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By *elin44 OP Woman
over a year ago
Bromley |
Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
Nope - just set out your guidelines before a meet & everyone should respect your wishes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
No of course it would be not a problem I have done quite a few mmf meets and it’s great to spit roast the lady then swap around also I think you will enjoy the attention of two guys as they kiss you and touch you and slowly strip you and you will have all the fun of having two lovely cocks |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
Nope, this is the way I do MFM, never had any complaints  |
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It might be worth while meeting with two prospective guys on their own, make sure that your comfortable and able to trust them. Its bad enough to be in a situation where one guy your with doesn't listen, but to be in a situation wheres there is two I imagine is a different kettle of fish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how bi they are. I would happily be involved in that but some would be against it. Yeah as people have stated above make it clear from the beginning that's the plan and it should be good |
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
Not at all, that's how most of her MFMs have been. Enjoy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. |
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"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "
This... Thats been exactly my plan for when im ready for the MFM. Have always said I will have to have full trust in one of the guys before I could even consider it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "
This. Its a great scenario but you need to ensure your safety. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
Im not a big Anal fan or DP either so I'm fine with the spit roast position, or the reverse cowgirl and a guy in front. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?
Im not a big Anal fan or DP either so I'm fine with the spit roast position, or the reverse cowgirl and a guy in front."
I actually enjoy the reverse cowgirl position better, it's harder to keep the cock in your mouth though with the bouncing |
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
You’ll get the guys queuing up......  |
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It's something I've done a few times now with my other half, and I'd say about half the time the scenario was as you've described.
I think other posters have hit the nail on the head-lots of communication with all parties beforehand and be frank about what you're after. If that's not what the guys are after then they'll tell you, but to be honest I can't see it being an issue. I think most guys appreciate that anal and dp aren't exactly "everyday" exploits.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
My friend and I have shared his missus on quite a few occasions and anal/DP was never involved. She just enjoyed us in her mouth and pussy at different times until we both finished inside her.
It think you should definitely have a list of do’s and don’t’s and let them know. Also, some guys might not even want to DP anyway unless they really don’t mind. |
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"Good advice
Thanks.
I need to start communicating better.
Strangly, although I am on fab I am rubbish at being assertive."
Unfortunately being on Fab doesn’t make you assertive. But it can be helpful in working out what you want, and many people (but not all) get negotiating and boundaries |
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
I'm sure 1000s will jump at the chance.
As with any sexual encounter consent is always a must. So if they want more just say no thanks and move on to the next one. |
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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
It’s a question of limits. If that’s what your limits are, then you let the guys know and then they know what to expect. Anyone who gets annoyed or wants to change the terms mid way through is a dick! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
Its not a problem or a deal breaker in our opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not on here. I think you may want to focus on getting one guy you trust, so he can keep an eye on the other guy for you. Little team to help each other with fantasies? As it can be quite a vulnerable position to put yourself in. "
Definitely agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
I’ve enjoyed MFM and have never asked for, or been invited to partake in anal, or DP. Neither are a pre-condition, necessary, or expected for a successful, or enjoyable MFM. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"Im very keen to have 2 guys at once, but just stick to sucking one whilst the other guy fucks me and then swap over.
Im not into anal or DP at this time, do you think that this will be a problem or dealbreaker?"
As long as you set the ground rules like you have you should have no problem at all. |
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"Why not invite guys that you have been with back, you know what they are like , they know you, message them, and invite them "
The best advice on here as you are far more likely to have fun and you should be able to trust them. |
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