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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx |
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The clues in your search criteria..
Firstly, you hunting for a female; likely the most commonly searched for gender type
Secondly, your looking for a bisexual one at that; likely the most commonly searched for sexual-orientation type for that gender class
These two searches when combined, lead you into what’s commonly known in the trade as:
 A UNICORN HUNT
Don’t despair though, these mythical creatures can indeed be sighted & even captured on occasion.! 
It’s taken us the best part of a year to lure one in, however, the wait was worth it. Best of luck to you both, your far from alone.. x |
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As a single female, i personally think ur profile is good. When im chatting to a couple i do like chatting to the female or both, perhaps address the lady as a couple in ur message. I get messages from the male half trying to arrange a meet and it puts me off a bit
Keep trying u will get a bi female theres lots out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The clues in your search criteria..
Firstly, you hunting for a female; likely the most commonly searched for gender type
Secondly, your looking for a bisexual one at that; likely the most commonly searched for sexual-orientation type for that gender class
These two searches when combined, lead you into what’s commonly known in the trade as:
A UNICORN HUNT
Don’t despair though, these mythical creatures can indeed be sighted & even captured on occasion.!
It’s taken us the best part of a year to lure one in, however, the wait was worth it. Best of luck to you both, your far from alone.. x"
You forgot one important fact......
She has to be attracted to the male half of the Couple also.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks !
Onwards with the mithical unicorn hunt  it is generally me writing and replying to messages I just don’t often make that clear , although Mr H will often read the messages
Miss H x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"U do seem like a lovely couple : ) just hang in there x "
Thank you if we are ever in Manchester would be nice to meet for a social if nothing else xx |
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Unicorns do exist. We are just very cautious creatures that scare easily.
Being the unicorn is much more difficult than it looks. You have to be attracted to both in the couple and you have to get to know them both what there kinks are and how their dynamic works. Its actually a bigger task than it looks. So not just a quick message kind job unless your at a club.
Ive been with a few couples but it has taken time for me to feel comfortable to arrange a social meet and then a more meet. But all my meets have been worth the wait.
I look forward to fulfilly more unicorn fantasies going forward. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unicorns do exist. We are just very cautious creatures that scare easily.
Being the unicorn is much more difficult than it looks. You have to be attracted to both in the couple and you have to get to know them both what there kinks are and how their dynamic works. Its actually a bigger task than it looks. So not just a quick message kind job unless your at a club.
Ive been with a few couples but it has taken time for me to feel comfortable to arrange a social meet and then a more meet. But all my meets have been worth the wait.
I look forward to fulfilly more unicorn fantasies going forward. "
Yes there is that
I guess it must be strange going into a couple dynamic! I didn’t think of it that way until now xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unicorns do exist. We are just very cautious creatures that scare easily.
Being the unicorn is much more difficult than it looks. You have to be attracted to both in the couple and you have to get to know them both what there kinks are and how their dynamic works. Its actually a bigger task than it looks. So not just a quick message kind job unless your at a club.
Ive been with a few couples but it has taken time for me to feel comfortable to arrange a social meet and then a more meet. But all my meets have been worth the wait.
I look forward to fulfilly more unicorn fantasies going forward. "
Agreed
It's very tricky when meeting a couple..as mentioned you have to be attracted to both of them..then there can be the awkward..can I do this can I do that?! Always best to make boundaries clear first of course!
Having said that I recently met my first couple and it was definitely worth the wait! It's definitely just as difficult for single females to find the right couple as it is for the couple |
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"Unicorns do exist. We are just very cautious creatures that scare easily.
Being the unicorn is much more difficult than it looks. You have to be attracted to both in the couple and you have to get to know them both what there kinks are and how their dynamic works. Its actually a bigger task than it looks. So not just a quick message kind job unless your at a club.
Ive been with a few couples but it has taken time for me to feel comfortable to arrange a social meet and then a more meet. But all my meets have been worth the wait.
I look forward to fulfilly more unicorn fantasies going forward.
Yes there is that
I guess it must be strange going into a couple dynamic! I didn’t think of it that way until now xx"
It can be really strange. One couple didnt really talk to each other. They knew from looks and actions what the other wanted. So you have to learn them fast so you can join in x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Attend a club in a regular basis make friends with people let things happen organically "
Unfortunately attending clubs on the regular is out of the question we have a young family and thus proves difficult all round.
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Also find it difficult, F will always message single women herself, a nice, thoughtful message relevant to their profile. Had a few contact us and once we suggest meeting for a social drink they aren't interested. We go to a club so may well have success there |
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"It’s not always easy. Last couple I met on my own it was the guy who wanted to play more not the woman. It’s not always what you expect from a meet. Put me off. "
Obviously we can only speak for ourselves but that's why we always have a social first, everyone can get a better feel for what everyone is looking for from anything more. We are more interested in same sex fun first and foremost and certainly not a case of doing anything to please the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We exist. We meet. We have incredible fun and relationships with couples. Be respectful, interested, decide what you can do for us as well as what we can do for you. Chat and be honest. Then we can all have some fun xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s not always easy. Last couple I met on my own it was the guy who wanted to play more not the woman. It’s not always what you expect from a meet. Put me off.
Obviously we can only speak for ourselves but that's why we always have a social first, everyone can get a better feel for what everyone is looking for from anything more. We are more interested in same sex fun first and foremost and certainly not a case of doing anything to please the other."
Yes we want to be respectful of the person we meet, I prefer a social first anyway it makes second impressions a lot less nervous (we are both quite shy )
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We exist. We meet. We have incredible fun and relationships with couples. Be respectful, interested, decide what you can do for us as well as what we can do for you. Chat and be honest. Then we can all have some fun xxx"
Thank you , we genuinely are interested in what others are interested in too working together to ensure we all enjoy ourselves x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx"
I'm a single bi female. Your profile is good and your photos are exactly what I'd want to see so well done!
Accomodation is the sticking point, for me personally, as I wouldn't expect to accommodate a couple (even though I understand with kids etc).
Having said that, it wouldn't stop me taking to you and seeing what could happen.
The right unicorn is out there but you just have to find her.
I ALWAYS try to reply to any couple who gets in touch with me, even if it's a no thanks.
Just keep going x |
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FFM is our favourite sexual combination as Heather is very bi and has been since school. We've found that gentle seduction works far better than swingers sites and the fun lasts far longer, often into longer term friendships. We have our own little harem of single ladies, divorced ladies and widows not wishing to recommit to anyone, but still wanting sexual fulfilment. Having a holiday home in the sun helps too!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx
I'm a single bi female. Your profile is good and your photos are exactly what I'd want to see so well done!
Accomodation is the sticking point, for me personally, as I wouldn't expect to accommodate a couple (even though I understand with kids etc).
Having said that, it wouldn't stop me taking to you and seeing what could happen.
The right unicorn is out there but you just have to find her.
I ALWAYS try to reply to any couple who gets in touch with me, even if it's a no thanks.
Just keep going x"
Thank you for you kind words.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"FFM is our favourite sexual combination as Heather is very bi and has been since school. We've found that gentle seduction works far better than swingers sites and the fun lasts far longer, often into longer term friendships. We have our own little harem of single ladies, divorced ladies and widows not wishing to recommit to anyone, but still wanting sexual fulfilment. Having a holiday home in the sun helps too!! "
That’s lovely that you have found long term friendships etc.
We are fairly new to this and just finding out what’s best for all parties involved x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx"
There's lots of us unicorns down south |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most of our female female Male fun has been in a club . There are some lovely ladies go and we are aware they have so many opportunities to play and often find it’s as much about your personality as your looks to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The simple answer to this is for two couples to arrange it between themselves.
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Let me know if you try this and it works! With years of being on here and another site I'm yet to arrange FF fun where the husband doesn't come along and watch or join in. Xx |
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"The simple answer to this is for two couples to arrange it between themselves.
Let me know if you try this and it works! With years of being on here and another site I'm yet to arrange FF fun where the husband doesn't come along and watch or join in. Xx "
I was specifically talking about FFM |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The simple answer to this is for two couples to arrange it between themselves.
Let me know if you try this and it works! With years of being on here and another site I'm yet to arrange FF fun where the husband doesn't come along and watch or join in. Xx
I was specifically talking about FFM "
Ahh sorry my mistake I thought OP meant FF lol. Even still 2 couples = mmff, I don't think 1 male would want to be left out of the mix x |
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I'd like to meet a couple, for me I would have to find both of them attractive... Which is hard at times!
Sometimes I'm lured into conversation and to find out that it's just a male on his own.
Which I why i only do club meets x
You will find a lady soon. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx
There's lots of us unicorns down south "
Well if we are ever down south  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx
There's lots of us unicorns down south
Well if we are ever down south x"
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We’ve been on here a good while now and still no luck finding a single lady. We’ve actually met them in clubs etc. but their inboxes are probably hammered daily which makes it a challenge.
It’s supply and demand. We actually met and played with one lady who when we exchanged Fab usernames after, it turned out we’d messaged her previously and just been ignored. She laughed about it and (as suspected) said she gets loads of messages and just ignores them.
Just thought we would check in for all you lovely single ladies anyway.  |
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"The clues in your search criteria..
Firstly, you hunting for a female; likely the most commonly searched for gender type
Secondly, your looking for a bisexual one at that; likely the most commonly searched for sexual-orientation type for that gender class
These two searches when combined, lead you into what’s commonly known in the trade as:
A UNICORN HUNT
Don’t despair though, these mythical creatures can indeed be sighted & even captured on occasion.!
It’s taken us the best part of a year to lure one in, however, the wait was worth it. Best of luck to you both, your far from alone.. x"
Loving the fact that I am a unicorn xXx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I try to engage with couples but some of them dont bother putting much effort in so I give up with them. If us 'unicorns' (and I hate that word) are so much in demand as people make out on here, (which personally I don't think there is a high demand), then surely some effort into messages is worth it.
Just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to engage with couples but some of them dont bother putting much effort in so I give up with them. If us 'unicorns' (and I hate that word) are so much in demand as people make out on here, (which personally I don't think there is a high demand), then surely some effort into messages is worth it.
Just saying."
I love the word unicorn but putting that aside I totally agree with you!
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Slightly different take/question.
We've often been told that perhaps we'd have more luck at a club. But how do you tell who is straight and who isn't? Or do you just chat and steer the conversation to ask? Don't get us wrong, we like to chat but don't want to offend x |
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We are also looking for the elusive bi female but for us it's a little harder as we want to introduce her into the fetish side aswell as swing
We have had fun as a dom couple with a submisive fem and would like more but it's very hard to find the right one
Our advice is to stay positive and keep searching they are out there xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slightly different take/question.
We've often been told that perhaps we'd have more luck at a club. But how do you tell who is straight and who isn't? Or do you just chat and steer the conversation to ask? Don't get us wrong, we like to chat but don't want to offend x"
That is a very good point, I guess just chatting and steering the conversation. Ask the woman if she enjoys meeting couples and enjoys playing with both partners. I don't see why people should be offended by a conversation like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of clubs these days have introduced wrist bands one for bi people and another club we know has even gone one further by having one saying you are open to advances from men on a mixed night would be even better if there was one for cpls and bi fems only |
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Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying. |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
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Phew. Not us! Any phrases you do like seeing? (Don't post here, just msg us so we have the secret ????) |
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"We would love a female to join us but I’m straight would want all attention on my man . It’s not proving popular which is totally understandable xx"
Why would a woman want "to give N a night to remember"? Don't you think she would prefer enjoyment for herself ? |
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"Slightly different take/question.
We've often been told that perhaps we'd have more luck at a club. But how do you tell who is straight and who isn't? Or do you just chat and steer the conversation to ask? Don't get us wrong, we like to chat but don't want to offend x"
Its pretty much the same as any conversation in a club. We tend to slip that bunny is bi into the conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying. "
We are certainly not that type of couple we don’t want to use someone, more of a mutual appreciation of the scenario. Myself find those terms very off putting and wouldn’t speak to another human in that way.
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying. "
If that is what someone is looking for isn't it only right that they say so?
Sure it will cut down the number of replies they get but those replies will be a lot better qualified. |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
If that is what someone is looking for isn't it only right that they say so?
Sure it will cut down the number of replies they get but those replies will be a lot better qualified."
There is ways of saying what you're looking for without demeaning or nasty comments like that! |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing it."
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
If that is what someone is looking for isn't it only right that they say so?
Sure it will cut down the number of replies they get but those replies will be a lot better qualified.
There is ways of saying what you're looking for without demeaning or nasty comments like that!"
But if that is the way they think isn't it better to know? |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing it.
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x"
That is usually it! |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
If that is what someone is looking for isn't it only right that they say so?
Sure it will cut down the number of replies they get but those replies will be a lot better qualified.
There is ways of saying what you're looking for without demeaning or nasty comments like that!
But if that is the way they think isn't it better to know? "
Maybe for some people but I don't appreciate seeing messages containing comments like that or getting a wink off of a couple who have comments like that on their profile  |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing it.
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x
That is usually it! "
We are the other way, fem has the fantasy and is the driving force to what we're looking for, not that the male is complaining at all. |
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Up on them there hills |
"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing it.
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x
That is usually it!
We are the other way, fem has the fantasy and is the driving force to what we're looking for, not that the male is complaining at all. "
Echo this completely. |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x
That is usually it!
We are the other way, fem has the fantasy and is the driving force to what we're looking for, not that the male is complaining at all.
Echo this completely."
Same here.... |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x
That is usually it!
We are the other way, fem has the fantasy and is the driving force to what we're looking for, not that the male is complaining at all.
Echo this completely.
Same here...."
Not us genuinely only had one bi experience but very keen to experience and explore more. Miss S xx |
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"Think on a lot of occassions the fem of the couple isn't actually Bi but makes out that she is to impress her partner.
On the other foot have also seen the fem being coerced into doing
Quite often I think it's the males fantasy so they're the driving force, I've been in that position a few times with couples and it's awful x
That is usually it!
We are the other way, fem has the fantasy and is the driving force to what we're looking for, not that the male is complaining at all.
Echo this completely.
Same here...."
Here the same |
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Clubs are the best bet in our opinion, too many times we've not had a reply to well thought out messages which F will always send or, they simply don't reply when we suggest a social, no expectations drink. |
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"Clubs are the best bet in our opinion, too many times we've not had a reply to well thought out messages which F will always send or, they simply don't reply when we suggest a social, no expectations drink. "
Agree plus most couples the female is bi curious or fully bi. Alot of couples are also fem only play |
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx"
Much much easier to meet single females in a club. Go to a couples and single females night. X |
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"We have been on here a while and trying to arrange a meet with bi women / women in particular is proving none existent. I appreciate single women on here tend to get hundreds of messages but surly there must be someone somewhere that would like to meet us as a couple? Any advice? MrHMissS xx
Much much easier to meet single females in a club. Go to a couples and single females night. X"
We often go to a club in Bury, Manchester on Couples and Girls night and find that most females attending are bi or curious... As it's at a club there are no hang up's, no none shows and most are happy as it's in a neutral place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes of course they do- (Our first meet was with a single lady and was great great fun. We even nearly got to play with another beauty at a club we went to recently but we chose not to in the end.....)
Having been a single girl on here myself before I met my hubbie, I can personally say that flirtation and laughter from both parties is very important. I wanted to be seduced by those selective enough -as unicorns really can have who they want. Think subtly, seduction and flirtation.
Message them, be honest and patient.
When one rides your way- it is worth it x |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
We are certainly not that type of couple we don’t want to use someone, more of a mutual appreciation of the scenario. Myself find those terms very off putting and wouldn’t speak to another human in that way.
MissS xx"
You were 'pussy hunting' on your recent sarus update |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
We are certainly not that type of couple we don’t want to use someone, more of a mutual appreciation of the scenario. Myself find those terms very off putting and wouldn’t speak to another human in that way.
MissS xx
You were 'pussy hunting' on your recent sarus update "
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"Yes of course they do- (Our first meet was with a single lady and was great great fun. We even nearly got to play with another beauty at a club we went to recently but we chose not to in the end.....)
Having been a single girl on here myself before I met my hubbie, I can personally say that flirtation and laughter from both parties is very important. I wanted to be seduced by those selective enough -as unicorns really can have who they want. Think subtly, seduction and flirtation.
Message them, be honest and patient.
When one rides your way- it is worth it x"
Unicorns really can't have who they want, at all. |
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Being the unicorn isn’t easy either. I need to be attracted to both parties and invariably the profile is all about the woman. Boob shots. Ass shots. Lingerie shots.. you get my drift. But there has to be a connection and attraction with both and if you only ever speak to the woman (which is usually the case) it’s hard to gauge what you think of the fella..
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I adore playing with couples, however in my time on here I've have had a number of bad experiences with them, ranging from male partners trying to penetrate me without a condom on, arguements in the middle of a meet, feeling like a spare part and male halves then contacting me to meet behind their GFS/wives backs, unfortunately those experiences have made me nervous when meeting up.
I know I'm not the only fem who has similar stories involving couples. It leads to us being much more hesitant when meeting them if we continue at all.
It's been well over a year since I've joined one, and finding a regular kinky couple to play with would be amazing as alot of my kinks involve the ffm dynamic, but there really does have to be a connection between all 3 of us and the couple needs to be secure with each other otherwise it just doesn't work.
It's much more complex than oh I fancy you two let's play, and when alot of couples are driven by male halves, there is always an eagerness to meet, a pushiness that is off putting, in my opinion I should be the one who suggests we should meet when I feel comfortable with them both, but perhaps that's just my view.
All of that being said, I've been swinging for years, and have had some absolutely astounding times with couples in the past so as still I live in hope!! |
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By *osexyCouple
over a year ago
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The single female is the holy grail for most couples. We used to be the same but due to the amount of interest they get and the limited time we have , then we favour couples. Lots of couples like us are happy for another couple to have some FF or FFM time. Single ladies often don’t stay single for long and often there is a guy somwhere in the background . Single ladies should be treasured as it’s very daunting for them to meet a couple and would need to be feel safe and secure before any fun can possibly start. To the genuine unicorns on here we salute you xxx |
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As a couple from Ireland two things stand out for us in this thread.....the club scene in England seems to be great and there seems to be far more bi females in England then back here in Ireland... |
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"Being the unicorn isn’t easy either. I need to be attracted to both parties and invariably the profile is all about the woman. Boob shots. Ass shots. Lingerie shots.. you get my drift. But there has to be a connection and attraction with both and if you only ever speak to the woman (which is usually the case) it’s hard to gauge what you think of the fella..
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Like to think we have the photo mix about right. We will happily exchange face pics and suggest a no pressure, no expectations drink somewhere. This has ended the same way whether it be us making first contact or a woman, they simply don't respond despite being keen until we suggest meeting for a drink. We're not ogres, we don't expect anything other than to see if everyone would like to take it further. Hey ho |
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"Being the unicorn isn’t easy either. I need to be attracted to both parties and invariably the profile is all about the woman. Boob shots. Ass shots. Lingerie shots.. you get my drift. But there has to be a connection and attraction with both and if you only ever speak to the woman (which is usually the case) it’s hard to gauge what you think of the fella..
Like to think we have the photo mix about right. We will happily exchange face pics and suggest a no pressure, no expectations drink somewhere. This has ended the same way whether it be us making first contact or a woman, they simply don't respond despite being keen until we suggest meeting for a drink. We're not ogres, we don't expect anything other than to see if everyone would like to take it further. Hey ho "
Yes your profile is good.. |
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"Being the unicorn isn’t easy either. I need to be attracted to both parties and invariably the profile is all about the woman. Boob shots. Ass shots. Lingerie shots.. you get my drift. But there has to be a connection and attraction with both and if you only ever speak to the woman (which is usually the case) it’s hard to gauge what you think of the fella..
Like to think we have the photo mix about right. We will happily exchange face pics and suggest a no pressure, no expectations drink somewhere. This has ended the same way whether it be us making first contact or a woman, they simply don't respond despite being keen until we suggest meeting for a drink. We're not ogres, we don't expect anything other than to see if everyone would like to take it further. Hey ho
Yes your profile is good.. "
Thank you as is yours, great user name as well |
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"I adore playing with couples, however in my time on here I've have had a number of bad experiences with them, ranging from male partners trying to penetrate me without a condom on, arguements in the middle of a meet, feeling like a spare part and male halves then contacting me to meet behind their GFS/wives backs, unfortunately those experiences have made me nervous when meeting up.
I know I'm not the only fem who has similar stories involving couples. It leads to us being much more hesitant when meeting them if we continue at all.
It's been well over a year since I've joined one, and finding a regular kinky couple to play with would be amazing as alot of my kinks involve the ffm dynamic, but there really does have to be a connection between all 3 of us and the couple needs to be secure with each other otherwise it just doesn't work.
It's much more complex than oh I fancy you two let's play, and when alot of couples are driven by male halves, there is always an eagerness to meet, a pushiness that is off putting, in my opinion I should be the one who suggests we should meet when I feel comfortable with them both, but perhaps that's just my view.
All of that being said, I've been swinging for years, and have had some absolutely astounding times with couples in the past so as still I live in hope!! "
Just like in any meet everyone needs to be happy & at ease with each other with all boundaries respected. Single Fems meeting have the upper hand in calling the shots in negotiating what they want, they are the rare commodity & if You can't come to agreement on boundaries then it's fair play for Her to pass on the meet.
On meets We like to look after our friends the best We can, its not just about a quick one, there needs to be some comoassion, that's just how We are. |
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"The single female is the holy grail for most couples. We used to be the same but due to the amount of interest they get and the limited time we have , then we favour couples. Lots of couples like us are happy for another couple to have some FF or FFM time. Single ladies often don’t stay single for long and often there is a guy somwhere in the background . Single ladies should be treasured as it’s very daunting for them to meet a couple and would need to be feel safe and secure before any fun can possibly start. To the genuine unicorns on here we salute you xxx"
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
We are certainly not that type of couple we don’t want to use someone, more of a mutual appreciation of the scenario. Myself find those terms very off putting and wouldn’t speak to another human in that way.
MissS xx
You were 'pussy hunting' on your recent sarus update
*status"
Never used that term I put on a status “looking to meet a single woman/ bi woman that would be interested in meeting a couple”
Obviously some sort of misinterpretation... I honestly find that term vile but hey ho ! |
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"The single female is the holy grail for most couples. We used to be the same but due to the amount of interest they get and the limited time we have , then we favour couples. Lots of couples like us are happy for another couple to have some FF or FFM time. Single ladies often don’t stay single for long and often there is a guy somwhere in the background . Single ladies should be treasured as it’s very daunting for them to meet a couple and would need to be feel safe and secure before any fun can possibly start. To the genuine unicorns on here we salute you xxx"
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"We are also looking for the elusive bi female but for us it's a little harder as we want to introduce her into the fetish side aswell as swing
We have had fun as a dom couple with a submisive fem and would like more but it's very hard to find the right one
Our advice is to stay positive and keep searching they are out there xx"
I’m looking for what you’re offering ! But just can’t find a couple where we all want the same thing  |
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I'm a bi single fem but what I find with couples is the man normally wants to just watch the 2 fems play while he just gets off on it. this puts me off meet a couple x |
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"I'm a bi single fem but what I find with couples is the man normally wants to just watch the 2 fems play while he just gets off on it. this puts me off meet a couple x"
The times we've had a FFM threesome it's been everyone active, there was no time to stop & watch  |
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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago
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"As a single female, i personally think ur profile is good. When im chatting to a couple i do like chatting to the female or both, perhaps address the lady as a couple in ur message. I get messages from the male half trying to arrange a meet and it puts me off a bit
Keep trying u will get a bi female theres lots out there."
I would agree with this too xx |
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"Some couples need to look at their tactics in wmgiw they are going about attracting a female.
Terms like 'pussy hunting' and 'wanting to treat you as our fuck toy' is really off putting.
Just saying.
We are certainly not that type of couple we don’t want to use someone, more of a mutual appreciation of the scenario. Myself find those terms very off putting and wouldn’t speak to another human in that way.
MissS xx
You were 'pussy hunting' on your recent sarus update
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Never used that term I put on a status “looking to meet a single woman/ bi woman that would be interested in meeting a couple”
Obviously some sort of misinterpretation... I honestly find that term vile but hey ho ! "
Yes....of course...hey ho! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for a sexy lass to fuck my hubby and take turns x
Why take turns? I'd want all involved together at the same time."
Now that feels, sounds, looks and leaves a lovely taste in my mouth. |
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"Still waiting for a sexy lass to fuck my hubby and take turns x
Why take turns? I'd want all involved together at the same time.
Now that feels, sounds, looks and leaves a lovely taste in my mouth."
like ur pics do mine  |
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