good relationships are sustained by great communication and honesty Imo, so it's about working at this.
It may be about asking the right questions, at the right time, in the right way. Your motivation is likely better if it's about how you can support her, rather than how you can get her to have ssex with you. |
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" good relationships are sustained by great communication and honesty Imo, so it's about working at this.
It may be about asking the right questions, at the right time, in the right way. Your motivation is likely better if it's about how you can support her, rather than how you can get her to have ssex with you. "
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Nobody can advise you on this unless they know the reason she's not feeling it at the moment. To find that out you need to talk to her, if she's reluctant to discuss the matter make it easier for her by telling her how concerned you are for her, that you're worried in case something is on her mind or she's feeling ill. Reassure her that whatever the problem is you'll sort it out together. Once you know why she feels the way she does you can discuss ways to deal with it together. That could be anything from couples counselling or changing her contraception through to simply realising that almost everyone has periods where they just aren't interested in sex and many other things in between.
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I can’t imagine she will too happy to see this thread if I’m honest .
Asking a bunch of strangers how you can get your wife interested in you again as she lost interest since she had a rash , and then 9 inches which stretched her .....mmm... |
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My two pennorth worth
Come off here and make her feel like the only girl in the world. Neutral ground such as a quiet country pub or a nice meal. Maybe a night away where you pay for a pamper session in the day time .
Tell her she looks great . Tell her you love her. Tell her that she is special and you don’t want to lose what you’ve got- ask her nicely “ talk to me”
Then fgs listen.
Some good advice onhere and you know her best
Good luck.
I’m off to give my love a cuddle now and tell her I love her x |
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"Thanks for all your comments but she's fine now, we definitely had the best night ever and she's now ready to meet. "
Really? 11 hours after you started this thread? How do you get on in a crisis situation?!  |
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"Thanks for all your comments but she's fine now, we definitely had the best night ever and she's now ready to meet.
Really? 11 hours after you started this thread? How do you get on in a crisis situation?! "
Just thinking the same.... |
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Best thing you can do mate is talk to your wife and not to strangers on here, would she be happy if she found out you were on here telling everyone your marriage problems |
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"My two pennorth worth
Come off here and make her feel like the only girl in the world. Neutral ground such as a quiet country pub or a nice meal. Maybe a night away where you pay for a pamper session in the day time .
Tell her she looks great . Tell her you love her. Tell her that she is special and you don’t want to lose what you’ve got- ask her nicely “ talk to me”
Then fgs listen.
Some good advice onhere and you know her best
Good luck.
I’m off to give my love a cuddle now and tell her I love her x"
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