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tore my gf experementing with fisting need advice! where did we go wrong?
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 and most importanly, how long do you think we should leave it before we try again?
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"Not surprised you're recently single ripping her open like that !"new relationship only been together a couple of weeks | |||
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"I think you should at least give her some time to heal before you worry about how soon you can do it again Im sure she will let you know when she is ready Try being a bit more careful next time Hope you havent caused her permanent damage x" im sure she will, but i dont want to be doing ANYTHING to soon as i dont want to hurt her | |||
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"i wonder if op would be wanting some sort of time scale for getting laid again if he had his forskin ripped or some simalar injury ??? your partner im sure will let you know when SHES ready for sex again .im just shocked that your concern is getting your end away and how you can try fisting again !! if my partner was in here posting this id be kneeing him in the balls and see then how quick he wanted sex! if you are concerned at all about your partner then your priority should be her and her health . from what you said id say she needs to get checked by a doctor and maybe even stitches." "How bloody selfish!!! How long before you can get laid again!!! Jeeze " i think some people on here miss-understand me!!! I'm NOT CONCERNED FOR MYSELF. as with most people on this site me and my partner have a very high sex drive. We want to know some sort of timescale that we can play again without risking hurting her!!! Yes i have torn my forskin before so id appreciate you get off your high horse - i came here to ask for help and advice NOT to be critasized. I have tried to talk my gf into going to the doctors - i have told her there is nothing to be embarased about and that i'll be with her. My GF is still talking about her wanting me to fist her, bless her even after this incident - she's still determined, i told her i wont try that again for some considerable amount of time. I love my GF to bits and my first concern is her safety and well-being, if she's not feeling any better in the next day or so i'll be dragging her kicking and screaming to get it checked out!! | |||
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"you post in a forum and people will answer as they see appropriate .you cant just have people say what you want to hear to placate you . you first say your partner is bleeding and in alot of pain and then your only questions centre around how to do it next time , how quick will the next time be and when you will get laid !!! listing one of those as the most important question !!! i stand behind exactly what i said and the ONE and ONLY thing that should be your focus is her wellbeing. or am i just on my high horse again being so daft as to think her being in ANY pain should be the priority and not ur sexual antics ." Sorry, but I agree.. She's in pain and you're thinking about when you can try it again? | |||
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"i did lol ! but origional post states when would YOU get laid , not when you could both play again . plus i again make the point even if shes gagging for sex ,surely your one and ONLY concern should be her health as youve no idea what dammage could of been caused . but hey thats just what my concern would be "  | |||
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"i wonder if op would be wanting some sort of time scale for getting laid again if he had his forskin ripped or some simalar injury ??? your partner im sure will let you know when SHES ready for sex again .im just shocked that your concern is getting your end away and how you can try fisting again !! if my partner was in here posting this id be kneeing him in the balls and see then how quick he wanted sex! if you are concerned at all about your partner then your priority should be her and her health . from what you said id say she needs to get checked by a doctor and maybe even stitches. How bloody selfish!!! How long before you can get laid again!!! Jeeze i think some people on here miss-understand me!!! I'm NOT CONCERNED FOR MYSELF. as with most people on this site me and my partner have a very high sex drive. We want to know some sort of timescale that we can play again without risking hurting her!!! Yes i have torn my forskin before so id appreciate you get off your high horse - i came here to ask for help and advice NOT to be critasized. I have tried to talk my gf into going to the doctors - i have told her there is nothing to be embarased about and that i'll be with her. My GF is still talking about her wanting me to fist her, bless her even after this incident - she's still determined, i told her i wont try that again for some considerable amount of time. I love my GF to bits and my first concern is her safety and well-being, if she's not feeling any better in the next day or so i'll be dragging her kicking and screaming to get it checked out!!" You're asking strangers on the internet for medical advice? Why do you think I think that's dubious... | |||
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"It could be an external tear, but it could also be a cervical tear caused by a sharp fingernail or the fact that you were stretching her vaginal vault and effectively caused a small tear in her cervix. She needs to get checked out ASAP. If the bleeding and/or pain is still there, A&E or a Walk in Centre. Dont risk leaving it and ending up with a Blue Light Taxi ride. Even if the symptoms have abated, she should be seen at the doctors at the earliest possible opportunity. " Good advice | |||
"Surely being in pain should have been the point you stopped?" | |||
"agrees with Sensual Temptations. I read the OP the same way ...." agreed. it does come across that way. I've got very broad hands. I find it really difficult to ever form up and use the whole hand. I'm contented to have to abort mission sometimes rather than inflict any form of injury, even superficial. High days and holidays and with a hefty wad of jizz as a lube it might just be possible, but I can do all I need to do with a couple of fingers anyway. Wolf 
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" I love my GF to bits and my first concern is her safety and well-being, if she's not feeling any better in the next day or so i'll be dragging her kicking and screaming to get it checked out!!" In the next day or so | |||
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"exactly.... thats y im here... i want to make her happy and this is something she wants to do...! how should you do it propperly?? so far the only advice i've been given is to take her to the hospital.... doing that today!!! and use lots of lube!!! need to know more about technique" Depending on the where the tear is she will have a scar and scar tissue. Now I'm no doctor, but none of the scars I have would have been improved by repeating the damage too soon after the event. That's why you get stood down from boxing after a cut, to let the scar heal. Concentrate on getting the healing right first, and remember if you do ever try again, that fisting is like a polite person eating a KitKat - it's done patiently, one finger at a a time... | |||
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"As _wayman said if you really want to do this take your time nice and slow one finger at a time and get her very wet but if i were you i wouldnt try it for a while as your gf needs time to heal xx Him xx" Yes listen to the man with big hands who very pleasantly surprised me | |||
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"did you take your watch off " | |||
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"Which brings me to another question. If a lady's big enough to take a fist, do you lose sensation when using a penis? Awaiting posts from guys with a dick the circumference of a fist.... "Actually you will find after its tighter.. so should be good for you both. Cali | |||
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"i wonder if op would be wanting some sort of time scale for getting laid again if he had his forskin ripped or some simalar injury ??? your partner im sure will let you know when SHES ready for sex again .im just shocked that your concern is getting your end away and how you can try fisting again !! if my partner was in here posting this id be kneeing him in the balls and see then how quick he wanted sex! if you are concerned at all about your partner then your priority should be her and her health . from what you said id say she needs to get checked by a doctor and maybe even stitches. How bloody selfish!!! How long before you can get laid again!!! Jeeze i think some people on here miss-understand me!!! I'm NOT CONCERNED FOR MYSELF. as with most people on this site me and my partner have a very high sex drive. We want to know some sort of timescale that we can play again without risking hurting her!!! Yes i have torn my forskin before so id appreciate you get off your high horse - i came here to ask for help and advice NOT to be critasized. I have tried to talk my gf into going to the doctors - i have told her there is nothing to be embarased about and that i'll be with her. My GF is still talking about her wanting me to fist her, bless her even after this incident - she's still determined, i told her i wont try that again for some considerable amount of time. I love my GF to bits and my first concern is her safety and well-being, if she's not feeling any better in the next day or so i'll be dragging her kicking and screaming to get it checked out!!" ASK A DOCTOR!! | |||
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" i think some people on here miss-understand me!!! I'm NOT CONCERNED FOR MYSELF. as with most people on this site me and my partner have a very high sex drive. We want to know some sort of timescale that we can play again without risking hurting her!!! Yes i have torn my forskin before so id appreciate you get off your high horse - i came here to ask for help and advice NOT to be critasized. I have tried to talk my gf into going to the doctors - i have told her there is nothing to be embarased about and that i'll be with her. My GF is still talking about her wanting me to fist her, bless her even after this incident - she's still determined, i told her i wont try that again for some considerable amount of time. I love my GF to bits and my first concern is her safety and well-being, if she's not feeling any better in the next day or so i'll be dragging her kicking and screaming to get it checked out!!" Sorry but an unbelievable set of Questions! Seek medical advice from those qualified! I can only imagine the pressure you applied to have torn her! Perhaps break a couple of your knuckles first!dometimes these kind of practises just aren't going to work! | |||
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"hey all wondering if anyone can help me. my gf suggested trying fisting over this weekend, we was doing really well till we got to the nuckles - over the weekend we had attempted a few times. we used plenty of lube and finally made it nearly all the way in unfortunatly it ended up a bit messy. she tore and has been bleeding a lot, and is in a lot of pain. can anyone explain the propper technique for me?, how long will it take to heal? how long before i can get laid again? and most importanly, how long do you think we should leave it before we try again?
cheers peeps"should of used some engine oil for lube | |||
" The ‘Rules’* of Fist Club " I thought rule two was 'you never talk about fist club' | |||
