Ww arranged a meet last weekend. All seemed to go well and we were enjoying. Ah but......he put condom on and as soon as he entered her he came within 3 seconds.
He was mortified and despite lots of encouragement he left.
Now dilemma is that she enjoyed his touch and taste before he did the deed.
She would like to meet him again and so would I. Thing is should we try again? |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Talk to him not us. It might have been his first meet and the excitement overcame him, is this a problem for him. Also does he want to meet you both.
If it is a problem perhaps help him come quick allow him to recover and then go again, it should last longer. |
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Yes. And hopefully he will appreciate that you have asked him back and his deflated pride won’t get in the way. Tell him about the great things he did with the rest of his touch. A good session is about all sorts of things. |
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"Ww arranged a meet last weekend. All seemed to go well and we were enjoying. Ah but......he put condom on and as soon as he entered her he came within 3 seconds.
He was mortified and despite lots of encouragement he left.
Now dilemma is that she enjoyed his touch and taste before he did the deed.
She would like to meet him again and so would I. Thing is should we try again? "
yes ive done this before where they guys been really nice and pop its over i just gave him a kiss n cuddle and told him he owes me round two in a jokey way ...and i ve met him many times since even the most harden swinging guy can pop too soon |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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If you both want to see him again, definitely do so! Being invited back is the best way of saying it's OK. But make sure he sticks around for another go if it happens again. He'll last a lot longer that time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell him to have a wank in the morning or maybe a couple of hours before you meet 
Nooooooooooooo....Have you not seen the Inbetweeners?  "
Or Something about Mary..... is that.... hair gel?  |
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Give the guy a chance..It might have been something out of the ordinary..Ask for a meet and try to reassure him..If it happens again then fair enough. It can happen to the best of them |
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"Ww arranged a meet last weekend. All seemed to go well and we were enjoying. Ah but......he put condom on and as soon as he entered her he came within 3 seconds.
He was mortified and despite lots of encouragement he left.
Now dilemma is that she enjoyed his touch and taste before he did the deed.
She would like to meet him again and so would I. Thing is should we try again? "
Yes, as a bloke you know it happens. Give him a second chance.
Start slower few drinks and chat to relax you all gentle move into the good stuff . |
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"Nothing worse than a quick cummer!
Plenty of guys on here the opposite I imagine!
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I have to agree. No way would I invest time and effort in meeting again, let alone put a post up discussing their problem. If a long term partner had issues that would be a different matter. For a NSA fuck they need to bring their A game.
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you were happy with everything else and the only thing that didn't work was him cumming too soon - sure, why not try again. I always give a second chance in such situation and the next time is much more relaxed and often works out as expected. |
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I would give him a 2nd chance, it happens and for various reasons.
It happened to me and the poor guy was mortified, I just said I saw it as a compliment and reassured him.
We've met again a few times over the years and he was certainly worth the TLC |
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Yes practice makes perfect. He was clearly enjoying him self so much and was just so fired up. Maybe next time with a bit more familiarity he'd be less over excited. Of course it also depends on his ability to get over the last time and not let worries put him off. But if you got on well and like it's well worth another shot (forgive the pun) in my opinion. |
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