sounds liike he got jealous all of a sudden. Maybe you were doing a better job of his wife than he does..

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