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Older women younger guys. Tips?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay so i have a fetish for older women o just find them sexier and in my head they must be better in bed due to experiance, i think this is quite a commom fetish for young guys to have but am i right in thinking its quite rare that older women prefer younger men? As im finding it hard to find someone. Any tips would be appreciated.
P.s by older i mean 30+ which isnt old but more mature than i am. Thanks in advance |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also just like to add if i ever do find someone who might be interested they are always part of a couple which leads me to believe its actually the guys fantasy and not the womans...? |
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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago
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I have quite a few blokes that contact me wanting this scenario they're probably early to mid twenties and although to them I am (older or more mature) nothing pisses me off more than to be called exactly that no one wants to get old or older and I certainly don't need reminding that I am so for most they fall at the first hurdle unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have quite a few blokes that contact me wanting this scenario they're probably early to mid twenties and although to them I am (older or more mature) nothing pisses me off more than to be called exactly that no one wants to get old or older and I certainly don't need reminding that I am so for most they fall at the first hurdle unfortunately "
omg you're 37 I'm sorry you're not old or beyond anything yet ha the Ops 19 if I remember correctly so at 37 you're twice his age and in fact old enough to be his mum but not old  |
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You've already started on the wrong foot by saying older women and fetish you won't get anywhere with that approach you've got more chance of pissing in the wind dude.
Mature lady who would be sharing her experience etc maybe better but even then it may go down like a lead ballon |
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"I have quite a few blokes that contact me wanting this scenario they're probably early to mid twenties and although to them I am (older or more mature) nothing pisses me off more than to be called exactly that no one wants to get old or older and I certainly don't need reminding that I am so for most they fall at the first hurdle unfortunately "
This 
And the fact that the more mature women that you seek tend to have children the same age as yourself OP. |
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Get yourself down to some club nights OP.
I too adore a more mature lady and made the effort to go to cougar and cub style nights.
Even at other clubs I approached an older lady, we chatted and well one thing led to another.
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I don't know how you approach these women, but I bristle at being called older. I personally don't like being with guys too much younger than me (immaturity and selfishness aren't good traits, although it's not necessarily an age thing), but be careful about how you approach them. It's way too easy to offend. I'm also not sure that the experience thing is necessarily so. |
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Some older women fetishise younger men. Go along to a cougar and cubs night at a club, although if you can and they don't have a 21+ policy (I'm assuming you're 19).
Otherwise and I think I might have said this to you before contact women who are looking for men your age. |
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What you have to remember is that the term ‘older’ is subjective to the person saying it. To a child you’re a fucking pensioner. Someone might be ‘older’ to you, but to them they’re just the right age. So whilst you might consider a 32 year old to be a ‘cougar’, to themselves they’re in the prime of life and will probably take offence to being lumped in the same category as Joan Collins. |
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"What you have to remember is that the term ‘older’ is subjective to the person saying it. To a child you’re a fucking pensioner. Someone might be ‘older’ to you, but to them they’re just the right age. So whilst you might consider a 32 year old to be a ‘cougar’, to themselves they’re in the prime of life and will probably take offence to being lumped in the same category as Joan Collins. "
She'd still get it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also just like to add if i ever do find someone who might be interested they are always part of a couple which leads me to believe its actually the guys fantasy and not the womans...?"
OP you couldn’t be more wrong with this IMO. I play with my husband and without with guys half my age occasionally, but what I do is my choice....so it is most definitely not because it’s my husbands fantasy.
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You need to master your foreplay skills first and foremost.
They maybe as you put it older which is so wrong.
In a nutshell if you've not got your finger tips your tounge your lips and your imagination in check it doesn't matter what age girl/women you go with your on a losing streak at the get go knowing what I've just said is way better than wham bam thankyou mam apart from the odd occasion |
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Agreed with quite a few posts on here. I don’t really consider myself older - I live my life without thinking about my age and believe in spark and attraction at any age. I also play with and without my husband (who happens to be older than me) and I have the freedom to fuck whomever I choose. I’ve had quite a few younger men contact me and mention the word cougar...or ask me if I can keep up with their energy - which is a little strange tbh - and I’m pretty sure I could fuck most of them under the table so to speak....x good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you are treating older women as a fetish you might struggle....just think of them as desirable women."
This is what i mean tho , maybe fetish was the wrong word to use. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Also just like to add if i ever do find someone who might be interested they are always part of a couple which leads me to believe its actually the guys fantasy and not the womans...?"
How many identical threads do you intend to start OP? "the guy's fantasy not the woman's" is a real sign of immaturity. Most couples swing on equal terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay so i have a fetish for older women o just find them sexier and in my head they must be better in bed due to experiance, i think this is quite a commom fetish for young guys to have but am i right in thinking its quite rare that older women prefer younger men? As im finding it hard to find someone. Any tips would be appreciated.
P.s by older i mean 30+ which isnt old but more mature than i am. Thanks in advance"
Liking older women is a fetish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay so i have a fetish for older women o just find them sexier and in my head they must be better in bed due to experiance, i think this is quite a commom fetish for young guys to have but am i right in thinking its quite rare that older women prefer younger men? As im finding it hard to find someone. Any tips would be appreciated.
P.s by older i mean 30+ which isnt old but more mature than i am. Thanks in advance"
Maybe stop hiding your profile, you can't be getting that much attention!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also just like to add if i ever do find someone who might be interested they are always part of a couple which leads me to believe its actually the guys fantasy and not the womans...?"
I prefer younger men, but only those that have a more mature attitude, which unfortunately sweetie you are sounding like you don't |
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