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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
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Have you tried doing other things whilst waiting for her sensitivity to die down?
Alice can cum extremely quickly from oral sometimes. I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. And I pause a bit, allowing her to settle down and for my mouth to be generating some warmth.
My tongue can then begin to lick her lips or enter her. Some women get nothing out of a tongue in their pussy, but Alice's g-spot is close to the front, so she loves it.
All that time, I'm obviously breathing warm hair onto her clit. She soon gets back in the mood for things. 
I discovered this accidentally, because what I used to do was simply rest my tongue on her clit, whilst she recovered, or blew very very gently on her. Over the time, it evolved into the method above.
Even better, as we like a bit of bdsm, I might provide some forced orgasms and keep going. |
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"Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
Thanks "
If you don't want to change then things will remain the same
Ever considered leaving oral until later? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frustrating isn't it?
One of my exes was like this, if she could have kept going for more than 30 seconds at a time she would have been a world class lay, but as it was she was a frustrating lay. |
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"Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
Thanks "
Anal lol |
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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
"Have you tried doing other things whilst waiting for her sensitivity to die down?
Alice can cum extremely quickly from oral sometimes. I think place my mouth over her entire front garden. And I pause a bit, allowing her to settle down and for my mouth to be generating some warmth.
My tongue can then begin to lick her lips or enter her. Some women get nothing out of a tongue in their pussy, but Alice's g-spot is close to the front, so she loves it.
All that time, I'm obviously breathing warm hair onto her clit. She soon gets back in the mood for things.
I discovered this accidentally, because what I used to do was simply rest my tongue on her clit, whilst she recovered, or blew very very gently on her. Over the time, it evolved into the method above.
Even better, as we like a bit of bdsm, I might provide some forced orgasms and keep going. "
Fab idea, I will give it a go and report back thank you. |
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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
"Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
Thanks
If you don't want to change then things will remain the same
Ever considered leaving oral until later?"
Happy to change, hence the post. I think that is a good idea. I will give it a go  |
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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Frustrating isn't it?
One of my exes was like this, if she could have kept going for more than 30 seconds at a time she would have been a world class lay, but as it was she was a frustrating lay. "
This is exactly how it is! |
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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
london |
"Using a wand vibrator over time can diminish the effect of oral sex, damn things  . Have you tried vibrators ?, does she still orgasm quickly ?."
I did not know that will give it a try...thank you |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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"Just to play devils advocate ..
Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?
Lots of women dont."
That would be my first thought too.
Has she said anything about wanting it to go on longer? Unless she has, I don't see any technique working. Either she is faking it, or she finds a really quick orgasm that way to be satisfying and isn't bothered it then stops play. In which case, maybe you are not well matched sexually? |
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"Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
Thanks "
Within seconds and then can't do much else hmm I suggest you get her to suck you pleasure you and you fuck her all you can before you make her cum or find someone else buddy. |
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By *amest47 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just to play devils advocate ..
Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?
Lots of women dont."
I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it. |
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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago
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"Just to play devils advocate ..
Is she actually coming or pretending because she doesn't like oral?
Lots of women dont.
I have asked her, as I thought it might be a possibility. But is says she loves it. "
Does she want it to last longer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.  "
Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.
Now that’s hot! I thought this was horrid at first, but after a few times it can be a real turn on especially for the lady. Plus you get used to it x"
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After a clitoral orgasm, direct stimulation will be too sensitive for some time. Instead, I find some gentle rubbing around the pubic region works and then gradually leading to more intense play as the sensitivity wears off. Fingering of the vaginal walls for G-spot stimulation is another option and of course there's plenty of non-genital erogenous zones for you to play with.
Every woman is different in their response and recovery and that's part of the pleasure in learning how best to adapt to their likes. |
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Following from last night - when we met with another woman who, like Alice, can cum quickly - I have to repeat my previous advice.
Our friend last night enjoyed a tongue in her pussy (after a clitoral orgasm). As I did so, my nose and upper lip would gently rub against her clit. It turned out to be a great way to gradually gauge her level of sensitivity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I cum quite quickly whilst rubbing my clit during intercourse. Or oral. We take 5. Then carry on. No touching my clit. Although he tries. I love the sensitivity I feel inside. So I retaliate when he cums. whoop gets him squirming. But, each to their own. X |
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.
This is a preference.....Mr D  "
No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
The Lady always cums first.
Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again.
Ooh, I'm getting turned-on! |
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"Hi all,
I recently hooked up with a lady for a non committed relationship. However, when I go down on her she cums within secs and then is to sensitive to do anything else. The longest she has lasted is 5mins tops. any ideas how to prolong this? Of course, I know not doing oral is an option....but I like it!
Thanks "
5 mins isn’t a bad something we struggle to get past the first minute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My clit is incredibly sensitive when I’ve orgasmed to the point I can’t bear it to be touched. However it only usually takes me a few minutes to recover and I’m raring to go again. In that time I’ll keep myself occupied by pleasuring my playmate.
Are you saying that she’s not interested in any kind of sexual contact after she’s come? I’ve never come across that and totally understand why you’d find it frustrating 
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By *he LsCouple
over a year ago
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I cum quickly but I also cum lots and like it that way. It helps that Mr L is large and hits my g spot straight away. He is also very good at oral and we usually start with that.
I wouldn't cope if it only lasted 30 seconds or 5 minutes each time and neither would he lol! |
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"Save the oral until after you’ve cum inside her.
This is a preference.....Mr D
No. No. No. No. No. No. No.
The Lady always cums first.
Then cum inside her. Then lick it out. Then she cums again.
Ooh, I'm getting turned-on! "
Exactly this, fem is always top priority anyway  |
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So I forgot to close the loop on this.
We are no longer seeing each other, it was a mutual, that is how it goes sometimes.
We where fuck buddies for around a year, met up at least once a week. She got better over time and she managed to last alot longer. I dont think her pervious partners had done it to her, so it just took some time. Also we had a good convo about it and communication between us improved, so we would do 5 mins, she was close to cumming, she would tell me, i would stop and switch, then go back after a few mins and repeat. After a while it was totally fi ne. Anyway thanks for all the advice. Just thought I would close the loop. X |
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By *enelope2UWoman 29 weeks ago
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Learn to properly edge her vs trying to destroy her and verify thst you are actually good at it and it not just be a means to end it..
You might be too assertive which at the moment yesss feels good but YESS can be too sensitive for durational. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 29 weeks ago
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"So I forgot to close the loop on this.
We are no longer seeing each other, it was a mutual, that is how it goes sometimes.
We where fuck buddies for around a year, met up at least once a week. She got better over time and she managed to last alot longer. I dont think her pervious partners had done it to her, so it just took some time. Also we had a good convo about it and communication between us improved, so we would do 5 mins, she was close to cumming, she would tell me, i would stop and switch, then go back after a few mins and repeat. After a while it was totally fi ne. Anyway thanks for all the advice. Just thought I would close the loop. X "
Makes sense |
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