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What to wear at a social?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all peeps who enjoy dressing classy yet sexy for a social,
Please can I ask some advice (I know it’s subjective to what I feel comfortable in)- but what do you sexy ladies wear to a city centre club social?
I was thinking a sexy dress but am worried my usual oasis style may not cut it? I’m too shy to be wearing my latex etc out in town of a public club.
I’m curious as to if anyone has any good internet sites which sell good quality clothing, that is sexy but may be worn again on another night with Mr Perve in town. 
I’m also curious as to what others find sexy for clothing (confidence aside)
Thanks for all ideas xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go in your oasis stuff. It's a social, so coming in a gimp suit is just not cricket!
Anyone you fancy can be flirted with in person - far sexier than latex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt. "
The same applies, if you are comfortable then go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt. "
I like to see a guy dress up a bit. Smart jeans and shirt. I mean I would be wearing high heels and a short skirt, so it’s nice to get some effort back. But that’s just me. Other women will have a different view.
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a bit off topic, but last Friday I saw a girl in a Wetherspoons pub wearing black lace underwear and jeans - nothing else (apart from shoes, obvs)
Is that what the young folk wear on a normal night out these days?!  |
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt.
I like to see a guy dress up a bit. Smart jeans and shirt. I mean I would be wearing high heels and a short skirt, so it’s nice to get some effort back. But that’s just me. Other women will have a different view.
Mrs"
I feel. A suit would be a little overkill. Even jeans and a smart shirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a bit off topic, but last Friday I saw a girl in a Wetherspoons pub wearing black lace underwear and jeans - nothing else (apart from shoes, obvs)
Is that what the young folk wear on a normal night out these days?! "
When I go out clubbing, you have lasses with boobtubes or just sports bras. Some even have loose boobtubes with basically half their tits out. They stay in pretty well to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt.
I like to see a guy dress up a bit. Smart jeans and shirt. I mean I would be wearing high heels and a short skirt, so it’s nice to get some effort back. But that’s just me. Other women will have a different view.
Mrs
I feel. A suit would be a little overkill. Even jeans and a smart shirt. "
Yes a suit is indeed overkill for a pub! A shirt is fairly standard in my experience, but maybe that’s a generational thing. |
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt.
I like to see a guy dress up a bit. Smart jeans and shirt. I mean I would be wearing high heels and a short skirt, so it’s nice to get some effort back. But that’s just me. Other women will have a different view.
Mrs"
I'm with you on that one, if I'm making the effort I like my social meet to do the same ( unless I say ' Pub' and he takes it as casual then wishes he'd made the effort lol - he knows who he is.. . ) |
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If it’s an organised social in a public bar or club, then I’d say wear whatever suits the dress code of the venue. The last thing you want to do is stand out as a swinger / fetishist in public as that could make things awkward!
If it’s in a Swingers club, then again, follow the lines of the club’s dress code!
If it’s a private social meet, then it’s entirely up to you ... but to keep it discreet, I’d still suggest going with a standard dress code for the venue x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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All really cool opinions. Thank you. It’s great to see most are saying go ‘normal’ and comfi.
That takes a lot of pressure off me as I was thinking I HAD to go ‘clubwear’ when that wouldn’t make me comfi
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"Sorry to jump into the thread.
What should a guy wear to one? I feel comfortable in jeans and tshirt. Usually grey, stone washed jeans and a black t-shirt. "
I too agree I would be turning my head more for a shirt rather than a t shirt. Not expecting a suit or tie/ cravat ( lol), but some nice jeans, decent shoes and a shirt always looks great.
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"Hi all peeps who enjoy dressing classy yet sexy for a social,
Please can I ask some advice (I know it’s subjective to what I feel comfortable in)- but what do you sexy ladies wear to a city centre club social?
I was thinking a sexy dress but am worried my usual oasis style may not cut it? I’m too shy to be wearing my latex etc out in town of a public club.
I’m curious as to if anyone has any good internet sites which sell good quality clothing, that is sexy but may be worn again on another night with Mr Perve in town.
I’m also curious as to what others find sexy for clothing (confidence aside)
Thanks for all ideas xxx"
There's a few pics in our profile of Mrs M on way to a social.
Might help.
Mr M |
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We Always like to make an effort when meeting people it’s first impressions , something sexy but not to over the top works for Mrs . If we met another couple for a social & they've made no effort at all ie dress code but not being judgemental it gives a pretty good idea of their personalities, but that’s our opinion not to say how other people perceive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nice slinky dress, nothing too revealing , leave something for the imagination.
And men, shirt and jeans is good just make sure you've got good shoes. Nothing worse than tatty shoes imo. X |
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"We Always like to make an effort when meeting people it’s first impressions , something sexy but not to over the top works for Mrs . If we met another couple for a social & they've made no effort at all ie dress code but not being judgemental it gives a pretty good idea of their personalities, but that’s our opinion not to say how other people perceive "
And not judgemental at all |
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