If you read our profile you might get the idea that we're pretty much epxerienced BDSM players, and happy to be seen as queer.
Wr're trying to deconstruct something from a club visit today, and figure here's as good a place as any to pick people's brains.
Generally at clubs we enjoy the chance to play as queer as we like - Mr Icebreaker gets his share of cock and attention from guys who like his cock as Mrs Icebreaker - we like to think that even in a puppy pile of people playing freely we're being us....
Today, for random reasons, we were much more set on playing as a BDSM couple - essentially we had threee play sessions - two gang bang sessions for mrs I bookending a bruising and enjoyable dungeon session with the cane for her.
So here's the question - if you see a guy caning a woman, are you more likely to assume he's straight, or bi, or queer?
It might just be chance that Mr I got less attention today, or it might be that he was sending out differnet vibes to usual, but we thought it would be worth asking the question.... |
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Interesting!
I think my first thought would be that he was straight as he's playing with a woman and my heteronormative brain would connect the dots. Unless there was evidence to the contrary, most guys would assume the same.  |
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Personally I would assume straight but we all know about assumptions. Good question and certainly would make me question my initial thinking in the future  |
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If I saw a guy playing with a woman I would assume they weren't queer the same as if I saw two guys or two women playing I would assume they weren't straight. But that's because I see BDSM as sexual. Not everyone does. |
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Though that just me 
