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Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice? |
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"Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice? "
i get a lot of TVs looking at my profile - and I am a man - never occured to me that is may be because I am asian (though of Indian origin) - though your explanation may be the reason.
To be honest - not sure why?!
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Possibly the Ladyboy fantasy they have and are more hoping you're originally from Thailand. Also it would help if they read your profile and properly looked at your pictures as well.
Obviously I'm just guessing but you certainly look like what you are, a Woman  |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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Well I just looked at your profile and I think you look amazing, and really if they cant tell you are a woman they are just idiots.
Not worthy of a response imo and I would ignore them.
I used to get offended easily when I first joined fab, but now I am immune to the idiots we are surrounded by...I think you have to not take it to heart x
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"Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice? "
Dear Jasmine, this is just bizarre. It is very clear that you are a beautiful woman. Whatever is motivating such comments, it is not because of anything you are saying or showing on your profile. If you can, just ignore such messages. It’s always the few hurtful comments that register far more than the multitude of compliments, but I’m guessing the compliments are abundant. Try to let the few negative ones go, they aren’t worth worrying about. Kisses, A&G Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice? "
I don't think it has anything to do with your ethnicity. I think it may be because there are no pics of your intimate parts like every other profile on here. So they may be second guessing! That is my 2 cents.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice? "
Ignore and block. You're gorgeous and don't need to put up with that crap. |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
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"Strangely the past month, i been getting unsolicited messages from men asking if I am a transgender or transvestite. Naturally I am insulted/offended as I am a naturally a woman, born and grew up as a woman... Is it just because I am asian? Not sure how to really deal with this. Any advice?
Ignore and block. You're gorgeous and don't need to put up with that crap."
This! Plus they should’ve gone to Specsavers! |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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There are an awful lot of idiots on here who can't manage to spend a couple of minutes reading a profile - don't allow yourself to be offended by them, delete, block and feel sorry for them. |
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Oh wow I'm so used to being trolled on fab... This has been such a uplifting response from kind and wonderful people... Thanks guys... I do have a bit of feminine complex as iam very althetic looking rather than slim and feminine but i definitely all female and afew lucky men on fab gets to see more of me on here... But with great quality plastic surgery, it can be difficult for the untrained eye to see what is a natural woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe because of the way you worded the profile.
I've seen tvs going on about cock more than women.
I've never thought you were a TV. You are a hot looking lady. |
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"They could be doing it purposefully to try and get a reply out of you (the whole 'negging' thing). "
Tbh the last guy who asked me.. We were flirting for abit... Then he ruined it by asking me that. When i said no and i felt insulted that he asked... He just replied "he didn't mind if i did say i am and its just best to be honest about it"... A further insult accusing me of lying. A genuine woman knows what absolute pain periods are!! Lol |
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Maybe because of the way you worded the profile.
I've seen tvs going on about cock more than women.
I've never thought you were a TV. You are a hot looking lady. "
I can't help it if i have a big cock fetish  
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Maybe because of the way you worded the profile.
I've seen tvs going on about cock more than women.
I've never thought you were a TV. You are a hot looking lady.
I can't help it if i have a big cock fetish
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"Possibly the Ladyboy fantasy they have and are more hoping you're originally from Thailand. Also it would help if they read your profile and properly looked at your pictures as well.
Obviously I'm just guessing but you certainly look like what you are, a Woman "
Oic I'm happy to hear from a TV/TS about this. Tbh my colleague once told me she worked with a Thai transgender and genuinely was shocked to find out she used to be a man. She said she just couldn't tell. Main difference is women get horrible periods! I hate pms! Lol |
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"Possibly the Ladyboy fantasy they have and are more hoping you're originally from Thailand. Also it would help if they read your profile and properly looked at your pictures as well.
Obviously I'm just guessing but you certainly look like what you are, a Woman
Oic I'm happy to hear from a TV/TS about this. Tbh my colleague once told me she worked with a Thai transgender and genuinely was shocked to find out she used to be a man. She said she just couldn't tell. Main difference is women get horrible periods! I hate pms! Lol"
Been to Thailand a few times, they say the more feminine a girl looks, the more likely she used to be or is currently a guy. So you could take it as a compliment 
However in all seriousness, I think it was well out of order sending you that message, as if all Asian ladies (unfortunately very few on here) are actually Transgender. Hope you find someone with more tact and better eyesight |
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"Possibly the Ladyboy fantasy they have and are more hoping you're originally from Thailand. Also it would help if they read your profile and properly looked at your pictures as well.
Obviously I'm just guessing but you certainly look like what you are, a Woman
Oic I'm happy to hear from a TV/TS about this. Tbh my colleague once told me she worked with a Thai transgender and genuinely was shocked to find out she used to be a man. She said she just couldn't tell. Main difference is women get horrible periods! I hate pms! Lol
Been to Thailand a few times, they say the more feminine a girl looks, the more likely she used to be or is currently a guy. So you could take it as a compliment
However in all seriousness, I think it was well out of order sending you that message, as if all Asian ladies (unfortunately very few on here) are actually Transgender. Hope you find someone with more tact and better eyesight "
Someone who a real intelligent gentleman would make me very happy to meet. So far I haven't met him yet.  |
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