Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.
The problem is that when we meet yes the bedroom fun is amazing however I am getting concerned over the husband attitude towards me. It is starting to get aggressive and on the point of abusive tone in his messages.
I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.
However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?
So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely time to move on OP. It doesn't sound like the husband is happy with the situation. Perhaps they should have just left it as a fantasy and not made it reality. Good luck, whatever you decide to do x. |
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"Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.
The problem is that when we meet yes the bedroom fun is amazing however I am getting concerned over the husband attitude towards me. It is starting to get aggressive and on the point of abusive tone in his messages.
I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.
However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?
So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right."
Talk to him tell him what you have said here and then male a decision on his response and how you feel afterwards. After all if you are not happy then its not worth continuing as it is. |
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"Starting to get concerned about a couple who I have built a swinging relationship with in which I am the bull in their relationship.
The problem is that when we meet yes the bedroom fun is amazing however I am getting concerned over the husband attitude towards me. It is starting to get aggressive and on the point of abusive tone in his messages.
I am sure he thinks I am having an affair with his wife which I ain’t. We talk a lot and do have lots of general things in common and have a great time when we meet up.
However it’s such a shame he is being like this as she is very sweet and such a lovely person. I do wonder if he is that way with her?
So I am thinking of breaking all ties with them. Love to see if my thoughts are right."
Don't you think then, as you are clearly beginning to damage their relationship, that you should get the fuck out of there, unless there really is an ulterior motive? |
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Nobody, not even people who are fairly close to a couple knows what goes on inside a marriage. Don't assume that he's aggressive to her because he's aggressive to you.
Walk away and leave them to their own devices |
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