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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I seem to be caught in an unspoken catch 22 of Fab.
I've been told by multiple people now that a lack of Verifications puts people off meeting, even if only for a social.
Yet, I cant get a verification without a meet?
I'm planning an appearance at a local club to try and rectify that, but does anyone have any other hints/tips?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just because you get that veri doesn't mean you'll get more meets. Js"
I'm not expecting to be inundated with meets just because I have a veri  , but since I've been told its putting people off, it cant hurt to get ome or two.
What would you suggest? |
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"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha"
It's possible, message them again once you've got your veri. 
No need to be nervous when you go to the club.
You'll probably get a tour, told the rules and may get introduced to a couple of people.
Treat it as a night out, no expectations, don't be a dick.
You can always ask the club management to verify you.
Don't expect a couple of veris to open the door to clunge central, it probably won't.
But it could help.....
Enjoy your night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So are you saying I was politely fobbed off? Haha
It's possible, message them again once you've got your veri.
No need to be nervous when you go to the club.
You'll probably get a tour, told the rules and may get introduced to a couple of people.
Treat it as a night out, no expectations, don't be a dick.
You can always ask the club management to verify you.
Don't expect a couple of veris to open the door to clunge central, it probably won't.
But it could help.....
Enjoy your night."
Haha cheers pal.
Not expecting the flood gates to open as you say haha. Only here for a bit of fun. If it doesn't happen, it doesnt happen haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.
Signed a single and by no means alone.
What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums
The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.
Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.
Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.
Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?
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When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.
Signed a single and by no means alone.
What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums
The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.
Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.
Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.
Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?
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"The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me."
Really?
If you base your security on the say-so of an overworked picture mod who scans through dozens of pics, and will miss any but the most obvious of fakes, then crack on dude!
Photo veries are pretty much worthless, I could rip a pic of a good-looking couple of the 'net, and make it look like they are holding a piece of paper with our profile name on it, and I'm not that technically-minded. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your help everyone. I'll.lool at going on Cam, have a visit to a club booked, and then just rely on my charm to try and get a social or 2 haha. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
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When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.
Signed a single and by no means alone.
What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums
The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.
Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.
Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.
Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?
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I too have multiple cats. When you have a group of cats it's called a clowder. |
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When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.
Signed a single and by no means alone.
What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums
The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.
Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.
Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.
Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?
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We should start a book club! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I pointed that out to one person. Apparently that means nothing. "You could still be a time waster" was their response. No pleasing some people it seems haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cam veris are useful for couples and females just to prove it's not a sad single guy pretending. For guys? Not so much."
It's a minefield out there isnt it haha. More than 22 catches it seems haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I look at a profile I just want to see photo verified. I see that they get convo on any matter from me.
Signed a single and by no means alone.
What I don’t want to see is an endless list as I am most particular about who I ravish into alternate continuums
The “site” verified you as being who you say and that it good enough for me.
Women and couples (wanton man) are exceedingly rare on here so you have that against you. I am on a 4 year drought myself. My flock of cat numbers to swell though.
Being on here does not equate to me being an easy fucktoy.
Catch 22 is a good book have any of you read it?
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Yes i have |
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