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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been on this site for a while now coming back and forth but I’ve never ever met anyone, I’d like to but I’m worried about a premature ejaculation problem.
As soon as I enter a lady I explode I just can not stop myself with the excitement I’ve tried delay creams and masturbating first but that just spoilts it for my friends that enjoy cum.
I’m looking for tips and advice - is it normal? Or I should say common? |
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"I’ve been on this site for a while now coming back and forth but I’ve never ever met anyone, I’d like to but I’m worried about a premature ejaculation problem.
As soon as I enter a lady I explode I just can not stop myself with the excitement I’ve tried delay creams and masturbating first but that just spoilts it for my friends that enjoy cum.
I’m looking for tips and advice - is it normal? Or I should say common?"
Difficult not to cum quickly on a first meet lol... You might find you last longer on successive meets ? |
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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago
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I worry when someone takes too long to cum, it makes me think they’re not enjoying themselves! It puts me off when I see on profiles that they can last for hours
1) I don’t have the stamina
2) As I said I think I’m doing it wrong
It has been pointed out to me that endurance can be learnt by guys who have had lots of meets and that’s just the way they are though |
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I went through a phase worrying about how long I lasted, worrying just made it worse. I’m very lucky I can talk to my wife, we did and we found some positions where I lasted longer and it restored my confidence.
I worried about being a good lover.
Me cumming quickly really turns her on though too because she loves how I lose control with her so it was a double edged sword.
People worry too much and don’t talk enough.
We all like different things at different times, the key is being able to talk and listening to your partners body.
For us, great sex is much a mental thing as a physical one. |
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