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over a year ago
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Over the years I have met some gorgeous women. Many I am still in contact with. Life can get in the way but I prefer an intimate friendship, meeting and forming these friendships happens naturally in all kinds of situations. I feel I can sense attraction and often I ask or seek an answer. Clubs and parties are easier as the question is not percieved to be out of the norm. Conversation, relaxed and authentic opens up the body language.
I refuse thoses who bucket list and those who want a tick box filled. Bisexuality is more than just fucking.
Having experienced some fantastic situations with women. I know what kind of spark I look for. It doesn't happen often but it is out there.  |
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I view most swinging as an enjoyable social activity where we give each other pleasure. Friendliness and friendships, buildup, trust, rapport. Not how everyone sees it, but that's what I enjoy most. I feel that might be more important for ff meets, although I can't say from experience. It's something I want to do, fulfil my sexuality, but I don't view it as a bucket list thing, you know? I'm not that... dehumanising I guess. |
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"I view most swinging as an enjoyable social activity where we give each other pleasure. Friendliness and friendships, buildup, trust, rapport. Not how everyone sees it, but that's what I enjoy most. I feel that might be more important for ff meets, although I can't say from experience. It's something I want to do, fulfil my sexuality, but I don't view it as a bucket list thing, you know? I'm not that... dehumanising I guess. "
I have found it tends to be more like you are seeking. Tis all personal and having adventures is fantastic. Some of my lovers have moved on but thats life isn't it?
The worst that can happen if you ask directly is a thank you but no. All is still ok and sometimes you can get a nice suprise further down the line.
Follow your intuition. You sound articulate and know what you seek.
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"Over the years I have met some gorgeous women. Many I am still in contact with. Life can get in the way but I prefer an intimate friendship, meeting and forming these friendships happens naturally in all kinds of situations. I feel I can sense attraction and often I ask or seek an answer. Clubs and parties are easier as the question is not percieved to be out of the norm. Conversation, relaxed and authentic opens up the body language.
I refuse thoses who bucket list and those who want a tick box filled. Bisexuality is more than just fucking.
Having experienced some fantastic situations with women. I know what kind of spark I look for. It doesn't happen often but it is out there. "
Agree with all this , it’s how I operate generally, but with women I know that I am not so open to the caring and empathy that many of us automatically show. It’s a turn off for a casual sexual friendship. I probably haven’t explained it well, but I find walking that line between respectful friendship and something more emotionally involved is harder with women. Possibly through lack of experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years I have met some gorgeous women. Many I am still in contact with. Life can get in the way but I prefer an intimate friendship, meeting and forming these friendships happens naturally in all kinds of situations. I feel I can sense attraction and often I ask or seek an answer. Clubs and parties are easier as the question is not percieved to be out of the norm. Conversation, relaxed and authentic opens up the body language.
I refuse thoses who bucket list and those who want a tick box filled. Bisexuality is more than just fucking.
Having experienced some fantastic situations with women. I know what kind of spark I look for. It doesn't happen often but it is out there.
Agree with all this , it’s how I operate generally, but with women I know that I am not so open to the caring and empathy that many of us automatically show. It’s a turn off for a casual sexual friendship. I probably haven’t explained it well, but I find walking that line between respectful friendship and something more emotionally involved is harder with women. Possibly through lack of experience."
Yes. I agree. It is a fine line. And can take some managing. I am generally just direct and it sorts out the grey areas.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years I have met some gorgeous women. Many I am still in contact with. Life can get in the way but I prefer an intimate friendship, meeting and forming these friendships happens naturally in all kinds of situations. I feel I can sense attraction and often I ask or seek an answer. Clubs and parties are easier as the question is not percieved to be out of the norm. Conversation, relaxed and authentic opens up the body language.
I refuse thoses who bucket list and those who want a tick box filled. Bisexuality is more than just fucking.
Having experienced some fantastic situations with women. I know what kind of spark I look for. It doesn't happen often but it is out there.
Agree with all this , it’s how I operate generally, but with women I know that I am not so open to the caring and empathy that many of us automatically show. It’s a turn off for a casual sexual friendship. I probably haven’t explained it well, but I find walking that line between respectful friendship and something more emotionally involved is harder with women. Possibly through lack of experience.
Yes. I agree. It is a fine line. And can take some managing. I am generally just direct and it sorts out the grey areas. "
Haha! Woman after my own heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years I have met some gorgeous women. Many I am still in contact with. Life can get in the way but I prefer an intimate friendship, meeting and forming these friendships happens naturally in all kinds of situations. I feel I can sense attraction and often I ask or seek an answer. Clubs and parties are easier as the question is not percieved to be out of the norm. Conversation, relaxed and authentic opens up the body language.
I refuse thoses who bucket list and those who want a tick box filled. Bisexuality is more than just fucking.
Having experienced some fantastic situations with women. I know what kind of spark I look for. It doesn't happen often but it is out there.
Agree with all this , it’s how I operate generally, but with women I know that I am not so open to the caring and empathy that many of us automatically show. It’s a turn off for a casual sexual friendship. I probably haven’t explained it well, but I find walking that line between respectful friendship and something more emotionally involved is harder with women. Possibly through lack of experience.
Yes. I agree. It is a fine line. And can take some managing. I am generally just direct and it sorts out the grey areas.
Haha! Woman after my own heart.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With A (male half) being busy through most of June it's a good time for me to try and explore this side of fab more, but sadly women in this area tend to be very cold, understandable of course but it makes "meeting" awkward when other women just assume it's a couple and that we want them to put on a show  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really nice to see so many of you with similar ideas to myself.
I have never really identified as Bi or straight more I'm just attracted to the person.
However it happens to be that I have only been with men
I think I'm horrific at sending out the right vibes!
It's more than a tick box exercise, it's about exploring myself as a person and not just the physical.
I have never had a good reaction from a female friend after explaining I am bi/curious so have really only ever spoken about it with my partner.
I'll be honest I don't think he even gets it - he thinks as men do it's just about being with a woman physically rather than emotionally, intellectually and potentially spiritually.
The last bit might sound a bit deep 
That's my stand point.
Just looking to speak to others with similar outlooks I guess without judgement
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"Afraid I'd avoid, as I'd hate it to be like the 'wives of....' and all the fighting it involves."
If you are straight I don’t think you’re the target market! This is for women interested in other women!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello! I've put a few lines on my profile about wanting to meet women for friendship only. No sex. No bringing the boyf in to it.
Shopping. Nails. Having lunch. Day drinking. Lol. I dont have that here where I am. All my friends are back home and I miss that. C Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello! I've put a few lines on my profile about wanting to meet women for friendship only. No sex. No bringing the boyf in to it.
Shopping. Nails. Having lunch. Day drinking. Lol. I dont have that here where I am. All my friends are back home and I miss that. C Xx"
Gotta love day drinking!
There's a thread on a SE fem only social you should come!?
Ell x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello! I've put a few lines on my profile about wanting to meet women for friendship only. No sex. No bringing the boyf in to it.
Shopping. Nails. Having lunch. Day drinking. Lol. I dont have that here where I am. All my friends are back home and I miss that. C Xx
Gotta love day drinking!
There's a thread on a SE fem only social you should come!?
Ell x"
Is there? Oooh. I might look into it. Thanks. C Xx |
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I’ve had a solo profile on here for years but have never really even managed a decent conversation with a women let alone a meet
My husband on the other hand has no trouble meeting guys on his solo profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just tagging into the thread. To those ladies who wanted me to paint them, it's made me think ofthe sexy paint s ene from the film Better Than Chocolate... happy place time.
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
I'd love to meet a lady (K female half) for something regular.
I've classed myself as bi for as long as I can remember! Mostly my experience thus far has been physical!
What we've discussed a potential poly situation with me having a girlfriend maybe at some stage. But I'd have no idea how to go about that!! But I'd love to meet ladies just for some socials and maybe more who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like this thread.
I’d also love to meet other females in the Buckinghamshire, Hertfordshire, London region to explore my bi side more.
Fab isn’t easy in this area and I suspect there are many males posing as women. I’d be happy to FaceTime or similar to rule this doubt out. |
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It's something we have been discussing setting up a singles profile for a female only meet. Love the hubby to be involved but he is more than happy for me to go alone with another girl.
People are right about the signals I'm useless and don't see the signs of another female fancying me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In terms of bi side then this also includes someone to meet for coffees and nights out and explore a different dynamic to being in a couple "
Agreed have met many a lady on here for coffee etc |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
So I posted, get a message from someone on here, really local to me, the most perfect first message, we've been talking loads since, been on a date..
Turns out she doesn't even read the forums so hadn't seen my posts!
Moral of the story, if you've had someone on your hotlist for 6 years... Message them cause you might be on theirs too! |
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"So I posted, get a message from someone on here, really local to me, the most perfect first message, we've been talking loads since, been on a date..
Turns out she doesn't even read the forums so hadn't seen my posts!
Moral of the story, if you've had someone on your hotlist for 6 years... Message them cause you might be on theirs too!"
Aww his sweet is that! |
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"So I posted, get a message from someone on here, really local to me, the most perfect first message, we've been talking loads since, been on a date..
Turns out she doesn't even read the forums so hadn't seen my posts!
Moral of the story, if you've had someone on your hotlist for 6 years... Message them cause you might be on theirs too!
Aww his sweet is that! "
How sweet even!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody putting myself forward! It’s hard work finding girl to have fun with even as a woman lol. I feel sorry for some of you blokes that struggle, I feel you boys lol
S x "
Your profile says that you do not meet alone and will not be separated from your husband. Xxxxx that may be a reason? X I wouldn’t feel able to message you for a female only meet. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me too,
Female fwb but actually connected, like I am with my female friends outside of fab but with the added benefit of the flirty sexual tension (and hopefully more) as a bonus.
Would there be enough interest for a SW/Gloucestershire female only social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really difficult to meet other women here..I thought maybe it was just that I live in a pretty small place but it seems others have the same struggle.
I'd love to find a genuine friend who I could really talk to about this side of me, flirt with and potentially have fun with! A female fwb would be perfect x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love some female friends on the scene, even if it is just to socialise.
Chatted to a few ladies in clubs, and would love to build up friendships
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do you think it's so hard? Do you think women are less forward than men?
K x"
Yes. I also think women are a lot more confusing then men.
Being slightly serious, it's that whole lesbian sheep thing in the first thread - you don't want to make the first move in case you're turned down or you think you're not pretty enough etc. It's also difficult sometimes to continue a chat with a woman because women aren't so obvious in their responses. |
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"Why do you think it's so hard? Do you think women are less forward than men?
K x
Yes. I also think women are a lot more confusing then men.
Being slightly serious, it's that whole lesbian sheep thing in the first thread - you don't want to make the first move in case you're turned down or you think you're not pretty enough etc. It's also difficult sometimes to continue a chat with a woman because women aren't so obvious in their responses."
Yes I think that's very true. Any conversation I've had with another lady, turns to "normal" stuff so you assume they're not interested in more....for me, I don't suppose I will feel more confident until I've lost more weight
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"Omg, all my conversations with women seem to come to an abrupt halt or switch to small talk etc.
Maybe we should all take a leaf out of the bloke's books..."
Err... I think there's a middle ground here somewhere |
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"Omg, all my conversations with women seem to come to an abrupt halt or switch to small talk etc.
Maybe we should all take a leaf out of the bloke's books...
Err... I think there's a middle ground here somewhere "
Yes only kidding |
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"We’ve recently started thinking about this. Still just as difficult which was kinda surprising! Thought about setting up a single profile, but looking at this thread doesn’t seem much point"
Always worth a try....my "no luck" could have been down to I'm still a size 18 atm x  |
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By *cotGirlWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
Like lots of the other ladies I find it difficult to find women to meet, most of the messages I get invariably end up with a suggestion their male partner is involved.
A ladies social sounds delightful! |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"We’ve recently started thinking about this. Still just as difficult which was kinda surprising! Thought about setting up a single profile, but looking at this thread doesn’t seem much point
Always worth a try....my "no luck" could have been down to I'm still a size 18 atm x "
My kinda lady Av xx |
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"We’ve recently started thinking about this. Still just as difficult which was kinda surprising! Thought about setting up a single profile, but looking at this thread doesn’t seem much point
Always worth a try....my "no luck" could have been down to I'm still a size 18 atm x
My kinda lady Av xx"
Who ?me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve recently started thinking about this. Still just as difficult which was kinda surprising! Thought about setting up a single profile, but looking at this thread doesn’t seem much point
Always worth a try....my "no luck" could have been down to I'm still a size 18 atm x "
Oh Shh! your gorgeous! |
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We have talked about this loads of times. There are hundreds of places for gay/bi guys to meet but nowhere for ladies. We have been looking for a girl for ages for Ocd but are finding it impossible. |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I view most swinging as an enjoyable social activity where we give each other pleasure. Friendliness and friendships, buildup, trust, rapport. Not how everyone sees it, but that's what I enjoy most. I feel that might be more important for ff meets, although I can't say from experience. It's something I want to do, fulfil my sexuality, but I don't view it as a bucket list thing, you know? I'm not that... dehumanising I guess. "
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"Like lots of the other ladies I find it difficult to find women to meet, most of the messages I get invariably end up with a suggestion their male partner is involved.
A ladies social sounds delightful! "
I've found this as well. The elusive single fem normally has a boyfriend partner husband in the background that wants to be involved! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MrD
I am actually shocked this thread isn't flooded with posts from single guys 
Ok from a guys perspective from a couple here based on my experience. Please don't be offended I am trying to help
Women generally don't talk much + when they do its very short.
When talking to couples or females a lot of the time the female replies are initially short + the male "pushes" the conversation along. However, a little further down the line, women do tend to talk (write) more. Quite often women stop messaging or replying to each other, which to me feels like they are unsure of what to do, how much to talk or what to say, but I think the other woman is then unsure whether they are interested or not. When you have 2 women doing this the conversation kind of goes nowhere. This is also true of Daisy, I try to leave her to talk but often have to either step in + write something myself or tell her she needs to reply, which she often tells me I don't know what to say.
Yet in conversations with guys she is perfectly fine because either the guy keeps the conversation going, or the conversation simply dies off. But the big difference is that there are always plenty of guys messaging, whereas with women there is not. Women also very rarely say how interested they are or attracted they are, even how sexually excited the other woman is making them. But at the same time they are used to guys always doing this so it comes across as a lack or interest.
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That all being said, I have two pieces of advice for you...
Talk more!
Try to talk properly + openly, avoiding replies with only one or two sentences as much as possible.
I tried to explain how women seem to talk/write initially + I feel you are actually putting each other off. You need to get over that first hurdle of short messages + actually talk a lot more (write a lot more) much quicker. Both women on each end of the conversation are doing this + making the other woman think they are not really interested.
Understand male involvement!
There are a lot of couples on here that insist they play as a couple. They love the idea of a threesome (quite honestly what guy doesn't) + the male half doesn't want to miss out. This is where you are getting trouble with "there is always a guy in the background".There are also a lot of couples the female half isn't really that interested/bothered with women + the guy is pushing it.
There are also couples where the guy respects or even encourages the woman to explore her bisexuality + although he might be a bit gutted (lol) he understands most of the time woman want to do this alone.
However, I believe what a lot of women are misunderstanding is that these women are still part of a couple, a couple that are exploring swinging together + the male might want some involvement still, just not physically playing or watching (again realistically what guy wouldn't want to watch if allowed).
So to use us as an example. I would like to have a little part of the conversation sometimes, it's part of getting to know people + I think a big thing for women to understand or be happy with is that I would like to be there on the first social meet!
Its part of the social side of swinging, it's part of getting to know the woman (all 3 should be friends shouldn't we?), and also on that first meet I can be satisfied that it is a real women + not a guy pretending etc. That does not mean I would be there for other socials + especially if they decided to take things further to playing.
So please bare that in mind. The male half from a couple wanting to be there for the social meet, or even joining in some messages sometimes, does not always mean there is "a guy lurking in the background" in the way you think!
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I may be wrong of course, but I hope at least some people find this perspective helpful |
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I am veey lucky to have a fantastic group of ladies, both single and within couples I have met over the years i have been on here, for me there has been a physical relationship with one or two over the years, but this is definitely something i would like to explore further with the right lady when i find her!
We do so much as a whole group, or groups within our circle of friends and most of us talk every day. We have been to clubs, socials, holidays abroad, festivals, concerts, lunches, shopping and so many more places and done so much together.
I feel totally blessed i have them all in my life, but it has been a long process and taken a lot of time and effort - in a positive way - for us to get where we are now.
I have done a couple of ladies only socials previously and will be arranging another ladies only social around london/herts area in the next couple of months and will advertise when a date is confirmed.
Good luck to you all and if any other females are interested in any of the above, dont hesitate to contact me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg, all my conversations with women seem to come to an abrupt halt or switch to small talk etc. "
Two things happen to my conversations with women. One is this that _naswingdress said. The other thing that happens is that we either send a message or receive a message, but replies are one word answers.
So I'm putting myself out there too - would love to meet with local articulate women for a coffee, and put the world to rights.
Inaswingdress, very much enjoyed our conversation about makeup yesterday- it was refreshing to actually have a conversation with someone that doesn't involve one word answers or straight into sex questions (males pretending to be women).
If there would be a social organised, i would love an invite please!
x Niki
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be in a kik group with a lovely bunch of women, we met at a club for a right royal night too. Alas I have lost contact but we had a great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve messaged woman looking for woman and seem to be ghosted more by woman than men, especially when it comes to voice or cam verification!"
I’ve been ghosted or ignored by so many women! |
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Hi!
I’m part of a couple officially but have a pass for lady play.
As Mr DaisySwallows said up there I ain’t great at putting myself forward to find it hard to know what to say but if anyone in oxford/surroundings fancies social or more then let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bump
Still looking to meet a female alone without husband. It’s easier in clubs than fab for sure."
I’m on Fab to look for women only. I get a bit of chit chat then nothing. Offered to meet with one who said she was interested in daytime meet for coffee, but she didn’t turn up. She never got back to me after that.
I’d love to meet some sexy, like minded women. Social meet is a good place to start, but I’m not on here for friends, but play. Friendship may be a bonus but not a goal.
Will be at my first Club F meet on 27th July if anyone’s going? |
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"Hi!
I’m part of a couple officially but have a pass for lady play.
As Mr DaisySwallows said up there I ain’t great at putting myself forward to find it hard to know what to say but if anyone in oxford/surroundings fancies social or more then let me know "
MrD
Anyone would be lucky to meet this sexy lady if you are nearby. Both her and Tez are a lovely couple + it's not often you find a husband who is willing to take a back seat if the woman only wants a female-female meet.
Daisy says... I love her boobs |
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Sadly I think I've exhausted all options in the North West on FAB, chatting with other women on here either dies off fast, goes silent/not respond or the accounts just vanish? I've had a lot more luck on Tinder to be honest, which is hilarious because you'd think the swingers website would be better  |
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"Sadly I think I've exhausted all options in the North West on FAB, chatting with other women on here either dies off fast, goes silent/not respond or the accounts just vanish? I've had a lot more luck on Tinder to be honest, which is hilarious because you'd think the swingers website would be better "
MrD
This is something I was trying to point out. That I have noticed women in general tend to leave it for the guy to push the conversation or keep it going, when they stop the women just let's the conversation die off.
When you then get two women doing this, neither is keeping the conversation going.
So I am not saying you do this personally, but in case you do then try to be the lead conversationalist and keep it going. Try sending these women a message out of the blue x |
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I’d definitely be interested in meeting socially, and would love to chat with like minded individuals. I saw that someone said there used to be a kik group.... perhaps that could be set up again?
Or if anyone interested fancies a chat, send me a message. |
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"Sadly I think I've exhausted all options in the North West on FAB, chatting with other women on here either dies off fast, goes silent/not respond or the accounts just vanish? I've had a lot more luck on Tinder to be honest, which is hilarious because you'd think the swingers website would be better
MrD
This is something I was trying to point out. That I have noticed women in general tend to leave it for the guy to push the conversation or keep it going, when they stop the women just let's the conversation die off.
When you then get two women doing this, neither is keeping the conversation going.
So I am not saying you do this personally, but in case you do then try to be the lead conversationalist and keep it going. Try sending these women a message out of the blue x"
Bit of a sweeping statement.
If I’m interested, you can bet I’m not letting the conversation die out.
If I’m not interested and just replying out of politeness then yeah, I won’t try very hard and it will naturally die a death.  |
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"Sadly I think I've exhausted all options in the North West on FAB, chatting with other women on here either dies off fast, goes silent/not respond or the accounts just vanish? I've had a lot more luck on Tinder to be honest, which is hilarious because you'd think the swingers website would be better
MrD
This is something I was trying to point out. That I have noticed women in general tend to leave it for the guy to push the conversation or keep it going, when they stop the women just let's the conversation die off.
When you then get two women doing this, neither is keeping the conversation going.
So I am not saying you do this personally, but in case you do then try to be the lead conversationalist and keep it going. Try sending these women a message out of the blue x"
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We have got as far as swapping numbers and a couple of WhatsApp messages then nothing. Both being bi means Mr gets loads of action and Mrs gets none. Mr is quite happy with fem/fem meets and not to be involved too. |
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"Sadly I think I've exhausted all options in the North West on FAB, chatting with other women on here either dies off fast, goes silent/not respond or the accounts just vanish? I've had a lot more luck on Tinder to be honest, which is hilarious because you'd think the swingers website would be better
MrD
This is something I was trying to point out. That I have noticed women in general tend to leave it for the guy to push the conversation or keep it going, when they stop the women just let's the conversation die off.
When you then get two women doing this, neither is keeping the conversation going.
So I am not saying you do this personally, but in case you do then try to be the lead conversationalist and keep it going. Try sending these women a message out of the blue x
Bit of a sweeping statement.
If I’m interested, you can bet I’m not letting the conversation die out.
If I’m not interested and just replying out of politeness then yeah, I won’t try very hard and it will naturally die a death. "
MrD
It is a sweeping statement!
Sorry I tried to say in general and there was absolutely no offense intended so I apologise if it caused any.
I was trying to point out what I have seen myself on fab as an outsider/guy reading messages between women and sharing my point of view to try to help the women that are doing this x |
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