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I have been on and off fab for 5 to 6years .. as a single guy .. 2 guys .. and in various couples .and been successful..i know there are loads of single guys on here who have trouble getting meets here are a few tips to be successful
1. This is a swinging site not a quick leg over site if you want a quick shag try P.0.F. you will have more success
2. Be honest about yourself nobody like bullshitters
3. Be respectful and polite
Treat others as you wish to Be treated
4. Photos ... up todate and current 99% of people on here want discretion just as you do but not many will do blind dates
5. No means no
6. No reply also means no
Dont pester people for meet it makes you look desperate
7. Just be yourself ... and be Nice
Feel free to feed back on her or private msg
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice? Less sex chat (at least initially!) more cake or other general bobbins chat!
Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy?
If the answer is ‘no’ and you’d engage with her civilly and respectfully then take that approach into your messaging on here!
It really isn’t rocket science! |
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else  "
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol is this post a joke why in earth would anyone take advice from you. "
Actually it seems like reasonable advice to be fair? Unnecessarily harsh imho ..  |
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Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy? "
It makes the weekly shop more interesting! and explains all the restraining orders.  |
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Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy?
It makes the weekly shop more interesting! and explains all the restraining orders.
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I think this might be why I'm no longer allowed to use any TfL services... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category."
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person |
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Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy?
It makes the weekly shop more interesting! and explains all the restraining orders.
I think this might be why I'm no longer allowed to use any TfL services..."
That's no Oyster card!  |
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person "
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice? Less sex chat (at least initially!) more cake or other general bobbins chat!
Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy?
If the answer is ‘no’ and you’d engage with her civilly and respectfully then take that approach into your messaging on here!
It really isn’t rocket science! "
This man is right apart from the cake comment  . Be as you would face to face. Just because your behind a screen doesn't mean you can act like a twazerk..that goes for singles and couples too!. Lexi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive "
I suppose it is if you need advice |
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"  seems alot of guys replying negatively must be guilty of some of the things ive mentioned ... tho protest too much "
I feel blessed I came across your swingers guide for singles. Would of been fucked without you mate
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive
I suppose it is if you need advice "
As the daily "Can't get a meet" and "Profile Advice" threads show there are plenty that do |
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Would you meet a lady in “real life” and immediately thrust your cock in her face and tell her how you’d destroy her pussy?
It makes the weekly shop more interesting! and explains all the restraining orders. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive
I suppose it is if you need advice
As the daily "Can't get a meet" and "Profile Advice" threads show there are plenty that do "
But if these guys change there profile,pictures,messages and reply’s etc then that’s not there personality coming through. You get out as much as you put in. We can all copy profiles and say I’m this and that. But in reality they would be fooling themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive
I suppose it is if you need advice
As the daily "Can't get a meet" and "Profile Advice" threads show there are plenty that do
But if these guys change there profile,pictures,messages and reply’s etc then that’s not there personality coming through. You get out as much as you put in. We can all copy profiles and say I’m this and that. But in reality they would be fooling themselves. "
Don't think they care one bit. If they did they wouldn't do.it. lexi |
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"I have been on and off fab for 5 to 6years .. as a single guy .. 2 guys .. and in various couples .and been successful..i know there are loads of single guys on here who have trouble getting meets here are a few tips to be successful
1. This is a swinging site not a quick leg over site if you want a quick shag try P.0.F. you will have more success
2. Be honest about yourself nobody like bullshitters
3. Be respectful and polite
Treat others as you wish to Be treated
4. Photos ... up todate and current 99% of people on here want discretion just as you do but not many will do blind dates
5. No means no
6. No reply also means no
Dont pester people for meet it makes you look desperate
7. Just be yourself ... and be Nice
Feel free to feed back on her or private msg
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Or post a BS topic on the forum letting the ladies know you're "genuine" then sit back and wait fir the pussy to flow. It's a site for people who primarily want to fuck. Cast your net far and wide. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
I have followed all 7 points. I feel they are misleading as I have not managed even a decent conversation. Are you sure there wasn't a typo somewhere and you meant to type 'don't' do these 7 things?? |
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"I have followed all 7 points. I feel they are misleading as I have not managed even a decent conversation. Are you sure there wasn't a typo somewhere and you meant to type 'don't' do these 7 things??"
Are you wearing the correct colour armour? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have followed all 7 points. I feel they are misleading as I have not managed even a decent conversation. Are you sure there wasn't a typo somewhere and you meant to type 'don't' do these 7 things??"
Fuck the 7 things go to a club
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category.
Best place for them really. If a guy needs advice from others to be successful on fab then maybe it’s not the place for him to be. I do my own thing. I’m not a follower I’m my own person
It's awesome that you do your own thing but there's nothing wrong with asking for advice. Taking advice and applying it to their advantage shows a level of maturity and intelligence that I find attractive
I suppose it is if you need advice
As the daily "Can't get a meet" and "Profile Advice" threads show there are plenty that do
But if these guys change there profile,pictures,messages and reply’s etc then that’s not there personality coming through. You get out as much as you put in. We can all copy profiles and say I’m this and that. But in reality they would be fooling themselves. "
How is it not their personality showing through? Unless someone writes their profile for them and comes round and takes their pics, they still have to act based on the advice which is pretty generic. |
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My advise is if swinging is what you want to get into get out into the physical swinger scene rather than just online. Clubs, socials etc. Let people see your true personality shine, get to know peopld and then hopefully your group a fab freinds will expand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good advice, but I’d include something about having a detailed and interesting profile.
Whilst some don’t read them, quite a few of us do.
I enjoy reading an engaging profile, it just helps me get a rough idea of they type of person I’m reading about |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
I've said it before about giving folk a blue print.. if they can't figure out the points you've mentioned or behave in a respectful manner leave them to struggle,. You're making it harder for others to stand out. |
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"My advise is if swinging is what you want to get into get out into the physical swinger scene rather than just online. Clubs, socials etc. Let people see your true personality shine, get to know peopld and then hopefully your group a fab freinds will expand. "
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"My advise is if swinging is what you want to get into get out into the physical swinger scene rather than just online. Clubs, socials etc. Let people see your true personality shine, get to know peopld and then hopefully your group a fab freinds will expand. "
Definitely works for the successful ones although it does help to do a little homework on the right nights at clubs. |
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"My advice would be. Just use it how you please. Take no notice of anybody else
We tend to agree with the op as most of the single guys who 'just use it as you please' (unless their version of that statement is similar to ours and the op's) end up straight in the delete message (at best) or block list (at worst) category."
Then surely that advice is good then... Saving you getting into conversations with people you probably wouldn't have if they had gotten profile advice, right? |
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