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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just a word of advice. There's absolutely no point treating the next person you talk to on Fab still pissed off with the one or two or ten or ninety who came before. They have nothing to do with those people.

So take a deep breath and, as hard as it may seem, drop your baggage, let down your guard, brush off any jadedness that might have swollen in you, try to muster some enthusiasm, put on your best smile, and just try to give them half a chance to be exactly the blast of fresh air you needed

The same advice applies for people's profiles (why not get rid of all those negative remarks about other people? They don't apply to the people you really want to meet do they) and for all those unreplied messages sat in your inbox (why not reach out and try someone new? They may surprise you). Chin up

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

We're doing ok as we are ta.

Positive and encouraging to the right people and happy that we know what we're after

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Been around long enough to know what i do and do not want

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Negative and moany profiles act like a filter so enable me to avoid them.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple  over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Negative and moany profiles act like a filter so enable me to avoid them. "

This, and being positive will generally be more fruitful in most things, not just here but in life in general.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Positivity is good, I like your post OP, some true words. Those people who post negative updates etc are ones I know to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try. I really do try, but it's just so hard.

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By *londieddWoman  over a year ago

fife

who are you trying to convince?

I'm happy with the way I conduct myself ty

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By *estcumbria1Man  over a year ago

Workington

Well I don't think this message is aimed at every profile. It's just some word or advice to people who are rude etc. If you don't act this way, then the message isn't aimed at you. That's how I read it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well I don't think this message is aimed at every profile. It's just some word or advice to people who are rude etc. If you don't act this way, then the message isn't aimed at you. That's how I read it "

Ano...I'm happy with the way I am but keep your happiness to yourself lol x

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By *onnie and Clyde2018Couple  over a year ago

Holmes Chapel

We know what you mean, grumpy profiles are an instant turn off. They are to be avoided at all cost! After all this site is all about pleasure and fun.

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