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Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right. |
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"You say that anal is just between the two of you so why criticise another couple for saying kissing is just for them ?"
Not criticising, just saying we don't understand it that's all.
Just can't imagine how you'd start a sexy evening together without a kiss.
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over a year ago
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I can't kiss men *dry wretch! But I can't have sex without kissing a woman though. I think that's odd myself, as I don't hear of many other people like that. I'm not bothered by it though, just how I am I guess.
The top tip I can give is.. not to fret too much about those who don't fit what you're looking for, concentrate on those who do. |
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"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right."
We don't kiss our casual sex partners and from what I read in the forums we're probably among the most secure here both in our relationship and individually.
You don't understand it and sex without kissing doesn't seem right to you which is fine by us we respect your views, as long as you respect ours |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right."
no it's There a choice. It's nothing to do with insecurity and certainly not cold etc.
It's a preference same as no anal. I managed without kissing other men for 17 years swinging..and still only do it on those occasions I feel I want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What next fucking fully clothed I don’t get the no kissing thing in fact that’s the first question I ask when I meet the female half of a couple it’s a deal breaker for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's what makes Fab and swinging so good is the viarety of people, if we were all the same be a very dull world  "
I was just about to type something similar.
There’s no right or wrong way of doing things, just the right or wrong way for individuals  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's what makes Fab and swinging so good is the viarety of people, if we were all the same be a very dull world
I was just about to type something similar.
There’s no right or wrong way of doing things, just the right or wrong way for individuals "
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over a year ago
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I met a couple years ago that didn’t kiss, it was a very cold meet. I adore kissing and it’s a massive turn on for me. Meets have to kiss unless it’s a no from me. |
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"I can't kiss men *dry wretch! But I can't have sex without kissing a woman though. I think that's odd myself, as I don't hear of many other people like that. I'm not bothered by it though, just how I am I guess.
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Same here. Really don't like kissing men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Mrs loves a good song with another women but that’s as far as it goes with us, we both feel that although we like to have fun & fuck other people we want to keep something that’s just for us. "
Out of curiosity what’s the difference between your Mrs kissing a women rather than a man? |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right.
We don't kiss our casual sex partners and from what I read in the forums we're probably among the most secure here both in our relationship and individually.
You don't understand it and sex without kissing doesn't seem right to you which is fine by us we respect your views, as long as you respect ours "
Exactly - and we are not insecure either. Why make up reasons why other couples don't want the same as you, OP, simply accept that they, like you, have their preferences? It isn't really for you to understand, all you have to do is decide whether that boundary is one you would be happy working with. If not, move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing is a deal breaker for me. I've met a fair few couples at private parties where the male won't kiss me. I've respected that as it's their preference. I wish I would've known beforehand though (my own fault for not asking). I find it incredibly cold having sex without kissing. For me, it's all about the kissing.
Away from Fabs, ALL my sexual encounters start with a kiss. I remember feeling pretty shocked the first time I was told "we don't kiss". It's important for people to have rules and boundaries though. I get that.
I get that some people may find it too intimate. That's their preference and I respect that. I just choose to not meet those who don't kiss.
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over a year ago
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We love to kiss and will only play with people who are the same.
But I do understand where some couples are coming from with the no kissing. If they want to keep that as someone special to them that's fine.
I think you also have to take into account sex is sex but kissing can be seen as a more loving gesture |
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"I can't kiss men *dry wretch! But I can't have sex without kissing a woman though. I think that's odd myself, as I don't hear of many other people like that. I'm not bothered by it though, just how I am I guess.
Same here. Really don't like kissing men.
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"You say that anal is just between the two of you so why criticise another couple for saying kissing is just for them ?
This. "
not kissing is one thing that a lot of people have a problem understanding and accepting. I don't know why. |
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"Kissing is a must for us . However when we first started we thought that we wouldn’t want each other to kiss. That thought didn’t last very long lol. "
We started the same although to this day it's the one thing not certain on meets |
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"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right."
Although I agree that it seems a bit odd, I also believe that everyone is entitled to their own boundaries. It makes no sense to challenge other people's boundaries, if you can't play within them then politely decline.
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right."
Ive been to a met (couple)and..she "wasn't a kisser" it was bit wierd..licked my arse but wouldn't kiss me...lol
Go figure. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't kiss men *dry wretch! But I can't have sex without kissing a woman though. I think that's odd myself, as I don't hear of many other people like that. I'm not bothered by it though, just how I am I guess.
Same here. Really don't like kissing men.
Dirty creatures"
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just us, or does this seem a bit strange??
See so many profile, love anal, swallow cum, watersports etc, but sorry no kissing!!!
To us it seems like some are a bit insecure, or don't want to see their other half passionately kissing someone.
Personally sex with no kissing just doesn't seem right."
I love kissing; and I think being invited to have sex with one half of with both halves of a couple is a pretty intimate act anyway but, some couples have arranged it between themselves in such a way that they want to keep a little ‘something’ only between them.... |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
It this was a thread about keeping anal for within a trusted loving relationship. No one would bat an eyelid. But kissing .... everyone always says your cold.. clinical or have a pretty woman complex |
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I think it depends entirely on the kind of meet...1 on 1, kissing would be pretty necessary and we kiss during couple meets too but I can honestly say that at parties or in clubs, when I've offered to suck a guys cock, go down on a woman or fuck either, not one single person has insisted I stop to kiss them first...
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"It this was a thread about keeping anal for within a trusted loving relationship. No one would bat an eyelid. But kissing .... everyone always says your cold.. clinical or have a pretty woman complex "
Its interesting isn't it. As you know its probably never going to change |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It this was a thread about keeping anal for within a trusted loving relationship. No one would bat an eyelid. But kissing .... everyone always says your cold.. clinical or have a pretty woman complex "
or you're clearly insecure as a couple...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is intimate to me, and along with anal is one for me and my partner only.
I need to keep something that is only for us. It's easy to lose yourself on here.
Each to their own, but I totally get where they are coming from
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"It this was a thread about keeping anal for within a trusted loving relationship. No one would bat an eyelid. But kissing .... everyone always says your cold.. clinical or have a pretty woman complex
or you're clearly insecure as a couple... "
its pretty surreal that a couples security is judged because they *won't* kiss other people |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"It this was a thread about keeping anal for within a trusted loving relationship. No one would bat an eyelid. But kissing .... everyone always says your cold.. clinical or have a pretty woman complex
Its interesting isn't it. As you know its probably never going to change "
ironically I've actually started kissing the odd person .. well not that the person is odd.. lol and yet as a single It's something I've never done. But... I also never did 121 before which I now am... so guessing it's thr difference as no one in a club ever cares that i don't kiss first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always said I wouldn't kiss, mostly because a bad kiss would turn me off completely and I'd just want to leave....hell I've ended perfectly good relationships with lovely people in my younger years on the back of a bad kiss.
Now I'm a bit more relaxed about it but I'm still very picky who I say yes to. |
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It’s entirely up to people whether they want to kiss or not provided it’s made clear from the start so an informed choice can be made.
Kissing is a turn on for me, have been with two different couples, one did kiss and the other didn’t. The meet with the non kissers was certainly not as good as the ones who did and I’d probably not meet a couple if kissing was a no no. |
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"What next fucking fully clothed I don’t get the no kissing thing in fact that’s the first question I ask when I meet the female half of a couple it’s a deal breaker for me "
I rather like fucking fully clothed |
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I would never break anyone’s rules, but I agree that kissing is very important. It always feels very strange not doing it. I kind of understand (sort of) why some people don’t , but l do think that kissing is an extremely sensual part of things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I completely understand why some couple want to keep something intimate for themselves.
Doing it with anyone and everyone takes away the essence and the sense of sex in my opinion. Therefore, it is understandable why some couple want to keep something exclusive to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For those couples who say “no kissing, no meet”......
You have ours and we have your bodies to touch, lick, suck, kiss and fuck. Why not just passionately kiss your own partners as we do?
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"I’ve had one guy who wouldn’t kiss me.... I stopped it there and came back out of the room. "
When there is only 2 or 3 of you then yea, we can understand the issue.
We just don’t understand why it’s such a big deal for couples to meet other couples who aren’t willing to kiss them. |
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Swinging is all about people doing different things that they enjoy! So whether it’s kissing, fucking, role play, fetish’s or whatever we’re all in it for different things! Respect that understand that or don’t bother
The best sex is when all respect each other and each other’s boundaries  |
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"Had my heart broken, can't kiss guys since. Kissing to me is for my lover, not for a guy who wants a quick fuck."
Filtered out MissSlowCum, but wanted to say what a gorgeous face. A real smiley picture. And the frame's pretty good as well. |
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