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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
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You're not into chatting back and fourth and getting to know someone a bit first. That would instantly put me off. A lot of us ladies like to get to know a bit about the guy we are potentially going to be having sex with. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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Your first sentence is I'm just here for sex! How is that appealing to women on here?
Are we just meant to suck your 'fat cock' and let ourselves out?
How can you not see that the whole of your profile is shocking!!!?? |
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"I'm unlike your usual guys who want to get to know someone first. Not into boring back and forth chat and getting to know each other"
Basically the opposite of what most women here will be looking for. Generally we like to get to know the person before they stick their dick in us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like your first line, just here for the sex, no chit chat or getting to know you first, really taken you’ve got a big fat cock, but not sure who’s you are going to borrow for the occasion, I’d say change nothing, actually we don’t care... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like your first line, just here for the sex, no chit chat or getting to know you first, really taken you’ve got a big fat cock, but not sure who’s you are going to borrow for the occasion, I’d say change nothing, actually we don’t care..."
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Wow just wow! U actually know every member on this site? Mmmm! Thats strange coz i havent laid eyes on u but ur saying everyone on this site is obsessed with sex! Funniest thing ive read for a while! And fat cock! I think i threw up in my mouth a little! Good luck with ur profile ur gonna need it! But u are asking for advice so here it is " leave ur profile exactly how it is! Thats who u are! |
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Your profile is one of the worst I've seen on here. Sorry.
I could mention a lot of things, but the number one is:
Don't talk about how you don't like getting to know potential meets.
And if that is your genuine, unchangeable attitude then I'd suggest you do yourself a favour and forget about using fabs.
Few women want to have sex with a guy who can't be bothered to have even a small bit of social interaction. It's quite common for men to want to have that too. |
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I'd guess a majority of guys here aren't that interested in the chit chat. Or at least a sizeable minority.
For me, no chit chat, no meet. At the very least I need to get a sense of if you respect my fundamental humanity. (no, I can't take that for granted)
I've seen worse, but that's damning with very faint praise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Not surprised you arent getting any meets..its not something most women want to hear. some do like the banter and to have a laugh before the sex part . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Seriously??? Talk about bad taste
OP if this is genuine.. ask yourself why your not getting anywhere.
You don't want to get to know the person. No chit chat!?
And not everyone on here is after the same thing and obsessed with sex and filth.
By the way a big fat cock isn't the be all and end all these days.
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I would tell you what's wrong with your profile, but you aren't into chit chat so I won't bother, leave it how it is and hire a sex worker, you will get what you want from them much easier than from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would tell you what's wrong with your profile, but you aren't into chit chat so I won't bother, leave it how it is and hire a sex worker, you will get what you want from them much easier than from here."
 hit the nail on the head |
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Does it reflect who you are and sell you well, in your opinion op? It's important that it's your profile and not someone else's.
It's not a profile that would appeal to me but that's my taste and preferences.
Everyone here is different and I noticed you suggest that we are largely the same. This could seem dismissive of each persons unique needs - worst case, theyd meet you and not be left satisfied, as you overlooked it
It appears a little self-obsessed, rather than aware or helping others to grasp your qualities.
Expanding on how we're all different, i think most here want some form of personal connection. That's Why many will have a social meet first, to see how you gel. Instashag isn't the norm - people expect the getting to know others and most people they chat with will not become people who they meet - filtering out of inappropriate people for them is the. Norm.
As a single man, you are up against thousands of others, so you don't get picked if others seem a better match
Your pics leave a lot to be desired. It's fairly hard to deduce how you look. You also look like you may take a dump in one of them. Use pics that are clrar and inform
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I just realised OP that you did alter the 18 to 99 age range. One brownie point for that.
I give you overall profile 1 / 100. I won't expand on my other thoughts since you aren't interested in conversation. |
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Have I missed the point of Fabswingers?
OP why not just go onto an escort site, then you don't have to chat back and forth, it's just for sex, except that you get screwed over too.
I for one would totally avoid you. You're cold, have no understanding of women |
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
The just here for sex puts me off yes we all hope for it but a lot of women are not into fuck & go though I expect some are...doesn't float my boat at all..prefer a few drinks & go with the flow...if sex happens too great... |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Instashag or dial a shag profile springs to mind, sorry OP. A lot of women will place more value on themselves than being a free hooker. If it reflects who you really are, don't change a thing. There's advice on mine should you wish to use it. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
""I'm unlike youjavascript:doSmilie(' ')r usual guys who want to get to know someone first. Not into boring back and forth chat and getting to know each other"
Basically the opposite of what most women here will be looking for. Generally we like to get to know the person before they stick their dick in us "
What she said .... it is that simple and straight forward we tend to think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should leave it as it is your just being honest about what your looking for and it definitely gets across the type of person you are, it’s also a good job you enjoy fucking beautiful women as you say because Fab is full of them.
Now for the brutally honest feedback your looking for
If your looking to meet you best change the not looking to meet single males part because I have a feeling the only meet you have a chance of getting is with a single male looking for a “Fat cock” |
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Good god so basically you want an escort without paying for it? Your line about us all being obsessed with sex is absolute bollocks! You clearly don’t know what swinging actually is. I’d suggest your local brothel or street corner to find what you’re looking for
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"You should leave it as it is your just being honest about what your looking for and it definitely gets across the type of person you are, it’s also a good job you enjoy fucking beautiful women as you say because Fab is full of them.
Now for the brutally honest feedback your looking for
If your looking to meet you best change the not looking to meet single males part because I have a feeling the only meet you have a chance of getting is with a single male looking for a “Fat cock”"
Agree. Single males would eat him up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots off putting for women very few single women will accommodate so the fact you can't puts off probably 80 percent instantly I would start again or concentrate on clubs you will struggle on here with that profile |
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Your profile is all about yourself.Your 1st line I’m just here for sex will put women and couples off . Then you go on about your ‘big fat cock’ again it’s about yourself.Nothing about what you can offer to a woman .Its an egotistical profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many guys on here don't get that women need to feel relaxed and safe with a potential meet so the more you can chat and put them at ease, the more likely it is they may want to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re into fucking people without in any way getting to know them and assume everybody else on here is the same. The thing is, most people on here are not like that. You haven’t stumbled into a lads’ heaven where there are free prostitutes on every corner, no matter how that may appeal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought this was a not very funny joke at first.
I’m not just looking for sex, I’m looking for amazing sex, and for that I need to know you. This doesn’t mean I want to marry you, NSA is what I’m after; but sex with someone to whom any ‘hole is a goal’ and has absolutely zero interest in me as a person doesn’t do it for me.
As has been said before, if you want to stay here, don’t change your profile. It's only fair that we know how you view us and Fab. Why not find yourself an escort to keep you happy while you’re working on a Fab meet, it may take a while! |
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Well op.... it does need a radical re wright to be honest.
Would you walk up to a lady in supermarket you like the look drop your pants and simply say fancy a fuck... I agree with other replies you should try to sell yourself. Best of luck |
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At the end of the day, if you want sex without considering the person's fundamental humanity, you'll need to buy it. And even then you should probably rethink the not considering the humanity thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutally honest?
Ok it's shite!
Your pics are stereotypical, drop my pants, flash my cock.
Your bio... Dear lord! You really think that's selling yourself in the best light
FML! "
This...exactly...shocking Bio |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Gotta ask what was the text like before your re-write.
I can see why you may struggle op.
Its often said there's someone for everyone on here.
A lady who wants no conversation.
A lady who wants a fat cock,
A lady who wants no connection
A lady obsessed with sex
my caveat on that statement..
the more niche your requirements the longer you'll search.
Have fun ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See, we always want to have a swift drink somewhere to assure ourselves our new buddy isnt an axe murderer, sociopath or other general purpose nutter.
We NEED to make a bit of human contact to be comfortable to go to the bedroom.
But you dont want that. We are expected just to jump in bed with no assurances you arent a fuckboy.
Sorry to say, you fail step one, and a lot of other couples would think exactly the same.
Blocked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP it's profiles like yours that make this site and others hard work for single men. Most women assume we're all like what you have described yourself. Honestly, leave it as it is maybe there is someone out there that will assume it is a joke and strike up a conversation with you... Only you don't want that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Is it April fools. Did it suddenly appear.
Just here for sex
Everyone filthy here
No chat
Fat cock
Oh my. Reality check. Thats all i have to say. Do the maths |
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You've been here over a year & still haven't had a meet... I guess the problem isn't you? I think maybe fab isn't the site for you.
Honestly your profile screams avoid & to say you aren't like most the guys on here when in fact you really are one of those could explain a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've spent ten minutes thinking up ways that your profile could be worse.
It's a tough one to make worse but adding the line "Hobbies including mutilating cute kittens and puppies" might just make it the worst profile ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you should try to offer one of two things on here. 1/ a good personality, willing engagement with a prospective meet, style or 2/ a banging body. So either rewrite your profile to be more human (and go for stylish clothed pictures) or go work out at the gym and then put up new pics (if you are sticking with your current approach). Lose the dic pic with either approach by the way.
Always good to remember that being attractive to the opposite sex on here is no different to how you would go about it in everyday life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Keep looking at your pics trying to find something constructive i think is what you mean and i am sorry i just cant and the small cock well has to be a BIG FAT NO NO. Only thing that is fat on there |
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Well I’ve just read it, and you really don’t do yourself and favours.
You need to remember that this is a swingers site! It’s not a site for men to come onto because they want a quick lay and think every woman drops her knickers at that those 3 little words....... big fat cock
Have a rethink OP and rewrite it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
your profile is all about sex and it seems you don't care with who and you don't want endless chat to get to the sex part, I personally think you need to rethink your approach and rewrite telling any women who might be interested in meeting you about you, tell them why you don't accom because unfortunately many will discount you with the thought you are married purely based on don't accom, put some better pics up maybe but if you approach this place as though everyone that's here is solely here for sex I'm afraid you'll find they are not, you're competing with many guys you have to make your profile the best it can be, it's your advert, good luck though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really is profiles like yours that gives us genuine single guys bad press on here, I can only imagine the type of messages you send people and then complain when you don’t get a reply, you expect to stand out for single lady to want to meet ?? Seriously ?? Or for the male half of a couple to want you anywhere near his wife/partner/fwb??
You can’t even write a constructive profile how on earth are you going to engage in conversation??
Seriously re-think what you want out of your experience here !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Just read your profile and honestly it screams loud out to me "intant turn off, run from it!" ..
Just to start "I'm unlike your usual guys who want to get to know someone first".. I mean if I'm going to have sex with someone I need to know him a bit at least 
But that's my humble opinion!
Saucy
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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Just about every thread on Fab brings out the 'judgemental accusers' so they must be totally non-judgemental right?
I would suggest you target those with your messages, some of them must be in need of a fat cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.
I can’t stand endless chit chat either. "
really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just about every thread on Fab brings out the 'judgemental accusers' so they must be totally non-judgemental right?
I would suggest you target those with your messages, some of them must be in need of a fat cock."
lol |
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"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.
I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here? "
Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.
I can’t stand endless chit chat either. "
Then hey how lucky is he. His first meet. Congratulations you win the first prize. HIS BIG FAT COCK.So happy for you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.
I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here?
Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that."
lol I was kidding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great. Not. His profile tells me exactly what sort of man he is but now he will change it to be something he’s not because you lot told him to.
I can’t stand endless chit chat either. really ok you're beautiful I'm on beach in dorset how soon can you get here?
Had you bothered to respect what’s written on my profile, you’d know the answer to that."
and I have read your profile too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw your profile last night and you are now saying the complete opposite of what you had written. It is a lie and i don't like dishonesty on securing a meet on here. Luckily hardly anyone reads the forums, so you should be okay, regardless of my personal opinion. Good luck in your search
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
It seems I'm not alone in my view!  |
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OK so.. From reading your profile you don't want to speak to me, just fuck because I'm clearly not human, just a hole.
100% genuine guy but you can't accommodate because your missus is there. It's gone stale but hey, keep her around for your amusement.
Whining is not attractive BTW. No one will give you a chance because you don't look like Brad Pitt? No it's because your profile screams disrespectful, whining twat.
Yeah I gave up. Didn't even get to the end. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Make your profile reflects what you feel is important about yourself that's honest and true and that is all you can do. There's no point in us writing your profile for you because then it is not a true reflection of yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics "
Haha very tactful there...id have said...”fat cock? Really? You think that’s a fat cock” ? But that’s just me |
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"It shows that your knowledge of the psychology of women might need some work. "
I see you’ve changed your profile to the opposite of what you were saying. Yesterday it was like you didn’t want to meet women to chat just fuck and today you like chat and banter. Make your mind up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing about your profile appeals to me. 2nd pic is old and clearly from a lads holiday. and your bio is offensive and a stretch of the truth when compared to pics
Haha very tactful there...id have said...”fat cock? Really? You think that’s a fat cock” ? But that’s just me "
I try |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
Be careful not to trip in the bullshit guys!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You see that's where you are casting dispersion without knowing. There's a few more from a few others I know on here about certain things and the response of people is amazing, the difference of opinions between the sexes is phenomenal |
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"If you put as much time and effort into meeting as you have this little "experiment" you'd probably get somewhere!! "
Experiment my arse! He’s seen the criticism and is back peddling! My kids do this all the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
Absolute bollocks . But nice try
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
That's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it plays off for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night
That's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it plays off for him."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
Unfortunately this has been said a fair few times on here before when someone has done this "experiment" or been caught out with a bad profile in other words.
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I don't know of the op's motives..
Whether the original profile text was a joke, an experiment or other..
There are threads almost daily by folk asking for advice on the profile and more often than not the advice given isn't heeded..and comments often follow saying so.
Maybe the guy just listened to the advice / comments about the text and changed it accordingly .. nooooo single guy who listened to the advice... couldn't be...could it ?
If folk give others a blue print for success it makes it harder for others.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Shite pictures. No thought or creativity.
Shite status. Whingy.
Shite profile text. Dull.
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" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife". "
No one in the forum will believe anything he says now. Nice one OP. |
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" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife". "
I wonder if that's why his profile says 'obviously cant accomodate' ..
OP what's obvious? |
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**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**
Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going
1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile
2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile
3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?
4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"
5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!
6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?
7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?
And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.
Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested |
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
I love profile experiments. |
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"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**
Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going
1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile
2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile
3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?
4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"
5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!
6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?
7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?
And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.
Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over a year and not met anyone?- surely you have tried a club or social,or do you just like being lazy?
That old 'experiment' number is way too old hat ffs,you don't just say "interesting",as if that concludes an experiment. |
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"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**
Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going
1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile
2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile
3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?
4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"
5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!
6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?
7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?
And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.
Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "
again this OP
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" if you green arrow the op he asked for profile advice ages ago and a comment in the thread mentioned the "wife".
I wonder if that's why his profile says 'obviously cant accomodate' ..
OP what's obvious? "
He's in a relationship that's gone "stale" (his word) so he's playing away for some sex, obvs he cant take any lucky ladies back to his in case wifey comes home! |
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"**Sound of preparation of knuckles cracking under clasped fingers and outstretched arms**
Right, let's get these "Brutally honest opinions" going
1: Bare arse on pic 2 on profile
2: No face pics, clothed pics or any sort of "use the imagination" pic on profile
3: Obviously can't accommodate?? "OBVIOUSLY"?? why can't you obviously accommodate? Married? GF?
4: Who cares about how you class yourself as an expert, that says "I'm arrogant and ladies ARE going to be happy they had sex with me"
5: You're Genuine.... So are the 36000 other guys on here!
6: Flirty banter and cheesey jokrs?? Are you 12? What's wrong with adult conversation with a view to becoming closer friends over coffee in a decent cafe instead of flirting after 3 seconds?
7: D'you think advertising your past relationships that didn't work out so you opted to jump straight back here for "Bounce back sex" is the best way forward?
And before anyone jumps on this as being unnecessary, OP came here and asked for brutal honesty....so there you go.
Brutally honest opinions.... As he requested "
I actually clapped at the end |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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its always a "wee experiment" when:
a) someone gets busted for lying by omission... p,s hows the wife?
b) a thread doesn't go the way they thought it would.... hence the fabswingers "two step walk back" to try and get out the situation!
only thing missing from the bingo card was "i was only joking!"
you won't be the first.... you won't be the last.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like it was a terrible profile.. Lol I wish I could of seen it.
It amazes me how some men write the worst things ever and then they're baffled because they can't find a woman. |
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Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.
I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too. |
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"Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.
I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too. "
Dnt think you had any abuse just plain speaking. You put what you put then back tracked its fine. Own it. Its your shit to deal with |
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
Status.... hahaha such a little porker. |
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"Guys I really don't have any issues with the abuse, that was the whole reason behind it.
I'm not going to disrespect my friend who has the same text on her profile just so I can justify myself. If people wish not to or to believe me that's no problem but it was simply to show that MOST guys on here are just here for sex and women want to be chased still rather than the misconception they just want sex too. "
That's hardly an earth shattering revelation! |
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
Reading this after all of the'helpful' and 'constructive' feedback made me chuckle. Well played sir |
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"Guys, this was a very very interesting little experiment that I've just had you all take part in.
I used the profile from a woman on here but edited a few little parts to emphasise it wasn't a carbon copy. This lady has had guys message here non stop looking for sex without any questions asked.
However it seems that guys and women are different from what they want on this site because as you all see from the response on here and from the messages I received were very rude and had me being called all sorts.
I have since changed my profile to the real reasons I'm here. But guys, just think about this when you next want to write a profile....be nice, be true and just be friendly to others on here as we're not all sleazebags who just want sex.
Cheers
Good night "
What?
- You took a woman's profile
- You asked for advice on 'your' profile
- People told you it was rubbish
- Now you've reckon it was never your profile in the first place and this shows people should be more friendly
A. What a load of bollocks
B. Even if your story were true, your conclusion that this shows people should be friendlier makes no sense at all.
All we have to judge other people on here is their profile. If it's a profile that makes you sound totally sleazy, people are entitled not to be interested. What are people supposed to think 'oh wait, maybe this guy is just doing an experiment'?!
I'd maybe just delete this profile and start a new one, you've messed this one right up |
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"Experiment? Bullshit. Or do you really want us to believe that you intentionally wasted the time of all the people that posted on this thread?
So which is it? Are you a liar or a timewaster?
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Both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello everyone,
I've been on here for ages now and not had a meet. I've had a woman say to me that my profile does nothing for her, so I decided to edit and changed it but I would really like your honest opinion on it and any positive criticism that could help change my fortunes.
Is it the profile or the pics or both??
Thanks"
in my opinion your write up is ok could maybe do with a little of your personality and some better pics but pics are fine, people can be brutal here and unfortunately some love to share the negativity which is the way this country works bad news sells newspapers and airtime but for me if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all, good luck Op on your return and shame on any guy who sends filthy messages to a woman they've never met, you'll do much better being polite to them |
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