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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think the recent picture makes them overlook the squiggly things on your profile, you know, "not meeting!"
Recent pic=meeting/prick tease...didn't you know?!!  "
I seem to be getting a lot from couples and femmes at the mo. What’s the equivalent of prick tease when it’s women who want to play? |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"Think the recent picture makes them overlook the squiggly things on your profile, you know, "not meeting!"
Recent pic=meeting/prick tease...didn't you know?!!
I seem to be getting a lot from couples and femmes at the mo. What’s the equivalent of prick tease when it’s women who want to play? "
Clit tease?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found the only way to stop messages was to change my preferred age range to 99-99 and activate email preferences. Good luck OP. "
She doesn’t want people not to message though. She just isn’t meeting  |
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"I like a laugh so I’ve not blocked people from messaging....
But which part of my profile is so confusing?  "
The fact that people would find it confusing, didn't you think to ask Sherlock first (rumour has it he's here on Fab as Surecock) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?"
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are. |
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are. "
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation? |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?"
And so she should put it on her profile because you’re “fine” with it.
Didn’t realise people had to cater to others outdated views.
She is legally a woman, therefore has woman on her profile. It’s a completely unreasonable expectation that she change her profile to suit idiots like you. If you have no issue with people using TS as an option you should have no issue with women using woman as an option  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
And so she should put it on her profile because you’re “fine” with it.
Didn’t realise people had to cater to others outdated views.
She is legally a woman, therefore has woman on her profile. It’s a completely unreasonable expectation that she change her profile to suit idiots like you. If you have no issue with people using TS as an option you should have no issue with women using woman as an option "
This! I was trying to find a way to word a reply for ages, but you’ve nailed it.  |
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?"
Nothing wrong with it...but the OP is a Trans WOMAN! Why shouldn't she list herself as such?! |
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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
And so she should put it on her profile because you’re “fine” with it.
Didn’t realise people had to cater to others outdated views.
She is legally a woman, therefore has woman on her profile. It’s a completely unreasonable expectation that she change her profile to suit idiots like you. If you have no issue with people using TS as an option you should have no issue with women using woman as an option "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
Nothing wrong with it...but the OP is a Trans WOMAN! Why shouldn't she list herself as such?! "
To be fair; when I posted the original thread it didn’t occur to me that my post would be construed in this way. I should have realised and worded it better.
You reach a point on this path where you simply become the woman you have always felt you should be and you put the ‘transgender’ bit behind you.
It is silly of me to forget that some people will feel the need to drag me backwards and put me back where they are comfortable rather than where I am.
As I’m not meeting it simply doesn’t seem relevant to me that I’m a transgender woman. I’m a person with who people can converse with. If they wish to admire the mole on my back, what does it matter if I was born with a penis? I’m not going to meet them, let alone go to have sex with them. If I were, I would make it clear very early on so they could make an informed decision.
For reference; TS stands for transsexual and I personally don’t identify as one as I see the word ‘sexual’ incorporated within it and my gender transition has nothing to do with my sexuality.
Fab recognises people, men and women, who are transitioning or have fully transitioned as the gender they are legally seen as and so allow us to list ourselves appropriately. Morally, I think if we are meeting we should inform potential playmates that we are trans. We may do this by declaring it publicly on our profile or early on in the message exchange.
My original post was intended to be a lighthearted one reference people not reading profiles however clear they are. ‘Not meeting’ for me still prompts countless messages asking to meet. Same as it did when I had a detailed and humourous (I’m frickin hysterical when I want to be ) profile that clearly said I was trans in the first line or two. |
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
Nothing wrong with it...but the OP is a Trans WOMAN! Why shouldn't she list herself as such?!
To be fair; when I posted the original thread it didn’t occur to me that my post would be construed in this way. I should have realised and worded it better.
You reach a point on this path where you simply become the woman you have always felt you should be and you put the ‘transgender’ bit behind you.
It is silly of me to forget that some people will feel the need to drag me backwards and put me back where they are comfortable rather than where I am.
As I’m not meeting it simply doesn’t seem relevant to me that I’m a transgender woman. I’m a person with who people can converse with. If they wish to admire the mole on my back, what does it matter if I was born with a penis? I’m not going to meet them, let alone go to have sex with them. If I were, I would make it clear very early on so they could make an informed decision.
For reference; TS stands for transsexual and I personally don’t identify as one as I see the word ‘sexual’ incorporated within it and my gender transition has nothing to do with my sexuality.
Fab recognises people, men and women, who are transitioning or have fully transitioned as the gender they are legally seen as and so allow us to list ourselves appropriately. Morally, I think if we are meeting we should inform potential playmates that we are trans. We may do this by declaring it publicly on our profile or early on in the message exchange.
My original post was intended to be a lighthearted one reference people not reading profiles however clear they are. ‘Not meeting’ for me still prompts countless messages asking to meet. Same as it did when I had a detailed and humourous (I’m frickin hysterical when I want to be ) profile that clearly said I was trans in the first line or two. "
You don't need to explain yourself.
You are a woman, and have every right to list yourself as such!
As for anyone who disagrees, fuck em! (Metaphorically speaking of course!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's them hotpants obviously, they're screaming 'I want you' to everyone!!! 
Damn right, it's the hotpants grrrr"
Is it less confusing now the pants are off? Well nearly off?  |
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"It's them hotpants obviously, they're screaming 'I want you' to everyone!!!
Damn right, it's the hotpants grrrr
Is it less confusing now the pants are off? Well nearly off? "
I think people see great photos and hope to change your mind
Love the Red shoes
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just shows how people don't read profiles! Your arse in those hotpants is amazing btw! I have total arse envy x"
Lol. Thanks. They hold the cellulite in. It’s like an anemic orange without |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do get asked why I’m not meeting quite a lot too. A reasonable question considering there’s fook all else on my profile.
I don’t explain why btw. I have my reasons.
Those reasons aren’t contagious, before that’s suggested!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve read all the replies..and now forgotten the original question "
It was “what flavour popcorn is your favourite?”
Silly me forgot that not everyone likes popcorn. |
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
Nothing wrong with it...but the OP is a Trans WOMAN! Why shouldn't she list herself as such?!
To be fair; when I posted the original thread it didn’t occur to me that my post would be construed in this way. I should have realised and worded it better.
You reach a point on this path where you simply become the woman you have always felt you should be and you put the ‘transgender’ bit behind you.
It is silly of me to forget that some people will feel the need to drag me backwards and put me back where they are comfortable rather than where I am.
As I’m not meeting it simply doesn’t seem relevant to me that I’m a transgender woman. I’m a person with who people can converse with. If they wish to admire the mole on my back, what does it matter if I was born with a penis? I’m not going to meet them, let alone go to have sex with them. If I were, I would make it clear very early on so they could make an informed decision.
For reference; TS stands for transsexual and I personally don’t identify as one as I see the word ‘sexual’ incorporated within it and my gender transition has nothing to do with my sexuality.
Fab recognises people, men and women, who are transitioning or have fully transitioned as the gender they are legally seen as and so allow us to list ourselves appropriately. Morally, I think if we are meeting we should inform potential playmates that we are trans. We may do this by declaring it publicly on our profile or early on in the message exchange.
My original post was intended to be a lighthearted one reference people not reading profiles however clear they are. ‘Not meeting’ for me still prompts countless messages asking to meet. Same as it did when I had a detailed and humourous (I’m frickin hysterical when I want to be ) profile that clearly said I was trans in the first line or two. "
You know what, that was an interesting way to put it and thank you for doing so. I’d be happy to concede that the initial post was quite out of order in that case, since you’ve explained your position in a way I had not considered at first.
Far be it from me to try and offend you, but I absolutely understood why it did. For that I apologise and wish you well in your journey
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fact it says woman but you’re not?
Seeing as I’m legally recognised as a woman your out dated opinion just shows the rest of us the kind of person you are.
There’s a TV/TS option, what’s wrong with TS as a description? Considering we are fine with those who choose to be either of those, it’s hardly an unreasonable expectation?
Nothing wrong with it...but the OP is a Trans WOMAN! Why shouldn't she list herself as such?!
To be fair; when I posted the original thread it didn’t occur to me that my post would be construed in this way. I should have realised and worded it better.
You reach a point on this path where you simply become the woman you have always felt you should be and you put the ‘transgender’ bit behind you.
It is silly of me to forget that some people will feel the need to drag me backwards and put me back where they are comfortable rather than where I am.
As I’m not meeting it simply doesn’t seem relevant to me that I’m a transgender woman. I’m a person with who people can converse with. If they wish to admire the mole on my back, what does it matter if I was born with a penis? I’m not going to meet them, let alone go to have sex with them. If I were, I would make it clear very early on so they could make an informed decision.
For reference; TS stands for transsexual and I personally don’t identify as one as I see the word ‘sexual’ incorporated within it and my gender transition has nothing to do with my sexuality.
Fab recognises people, men and women, who are transitioning or have fully transitioned as the gender they are legally seen as and so allow us to list ourselves appropriately. Morally, I think if we are meeting we should inform potential playmates that we are trans. We may do this by declaring it publicly on our profile or early on in the message exchange.
My original post was intended to be a lighthearted one reference people not reading profiles however clear they are. ‘Not meeting’ for me still prompts countless messages asking to meet. Same as it did when I had a detailed and humourous (I’m frickin hysterical when I want to be ) profile that clearly said I was trans in the first line or two.
You know what, that was an interesting way to put it and thank you for doing so. I’d be happy to concede that the initial post was quite out of order in that case, since you’ve explained your position in a way I had not considered at first.
Far be it from me to try and offend you, but I absolutely understood why it did. For that I apologise and wish you well in your journey
Mr"
Apology accepted and appreciated.
Like I said at the start of my explanation; it simply didn’t occur to me that anyone would have taken my post on that way. I shall try to anticipate all connotations in further. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Def your hot pants and the fact I havnt stolen them yet And I find that I regularly ponder on how such a beautiful ass looks even better when draped in gold This alone confuses me greatly "
Faberge’ did something similar with a humble egg  |
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