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over a year ago
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Hey! So we just wanted some tips on how people usually start the evening when it comes to swapping partners. Do people usually cuddle other people's partners? Or do they start with their own partner first? Just want to get some ideas or people's own experiences of how their swapping usually starts. Also, when you finish the sex, do people just leave? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does all depend on the couples.
We got to be friends first with a couple before our first time. That way we felt comfy knowing if things where not going well we could stop easy.
It did not happy like that lol we were all so comfy with each other we did different room swaps on our first meet lol |
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When we've invited new couples home, we have a drink downstairs, chat about boundaries, likes and dislikes and so on. Then we go to the bedroom, swap partners and undress one another. Then onto the bed for foreplay and fucking.
When we've all had enough sex we might go down for another drink or they'll dress and leave. Occasionally they'll sleep over in the other bedroom, then we'll have a before-breakfast 4some.
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"Hey! So we just wanted some tips on how people usually start the evening when it comes to swapping partners. Do people usually cuddle other people's partners? Or do they start with their own partner first? Just want to get some ideas or people's own experiences of how their swapping usually starts. Also, when you finish the sex, do people just leave?"
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Not keen on the straight swopping. Does nothing for us. We usually start with some fem/fem action and then the partners join in. All involved (no male bi play tho). This is how we play. Appreciate some like straight swop but its not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys  it's nice to hear different experiences. we don't have any preconceptions, just curious how other people do it or start it is all. We've done single guy play and threesomes but not another couple yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not keen on the straight swopping. Does nothing for us. We usually start with some fem/fem action and then the partners join in. All involved (no male bi play tho). This is how we play. Appreciate some like straight swop but its not for us."
Like this for us.... |
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Just talk, be totally honest with each other and be best freinds. Once you know how to read each other and communication well, just take it slow and things will take its natural course. You will probably always have some hard boundries but you may find that some boundries shift naturally as you go on. Also personally I don't think you can underestimate the value of a good debrief either. It's one the things me and my partner look forward to is talking about things afterwards. |
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It’s sometimes difficult to get started on a private couple-couple meet. You end up having drinks and chat then more chat then more chat until someone cracks and says ‘shall we ...’. Then you can start. Usually we start by swapping partners then kissing, undressing then it’s all natural. Surprisingly natural. |
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We start differently as we don’t kiss others. So, we get the social part out the way and then start with our own partners. Then when we’re all ready, we just naturally swap over.
That’s a different way to most on here. But then we are different. |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
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"We start differently as we don’t kiss others. So, we get the social part out the way and then start with our own partners. Then when we’re all ready, we just naturally swap over.
That’s a different way to most on here. But then we are different."
Same here, in the main..! As has been said already we try not to plan too much. Forfeit games like spin the bottle are a good laugh and help to get the party started but when it get's down to it we prefer to start with our own partners first then things usually progress on their own. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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If its your first time try s club. They are best for no-pressure meets, you get to see potential playmates before committing, and when you have had enough you cam walk away without any complications. It certainly worked for us. |
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What I (Luke) did with a previous partner was for us two couples to start with our own partners. We kissed, touched and undressed each other. That increased the sexual tension in the room with minimal consent issues. Then hands started to cross between the couples which grew to kissing and then more.
It worked quite well starting low-key and letting it grow. |
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