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Is this the right place..
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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I think I'd be inclined to hit the pubs, bars and clubs with a mate your age if I were you OP
I did it at 20 and my God did I have a good time..
non stop for about 4 years, you soon learn what women like and don't 
Good luck fella
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And why do you ask that question, are you not getting loads of interest? "
I just find it hard to actually get a message back, I always put some thought and creativity into a message before I send it, I am well aware that my age is a big factor too but I'd just like to know if this is the right place for a fairly inexperienced bloke like myself. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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OP, just remember though it is a swingers site. Not to be confused with a dating site. If I was your age again though, I would be out clubbing with my mates and having fun every weekend, instead of trying to hook up on here. Your choice wether to stay here though, only you know wether it's the place to meet people for you. Good luck Xxxx Suzi  |
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?"
The fact that you are asking means you have already figured out the answer .
So you’re inexperienced , and young . Maybe you should focus more on the positives you offer like stamina and youthful good looks ? Some people may want this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, just remember though it is a swingers site. Not to be confused with a dating site. If I was your age again though, I would be out clubbing with my mates and having fun every weekend, instead of trying to hook up on here. Your choice wether to stay here though, only you know wether it's the place to meet people for you. Good luck Xxxx Suzi "
Due to work commitments, I haven't got much time for dating or even partying during the weekend hence why I'm trying my luck on a swingers site, thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long were you planning to spend on swinging or sex parties as opposed to dating or weekend parties? "
I don't really plan things, usually just go with the flow if I click with someone of course. Dating is a bit different as it requires much more emotional commitment don't you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s just sex you want, I think there are much easier ways to get that at your age. If it’s swinging you want, this is the right place but your age will be against you. If you are here because you don’t have time to find sex by other means, I think you’ll find it no less time consuming here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long were you planning to spend on swinging or sex parties as opposed to dating or weekend parties?
I don't really plan things, usually just go with the flow if I click with someone of course. Dating is a bit different as it requires much more emotional commitment don't you think?"
It certainly didn’t in my day. I went out with a different guy each week when I was using dating sites. Had a ball! |
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If fab is working for you then it's the right place. If it's not it still might get be the right place but you might need to change your approach.
Everyone's welcome to join as long as they're over 18.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?"
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up |
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up"
A lot of people say this. Why is it different at 20 to say 35 or 50?
He's explained that he doesn't have a lot of free time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up"
If you read my previous post I did say that I don't have a lot of free time hence why I'm trying my luck here. Also, I'm not the best at 'hooking up' on nights out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
A lot of people say this. Why is it different at 20 to say 35 or 50?
He's explained that he doesn't have a lot of free time."
I think it easier to ‘go on the pull’ as a teenager or young adult. I don’t believe it would be possible for me to do now what I used do when I was younger, even if were single.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
If you read my previous post I did say that I don't have a lot of free time hence why I'm trying my luck here. Also, I'm not the best at 'hooking up' on nights out."
And you feel that this approach requires a smaller investment of time? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
If you read my previous post I did say that I don't have a lot of free time hence why I'm trying my luck here. Also, I'm not the best at 'hooking up' on nights out.
And you feel that this approach requires a smaller investment of time?"
No, but definitely it works differently than dating or going out to the party each weekend, at least from what I've experienced so far. |
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As people have said the male ratio to female is massive there are so many single males. If you want to be here u should and you can always go out and party for a good time as well as being on here we do. Good luck to you it's a tough one I'm here you win some you lose some but I'm sure you will find some fun patience is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
If you read my previous post I did say that I don't have a lot of free time hence why I'm trying my luck here. Also, I'm not the best at 'hooking up' on nights out.
And you feel that this approach requires a smaller investment of time?
No, but definitely it works differently than dating or going out to the party each weekend, at least from what I've experienced so far. "
Your profile says you are looking for a FWB. A FWB doesn’t require as much time as a girlfriend, but will require a certain amount of time. Whether you find your FWB from a swingers site or a dating site is immaterial in terms of how much time you invest. |
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
A lot of people say this. Why is it different at 20 to say 35 or 50?
He's explained that he doesn't have a lot of free time.
I think it easier to ‘go on the pull’ as a teenager or young adult. I don’t believe it would be possible for me to do now what I used do when I was younger, even if were single.
Mrs"
That's true. However I don't think there's anything wrong with a 20 year old using a website like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, after being here for a while, I’ve decided to ask is fab the right place to look for sexual experience at my age?
At 20 if you need a website to get laid something's up
If you read my previous post I did say that I don't have a lot of free time hence why I'm trying my luck here. Also, I'm not the best at 'hooking up' on nights out.
And you feel that this approach requires a smaller investment of time?
No, but definitely it works differently than dating or going out to the party each weekend, at least from what I've experienced so far.
Your profile says you are looking for a FWB. A FWB doesn’t require as much time as a girlfriend, but will require a certain amount of time. Whether you find your FWB from a swingers site or a dating site is immaterial in terms of how much time you invest. "
I am aware, I mean once I do find the right person I'll be able to manage my time around them, I know that it takes time to get somewhere on here. Just the difference here is that I can be upfront about what I want whilst on a dating site not so much as women there usually want a relationship, at least from my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot of people here are more talk than they are walk. I've had a couple and a single woman not show up in the past 3 weeks, even after seeing each other via cam..
Keep trying and don't give up!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, just remember though it is a swingers site. Not to be confused with a dating site. If I was your age again though, I would be out clubbing with my mates and having fun every weekend, instead of trying to hook up on here. Your choice wether to stay here though, only you know wether it's the place to meet people for you. Good luck Xxxx Suzi
Due to work commitments, I haven't got much time for dating or even partying during the weekend hence why I'm trying my luck on a swingers site, thanks for the advice "
there are some other sites . Ive had more meets off other sites but they cost a load more cash . Id try a number of them if I was you . Good luck . Its ok on here . Funny sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP , I'd say if you'd prefer to meet girls your own age, then just make time now and then to get yourself out with your friends to a bar or nightclub.
If you're simply looking for NSA sex then perhaps you're ok here for a while... if you have the patience.
The most important thing is, don't feel like you NEED to look for experience. Plenty of lads your age are inexperienced and no girl your age should expect porn star performances. Just enjoy being you and don't put any unnecessary pressure on yourself.
I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for, but if you don't, it's no big deal *smileyface*
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